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 Posted: Sun May 03, 2009 10:43 am
My friend Samy has a boyfriend in real named Sam (yean kinda weird with the same thing XD but whatever) but she also has a boyfriend on the internet named Seth.... She cybers him and stuff (*shutters*) and Sam doesn't even know about it! do you think that its actually consitered cheeting, or just "role playing" ?
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Posted: Sun May 03, 2009 1:25 pm
Personal opinion - she is online talking or rather typing what she would do. Basically that is the same as thinking about doing it. Now if thinking about doing it was cheating - I think everyone on this planet would be guilty ... wink
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Posted: Sun May 03, 2009 1:45 pm
true xd thanks for ur option blood, tho i think its still a bit creepy burning_eyes shes 12, and sybering a 15 year old guy online eek and he knows shes 12 too... neutral
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Posted: Mon May 04, 2009 3:31 am
Oh dear lord.
There's a lot of "too young to be thinking about let alone doing" rants that come to mind
but I'll spare you my oh so very behind the times rambling.
I will say from where I'm standing? It's cheating.
I would be sickend if my boyfriend did this and know he would be if he thought I were doing something like that. I won't even participate in "suggestive" roleplay because I think it's a bit too close to crossing that line.
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 12:58 pm
i'm debating if i should talk to her about it or not confused she doesn't meany anything about it..... but also its kind of like, shes 12!!!!! she souldn't even be datting let alone that stuff! >-< yeah, i know i'm 13 and "secretly" datting, but hell i dont even want to think about that stuff >-< ugh, shes just starting to piss me off, (and i'm done ranting now XD sorry people, i just kinda dont stop typing some times ^^")
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Posted: Fri Jun 05, 2009 6:06 pm
Call it cheating or not it actually depends on the person who's doing it, if she wants to think it that way.
But to me, its not a big deal. Its just RP's. but your friend shouldnt do it, she already has a real boyfriend, cant she get enough. mrgreen
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Posted: Sat Nov 21, 2009 10:23 pm
I think the line has to be drawn to state if they are actually RPing or cheating. I can have a friend that I use to roleplay with, and our characters are in love with each other and 'cyber' together. I'd consider this roleplaying, as it is. On the other hand, I can have a 'friend' that I roleplay with, 'cybering' with that person, without the use of any characters. I would consider this cheating.
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Posted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 1:18 am
I'm with Wicked on this one, down to what my fiance and I would think of the other, and my refusal to participate in suggestive roleplay. Your friend's way too young to be doing that kind of thing, in my opinion. Granted I understand that puberty is a very hormonal time and a kid doesn't know what all to do with all that. Been there, done that. But still, I don't approve one iota. I'm pretty conservative like that.
Now where it crosses the line between cheating and RPing sexually, is what Arctic mentioned. If they're not using characters, then I would consider it cheating. But if they are, then they're RPing sexually. I don't approve of either one, but I would suggest you talk to her about it. It's not fair to the other guy to find out that he IS the other guy. At all. She's not respecting of them if she doesn't tell them what's going on here. Sam at least deserves to know what's going on.
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Posted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 3:43 pm
Yeah,You should talk to her about it.I mean really,12 years old?
Go to one of those little chat room thingies on youtube called streams,They ALL know what cybering is,They know how it screws up your mind.
Chances are she is going to leave one of them to stay with the other.
So what I'm saying,She has the choice to live a good life,Or she has the choice to grow up to be a 400 pound 50 year old virgin who goes on the computer 24/7. aka,A no life.
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