i made a rainbow one i really like just know and she has a background which is rare with me but i tried it out and i really like it
ninja There is always my equip list....
I'm looking forward to seeing it.
haha i forgot about that. i may look at it in a bit. currently i am trying to catch up on notifications and trades seen i was gone all day
i am super excited too, finished a red one too but not sure if i like the background
Play with different backgrounds or layers until you find something you like. I often try many combinations before I settle, unless I developed the avi around the background.
i played with it quite a bit but couldnt find something i loved. i like the one i have just isnt perfect
Try a background that isn't an exact match. I find something that is close but not exact often adds a lot of depth.
i made a rainbow one i really like just know and she has a background which is rare with me but i tried it out and i really like it
ninja There is always my equip list....
I'm looking forward to seeing it.
haha i forgot about that. i may look at it in a bit. currently i am trying to catch up on notifications and trades seen i was gone all day
i am super excited too, finished a red one too but not sure if i like the background
Play with different backgrounds or layers until you find something you like. I often try many combinations before I settle, unless I developed the avi around the background.
i played with it quite a bit but couldnt find something i loved. i like the one i have just isnt perfect
Try a background that isn't an exact match. I find something that is close but not exact often adds a lot of depth.
i will try that. thank you for the idea!
how are you today?
haha i forgot about that. i may look at it in a bit. currently i am trying to catch up on notifications and trades seen i was gone all day
i am super excited too, finished a red one too but not sure if i like the background
Play with different backgrounds or layers until you find something you like. I often try many combinations before I settle, unless I developed the avi around the background.
i played with it quite a bit but couldnt find something i loved. i like the one i have just isnt perfect
Try a background that isn't an exact match. I find something that is close but not exact often adds a lot of depth.
i will try that. thank you for the idea!
how are you today?
haha i forgot about that. i may look at it in a bit. currently i am trying to catch up on notifications and trades seen i was gone all day
i am super excited too, finished a red one too but not sure if i like the background
Play with different backgrounds or layers until you find something you like. I often try many combinations before I settle, unless I developed the avi around the background.
i played with it quite a bit but couldnt find something i loved. i like the one i have just isnt perfect
Try a background that isn't an exact match. I find something that is close but not exact often adds a lot of depth.
i will try that. thank you for the idea!
how are you today?
OK; a bit tired. You?
me too. i went to my aunts again today bc my hubby drove her to take her dog to get shot. I was there all day till about 7-8pm and just finished bathing my daughter.
Well at my aunts i cleaned her house seen i couldnt stand the mess. 7 loads of dishes.... i dont know how she doesnt do her dishes
i played with it quite a bit but couldnt find something i loved. i like the one i have just isnt perfect
Try a background that isn't an exact match. I find something that is close but not exact often adds a lot of depth.
i will try that. thank you for the idea!
how are you today?
OK; a bit tired. You?
me too. i went to my aunts again today bc my hubby drove her to take her dog to get shot. I was there all day till about 7-8pm and just finished bathing my daughter.
Well at my aunts i cleaned her house seen i couldnt stand the mess. 7 loads of dishes.... i dont know how she doesnt do her dishes
I hope you meant to get shots, not get shot! eek
Yuck, just.... I've seen people live this way too and it's hard to imagine living that way. However, it often is a reflection of someone's inner landscape. Your aunt's must be a mess!
i played with it quite a bit but couldnt find something i loved. i like the one i have just isnt perfect
Try a background that isn't an exact match. I find something that is close but not exact often adds a lot of depth.
i will try that. thank you for the idea!
how are you today?
OK; a bit tired. You?
me too. i went to my aunts again today bc my hubby drove her to take her dog to get shot. I was there all day till about 7-8pm and just finished bathing my daughter.
Well at my aunts i cleaned her house seen i couldnt stand the mess. 7 loads of dishes.... i dont know how she doesnt do her dishes
I hope you meant to get shots, not get shot! eek
Yuck, just.... I've seen people live this way too and it's hard to imagine living that way. However, it often is a reflection of someone's inner landscape. Your aunt's must be a mess!
