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 Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 8:23 am
is it just me....or does it seem like no matter what you do its never the right thing? cuz me and a friend are in a fight right now...and no matter what i do she still says i'm not paying enough attion to her and thats all i do!! is talk about her her her her and her again.
can any body help me?
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 8:49 am
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 1:19 pm
It's not that you aren't right. You two probobly think in different ways. I'd suggest straight out asking that person how they feel. Chances are you've been trying to figure out what you've done wrong, not why she is so upset. Ask her how her day was or something. If she still complains, don't even bother talking to her. Simple, yes?
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 6:07 pm
Look ask her what you're doing wrong, I assume you'll take a good hard look at what you are, if she's being bitchy, unreasonable, or manipulative, then she's in the wrong and tell her so. Don't be nice to people who won't appreciate it.
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 9:10 pm
Some people just can't get along for extended periods of time.
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 9:21 am
Obscurus Some people just can't get along for extended periods of time.
In my opinion I would just ask her how you're not paying enough attention to her. You probably won't find out any other way.
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Posted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 3:58 pm
ok....i'll try all that you all have told me to do....wish me some luck...ugh...i'll let you know what happends...
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Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 6:46 pm
shes still bitching....i'll just dump her like she did me....i hope its the right thing to do.... sad
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Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 12:26 am
So-chan 15 shes still bitching....i'll just dump her like she did me....i hope its the right thing to do.... sad
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Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 7:52 pm
Joshua_Ritter So-chan 15 shes still bitching....i'll just dump her like she did me....i hope its the right thing to do.... sad I agree.
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 6:35 am
Right and wrong are a function of point of view, not absolutes. But philosophy aside, just give it time. Let things settle. It is unlikely either of you are seeing clearly right now and that's part of the problem.
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Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 9:20 am
So-chan 15 shes still bitching....i'll just dump her like she did me....i hope its the right thing to do.... sad I had a fight like that a few days ago. My friend was acting like an Fing emo kid about her magic life and her reality life. /: She's still holding that grudge, picks up the phone and declines my calls. She's probably locked up in her room acting like an emo kid. Anywho, just ignore her for a few days. She'll get the point she was acting like an ... and will say sorry. If she doesn't, then she doesn't deserve you! D:<
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Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 7:51 pm
i'll domy best to do what you all have said....i dont think shes getting the piont though...i'll keep you updated.
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 4:13 am
yes! she finaly relized! she apologiesed *sp? o.O* and now shes treating me with way way more respect! THANK YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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