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 Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 7:29 pm
4laugh So I'm just now after five years coming out to people and telling them my sexuality( which I'm Bisexual by the way)... But I have a problem..(I think????).... My mom is totally cool with me and my preferences in fact she is rather happy that I'm truly happy this way... But I feel like I'm confused as in what I REALLY like... I mean I do like boys but not enough to make me straight but not really enough to be bi either.. In all honesty I prefer girls better... they are much more understanding and better at a whole lot of things than boys can in my opinion because they know what I like and how I like it... So is it that I'm holding on to feeling for the past that keeps me liking boys or is that a natural instinct... Please HELP!!!!! crying
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 7:37 pm
It may just be that you have an emotional connection with girls that you haven't found with a guy yet; it's not necessarily that you're not a bisexual. That's not to say it's impossible that you're not a bisexual, but keep an open mind. The question really is, are you physically, sexually attracted to both men and women (if, for example, you found a hot guy who is understanding and "knows how you like it")?
Another possibility is that you're bisexual, but can't make a real connection with guys, so that you'll end up with a girl no matter what.
However you feel, don't try too hard to label yourself, especially if you haven't had time to explore your sexuality thoroughly.
(Congratz btw on coming out!)
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 8:06 pm
I believe they call that being "homoflexible"
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 8:13 pm
sweatdrop Okay thanks... I am sexually attracted to females... And with males I think it's just not the same.. I mena it's no connection the feeling is just a feeling and nothing more... But I think I do need more time to explore myself and see who I really am before the labeling begins
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2011 10:28 pm
Yeah, well, good luck with that. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 6:06 pm
Aw I'm sorry sad I think being bi is so much more confusing than gay since you have to figure out if you like both sad
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 6:14 pm
Dont worry, you're not alone there. sweatdrop
But don't worry about it. Like whoever you like and just be who you are. You'll figure it out in time. (That's what I'm doing, at least).
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 6:44 pm
Remember, sexuality is about sex, not romance. It is my hopes that you shall experience no small amount of both in your life, but the latter only muddies the water on what seems to be a complex issue.
Don't let gender stereotyping get in the way even further. There are very few purely masculine of feminine traits that hold true across the board. There are even fewer in the LBGT community. What you site against males seemed to be based on gender stereotypes, be they societal or your own invention. You'll never know for sure as long as those continue to guide you.
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Posted: Tue Jun 28, 2011 10:37 am
well hun seems like ur going throw wat most do, it will take some time, but u will figure it out, its not like its a life or death situation, so u have all the time in the world, i do agree that girls are more understanding, and in my opinion more intersting but ur also getting this from a lesbian >.< but either way u have plenty of time and it will come to u
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Posted: Tue Jun 28, 2011 10:52 am
Nice to know there are people out there in the same boat as me xd
you've seem to have given a great deal more thought though eek I just go with bi so its 'okay' to go out with anyone should feel like it. since i've yet to decide where exactly i am.......lol my bf better hope im not lesbian xd
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