That doesn't sound like a fun day at all.
lol yes her one dog had to get a rabies shot lol.
she has been this way for awhile. we stayed with her for awhile (which i think you new) and i always cleaned her house. She just lays in bed all day complaining she is sick. Dont get me wrong i love her but i feel like she needs to do more for herself and her son.
i will try that. thank you for the idea!
how are you today?
OK; a bit tired. You?
me too. i went to my aunts again today bc my hubby drove her to take her dog to get shot. I was there all day till about 7-8pm and just finished bathing my daughter.
Well at my aunts i cleaned her house seen i couldnt stand the mess. 7 loads of dishes.... i dont know how she doesnt do her dishes
I hope you meant to get shots, not get shot! eek
Yuck, just.... I've seen people live this way too and it's hard to imagine living that way. However, it often is a reflection of someone's inner landscape. Your aunt's must be a mess!
That doesn't sound like a fun day at all.
lol yes her one dog had to get a rabies shot lol.
she has been this way for awhile. we stayed with her for awhile (which i think you new) and i always cleaned her house. She just lays in bed all day complaining she is sick. Dont get me wrong i love her but i feel like she needs to do more for herself and her son.
Sounds like either a mental illness like depression or she really is sick, like an autoimmune disorder. Both would result in what you're observing.
However, there is nothing you can do about it so it's really good you no longer live with her for your and your baby's sake.
i will try that. thank you for the idea!
how are you today?
OK; a bit tired. You?
me too. i went to my aunts again today bc my hubby drove her to take her dog to get shot. I was there all day till about 7-8pm and just finished bathing my daughter.
Well at my aunts i cleaned her house seen i couldnt stand the mess. 7 loads of dishes.... i dont know how she doesnt do her dishes
I hope you meant to get shots, not get shot! eek
Yuck, just.... I've seen people live this way too and it's hard to imagine living that way. However, it often is a reflection of someone's inner landscape. Your aunt's must be a mess!
That doesn't sound like a fun day at all.
lol yes her one dog had to get a rabies shot lol.
she has been this way for awhile. we stayed with her for awhile (which i think you new) and i always cleaned her house. She just lays in bed all day complaining she is sick. Dont get me wrong i love her but i feel like she needs to do more for herself and her son.
Sounds like either a mental illness like depression or she really is sick, like an autoimmune disorder. Both would result in what you're observing.
However, there is nothing you can do about it so it's really good you no longer live with her for your and your baby's sake.
she has depression bad which is prob most of it.
i am too, i didnt mind helping but it just shouldnt get like that ever
me too. i went to my aunts again today bc my hubby drove her to take her dog to get shot. I was there all day till about 7-8pm and just finished bathing my daughter.
Well at my aunts i cleaned her house seen i couldnt stand the mess. 7 loads of dishes.... i dont know how she doesnt do her dishes
I hope you meant to get shots, not get shot! eek
Yuck, just.... I've seen people live this way too and it's hard to imagine living that way. However, it often is a reflection of someone's inner landscape. Your aunt's must be a mess!
That doesn't sound like a fun day at all.
lol yes her one dog had to get a rabies shot lol.
she has been this way for awhile. we stayed with her for awhile (which i think you new) and i always cleaned her house. She just lays in bed all day complaining she is sick. Dont get me wrong i love her but i feel like she needs to do more for herself and her son.
Sounds like either a mental illness like depression or she really is sick, like an autoimmune disorder. Both would result in what you're observing.
However, there is nothing you can do about it so it's really good you no longer live with her for your and your baby's sake.
she has depression bad which is prob most of it.
i am too, i didnt mind helping but it just shouldnt get like that ever
Depression distorts everything so badly and zaps any caring about anything. She really doesn't care how bad it gets, has no energy to do anything about it. It truly is a mental illness and there are no easy answers.
No one can rescue her from it except a professional and that is only if she is ready to face the underlying cause of it.
