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 Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 2:47 pm
Alrighty peoples. Here is My debate. We all know Homosexuals, Bisexuals, Transgendered and everyone else. [I'm not excluding you all, I just don't feel like typing, but if any of you are. I will take the time to type them out.] Bisexuals, we know them and love them. And for those of you who don't know what Bisexual means; its a person having a sexual orientation to persons of either sex. Now, I have No problem with them at all. [I loves them. <3] But there are people who think they should just pick one side. Homosexual or straight. Well, thats what we are here to debate, what do you think? And I don't want short answers like "Oh, they don't have to." I want long responsive answers explain yourselves.
<3
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Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 2:59 pm
rawr.
i love bisexuals. sometimes i disagree with the word, but other times, it seems perfectly fine. because pansexuals count, too; people tend to get those mixed up, or something wrong with them when they say that people are bi or pan. i think that bisexual is a sexuality, and should be counted in the random list of sexualities. i think that not everyone can be attracted to just one sex. some people are just attracted to girls, and some, just guys. but it /is/ possible to be attracted to both. some people can prefer one over the other and be attracted to both. but, after a while it gets confusing and you don't want to deal with thinking about it anymore. but, yes, bisexuality is a sexuality in my opinion. being attracted to both girls and guys is possible, and it happens. a lot. there's probably more bisexual people than people with only one preference. or just gay people. who knows. but, that's what i've observed. =]
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Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 4:15 pm
GOOD-BYE MY ALMOST LOVER ❝ Your fingertips, across my skin,
the palm trees swayin' in the wind, images.... ❞ I'm bisexual, but I have to admit, it does get really confusing.
Some days I'm more attracted to women, others-men. I currently have a girlfriend but I'm still a virgin of either. And I know people would say, " Then how can you know you're bisexual if you'd never had sex with either gender? "
Well here's the thing:
I can get hot over big-a** tits.
I can also get hot over sexy, nicely formed abs.
Sometimes it's a mixture of the two.
All in all it gets pretty tiring, especially when your hormones are all whacked-up because you just finished your period.
But hey, I'm just sayin'. ❝ You sang me Spanish lullabies,
the sweetest sadness in your eyes, clever trick... ❞
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Posted: Sun May 17, 2009 9:09 am
I say they shouldn't have to choose a side, love is love, personalitys differ between genders, why should they have to choose?
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Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 2:16 pm
The problem with bisexuality is that in pop culture today, it's the "hip" and "in thing." Every little emo boy says "Oh, yeah, I'm totally bi" for the attention, and maybe he'll even make out with some other boys just to "prove" himself... but ultimately, most young bisexuals are just faking it for the cool points, or have their hormones so ******** up from being stuck in the middle of puberty that they're just plain confused.
Bisexuality exists, yes. It's out there -- there are bisexual people. But most people (at least the young ones) who claim to be bisexual really aren't. When it boils down to it, though, it doesn't even matter. Your sexuality isn't something you can choose or control, and even if you're one of those silly little boys with hair like a cotton candy raccoon (see: scene) desperately wanting to change his sexuality for cool points, it's ok. It's not up to us to judge and condemn you.
On a related note: according to THE ALMIGHTY LORD THAT IS SCIENCE, women are not born with static sexualities; rather, theirs are fluid. That means that while their sexuality begins at one common starting point (heterosexual/lesbian), over time they may become attracted to other women. However, they only become attracted to individual women with whom they've developed an emotional bond -- they don't become fully heterosexual or lesbian due to that one attraction. That is to say, truly heterosexual or homosexual women do not exist.
This differs in men, who are born with a static sexuality. Aside from hormone imbalances during puberty, nothing can effect a man's sexuality, whether it be homosexual, heterosexual, or whatever else that ever-comical b*****d in the sky decided to give them.
That's just my two cents, though.
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Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 6:51 pm
personally, i agree with everything being said here. I, too, am bisexual and it can be the most confusing thing ever. or one of them at least. However there is one thing that i have to disagree with. Saying that men/guys/boys cannot be bisexual is wrong in my opinion. Being bisexual isn't just something that has to do with... well.. sex, as some people make it out to be. Being bisexual is the same as being any other sexuality. Meaning, yes somethings are sexual, others aren't. for example. I know a straight couple who have been together for about 2 years and they have never had sex, but that doesn't bother them, because they are in love. I also know of a gay couple that have been together for just about the same time frame. However, one person in both of these relationships IS bisexual, and it's not the female in the straight.
As a matter of fact, the two bisexual guys in the example actually SWITCHED partners to form the relationships they are in now. So to say that men/guys/boys cannot be bisexual is wrong, to me. I don't care what any science says, personally. I know what true love is, and I've seen it in these people. Love is love, no matter how you put it, and no scientifical stuff can ever define, or change that.
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Inquisitive Conversationalist
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Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 8:27 pm
Heres my two cents, straight from the peanut gallery:
I agree with what most has been said here, love is love, you shouldn't have to deny your feelings wether if its for someone of the same or opposite sex. Its what ever floats you boat and makes you feel happy or accomplished, or whatever. Bisexual is a sexuality, it just means you like both, it doesnt mean you like to have a sexual relationship. sex in and of its self refers to the sex of the person, male or female. When attached to Bi, that just means both. So going off and thinking that bisexual means they have sex with both can irritate me at times. Then I go off into a tirade and usually at that point I've lost my audience due to my loud voiucing of opinions. So short and sweet; you are who you are, and hope that significant other appreciates that.
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