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 Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 6:16 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me Friday.
8(
And somehow, because he's such a great guy and because we've been friends for so long we don't know how to not be friends, we're still really close friends. I'm not mad at him either.
I'm just hurt, but not broken.
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:08 pm
I dont really see or understand the problem then. If you two can be friends, then stay friends.
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:10 pm
wow sorry to hear, First off thats great you can still be friends, Im still friends with my ex-Gf(dated for 3 and a half years) im sure you can find happiness ^^
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:12 pm
We are.
It just hurts a lot. And well, the more I can stop myself from internalizing it and keeping it in, the better off I'll be.
Selfish I know, but it's how I know I'll be able to heal.
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:19 pm
Madison de Point du Lac
We are.
It just hurts a lot. And well, the more I can stop myself from internalizing it and keeping it in, the better off I'll be.
Selfish I know, but it's how I know I'll be able to heal. I think it's better to let it out and get any pain off your mind, have a good cru if you need it and work from there
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:22 pm
Yeah.
I've talked with a lot of my friends about it, and it's helped a lot.
But I'm still randomly breaking down and crying because something reminded me of something, or it hits me again when I'm not keeping myself busy.
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:25 pm
Madison de Point du Lac
Yeah.
I've talked with a lot of my friends about it, and it's helped a lot.
But I'm still randomly breaking down and crying because something reminded me of something, or it hits me again when I'm not keeping myself busy. yep best remedy to anything is support,caring friends and a positive attitude
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:30 pm
Yep. that's what I'm trying.
It's hard what with feeling gutted to the core and all, but i'm trying.
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:31 pm
I'm sorry to hear that, but happy for your lasting friendship. Sometimes there is just not enough chemistry for a romance, but you have both learned a lot about one another, and a friend is still a wonderful thing. Don't worry, keep your chin up and someday you will run into someone who works just right with you. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:33 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:38 pm
Madison de Point du Lac
Yeah.
I've talked with a lot of my friends about it, and it's helped a lot.
But I'm still randomly breaking down and crying because something reminded me of something, or it hits me again when I'm not keeping myself busy. I know how that is. I just got out of a 8 year relationship 2 years ago. Its trippy going some where you went to before without that person thier. I just try to avoid sisutations like that as much as possible. Keeping yourself busy can only work for so long, trust me I know. Sometime you just gotta face it head on, to over come something.
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:41 pm
Ouch man. I feel for you.
And I do plan on facing it head on. I'm hanging out with him Friday.
If I don't, I know I won't have the courage to do so and it would just start a downward spiral and start things crumbling.
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:44 pm
I'm sorry for you, but this is the wrong section ;x
I'll have to move this to life issues, k?
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:48 pm
OH man. I'm sorry. ^^;
Sure thing.
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Posted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 3:39 pm
With situations like this, you just have to give it time.
Good luck.
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