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Poor Dolly
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why would a man want to feel bigger......hmmmmmmmmm

like is this even a hard thing to comprehend for some people?


One would generally assume that it IS hard to comprehend for someone who feels the need to ask the question. Like, get it?


no like literally. why is it hard to comprehend. think about it in basic terms.

when a guy is big he is considered __________
when a girl is small she is considered ___________

hint: it relates to their gender.


Ooh that's a brain buzzer. Since it makes so much sense to you, please tell me, why is it that small=feminine and tall=masculine? What is so wrong with being a tall woman that it puts men off, hmm?


because that's how society has evolved.

strong = worker. men = worker
woman doesn't need to be strong. she's the woman.

if you appear bigger, see stronger or taller, you appear more masculine while smaller features are feminine.


So, at the risk of making this quote chain any longer, what height(at the tallest) would you consider "feminine"?
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Only The Soul Juxtaposed
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Poor Dolly
Only The Soul Juxtaposed
why would a man want to feel bigger......hmmmmmmmmm

like is this even a hard thing to comprehend for some people?


One would generally assume that it IS hard to comprehend for someone who feels the need to ask the question. Like, get it?


no like literally. why is it hard to comprehend. think about it in basic terms.

when a guy is big he is considered __________
when a girl is small she is considered ___________

hint: it relates to their gender.


Ooh that's a brain buzzer. Since it makes so much sense to you, please tell me, why is it that small=feminine and tall=masculine? What is so wrong with being a tall woman that it puts men off, hmm?


because that's how society has evolved.

strong = worker. men = worker
woman doesn't need to be strong. she's the woman.

if you appear bigger, see stronger or taller, you appear more masculine while smaller features are feminine.


So, at the risk of making this quote chain any longer, what height(at the tallest) would you consider "feminine"?


it doesnt matter about height. it matters about comparison. if the woman is 4'8 and you're 5'7 that's fine and you still look masculine. if you're 5'8 and she's 5'9 you will look feminine.
Fujisawa Loser
I like tall women! I'm 5"8, which isn't a skyscraper or anything. I prefer women closer to my height though. 5"7 would be perfect. The good thing is most guys who are tall prefer girls who are like at least 10 inches shorter than them. That leaves a lot of girls in the 5"5-5"8 range!

Why are you asking this question?


simply because I am tall, and curious. Out of the 7 relationships I've been in, only one has been very close to my height (he was 5'8, I am 5'10).

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Some men are extremely attracted to tall women. Especially if they are taller then they are.
But a lot of men find being with a women who is taller then them a tad intimidating or some s**t like that.
What are you talking about tallest i seen is 5'9
Only The Soul Juxtaposed
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no like literally. why is it hard to comprehend. think about it in basic terms.

when a guy is big he is considered __________
when a girl is small she is considered ___________

hint: it relates to their gender.


Ooh that's a brain buzzer. Since it makes so much sense to you, please tell me, why is it that small=feminine and tall=masculine? What is so wrong with being a tall woman that it puts men off, hmm?


because that's how society has evolved.

strong = worker. men = worker
woman doesn't need to be strong. she's the woman.

if you appear bigger, see stronger or taller, you appear more masculine while smaller features are feminine.


So, at the risk of making this quote chain any longer, what height(at the tallest) would you consider "feminine"?


it doesnt matter about height. it matters about comparison. if the woman is 4'8 and you're 5'7 that's fine and you still look masculine. if you're 5'8 and she's 5'9 you will look feminine.


Then we are on two different pages. What I'm asking is, why do men "prefer" short women, in the literal sense? I know many men of varying heights, and just about all of them prefer short women, not just by comparison.
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no like literally. why is it hard to comprehend. think about it in basic terms.

when a guy is big he is considered __________
when a girl is small she is considered ___________

hint: it relates to their gender.


Ooh that's a brain buzzer. Since it makes so much sense to you, please tell me, why is it that small=feminine and tall=masculine? What is so wrong with being a tall woman that it puts men off, hmm?


because that's how society has evolved.

strong = worker. men = worker
woman doesn't need to be strong. she's the woman.

if you appear bigger, see stronger or taller, you appear more masculine while smaller features are feminine.


So, at the risk of making this quote chain any longer, what height(at the tallest) would you consider "feminine"?


it doesnt matter about height. it matters about comparison. if the woman is 4'8 and you're 5'7 that's fine and you still look masculine. if you're 5'8 and she's 5'9 you will look feminine.


Then we are on two different pages. What I'm asking is, why do men "prefer" short women, in the literal sense? I know many men of varying heights, and just about all of them prefer short women, not just by comparison.


to feel manly
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guys, most guys enjoy the feeling of dominance - at least in accordance with romantic relationships. this entails height.


wtf, slow hands by interpol. i liked that song when i was 10
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Fujisawa Loser
I like tall women! I'm 5"8, which isn't a skyscraper or anything. I prefer women closer to my height though. 5"7 would be perfect. The good thing is most guys who are tall prefer girls who are like at least 10 inches shorter than them. That leaves a lot of girls in the 5"5-5"8 range!

Why are you asking this question?


simply because I am tall, and curious. Out of the 7 relationships I've been in, only one has been very close to my height (he was 5'8, I am 5'10).


Oh, okay. Well, it's kind of a silly question. The obvious reason is because men want to feel more powerful. And they're...used to feeling more powerful. Evolution, statistics, the way the media portrays couples, it's everywhere.

You should feel proud to be tall, regardless of gender. If it's any consolation, if you're attractive and you had a great personality, and you were a virgin, I'd be willing to date you! But I wouldn't go past a 2 inch difference. =/

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Well tall ladies, you can always go the Sapphic route.

It's not feminine.

From hell's heart, I stab at thee.
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guys, most guys enjoy the feeling of dominance - at least in accordance with romantic relationships. this entails height.


wtf, slow hands by interpol. i liked that song when i was 10

buttercup nothing can match up to Paul Banks' brilliance. i assume whatever you fill your nonsensical head with though, of course, you would never realize this.
The Zodikosis

It's not feminine.

From hell's heart, I stab at thee.

Height has very little to do with femininity, at least to me.

I also don't really care much about feminine qualities anyway.

TOO BAD I'M NOT THE AVERAGE DUDE I GUESS.
Scooter_And_Jinx
Well tall ladies, you can always go the Sapphic route.


Fine, if you roll that way. But if you don't? It seems that most of the replies I've been getting are "You're just out of luck". But hey, maybe thats what I get for posting this on freaking Gaia.

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Im a tall women. I've never had a man turn me down because I was taller. I'm 5'8" and I love wearing heels. You just need to find more men who are confident with a tall women.

I actually wish I was taller. I'd love to be 5'10" or 5'11" I feel like Im too short.

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