In the future, do your best not to spend time at her place. If she needs a ride, ride with her instead. Your daughter really needs to not spend any time there; it is a health hazard for her.
All your work improved things at her house for a day or so, but that's it.
me too. i went to my aunts again today bc my hubby drove her to take her dog to get shot. I was there all day till about 7-8pm and just finished bathing my daughter.
Well at my aunts i cleaned her house seen i couldnt stand the mess. 7 loads of dishes.... i dont know how she doesnt do her dishes
I hope you meant to get shots, not get shot! eek
Yuck, just.... I've seen people live this way too and it's hard to imagine living that way. However, it often is a reflection of someone's inner landscape. Your aunt's must be a mess!
That doesn't sound like a fun day at all.
lol yes her one dog had to get a rabies shot lol.
she has been this way for awhile. we stayed with her for awhile (which i think you new) and i always cleaned her house. She just lays in bed all day complaining she is sick. Dont get me wrong i love her but i feel like she needs to do more for herself and her son.
Sounds like either a mental illness like depression or she really is sick, like an autoimmune disorder. Both would result in what you're observing.
However, there is nothing you can do about it so it's really good you no longer live with her for your and your baby's sake.
she has depression bad which is prob most of it.
i am too, i didnt mind helping but it just shouldnt get like that ever
Depression distorts everything so badly and zaps any caring about anything. She really doesn't care how bad it gets, has no energy to do anything about it. It truly is a mental illness and there are no easy answers.
No one can rescue her from it except a professional and that is only if she is ready to face the underlying cause of it.
In the future, do your best not to spend time at her place. If she needs a ride, ride with her instead. Your daughter really needs to not spend any time there; it is a health hazard for her.
All your work improved things at her house for a day or so, but that's it.
I have depression myself and ik how it feels but i am younger and i guess i deal with it better although there are days i do not want to do anything.
She sees someone and is supposed to take meds although i dont think she does.
I mainly go there for my nephew bc he has mental issues himself and i make sure it is clean when my daughter is there.
she has been this way for awhile. we stayed with her for awhile (which i think you new) and i always cleaned her house. She just lays in bed all day complaining she is sick. Dont get me wrong i love her but i feel like she needs to do more for herself and her son.
Sounds like either a mental illness like depression or she really is sick, like an autoimmune disorder. Both would result in what you're observing.
However, there is nothing you can do about it so it's really good you no longer live with her for your and your baby's sake.
she has depression bad which is prob most of it.
i am too, i didnt mind helping but it just shouldnt get like that ever
Depression distorts everything so badly and zaps any caring about anything. She really doesn't care how bad it gets, has no energy to do anything about it. It truly is a mental illness and there are no easy answers.
No one can rescue her from it except a professional and that is only if she is ready to face the underlying cause of it.
In the future, do your best not to spend time at her place. If she needs a ride, ride with her instead. Your daughter really needs to not spend any time there; it is a health hazard for her.
All your work improved things at her house for a day or so, but that's it.
I have depression myself and ik how it feels but i am younger and i guess i deal with it better although there are days i do not want to do anything.
She sees someone and is supposed to take meds although i dont think she does.
I mainly go there for my nephew bc he has mental issues himself and i make sure it is clean when my daughter is there.
You have my sympathies. I'm wondering though if your depression is situational rather than illness? Sometimes feeling depressed is a sane reaction to the circumstances you find yourself in, even as you strive to see the positive side of things.
But what you describe of your aunt's, that is classic mental illness.
she has been this way for awhile. we stayed with her for awhile (which i think you new) and i always cleaned her house. She just lays in bed all day complaining she is sick. Dont get me wrong i love her but i feel like she needs to do more for herself and her son.
Sounds like either a mental illness like depression or she really is sick, like an autoimmune disorder. Both would result in what you're observing.
However, there is nothing you can do about it so it's really good you no longer live with her for your and your baby's sake.
she has depression bad which is prob most of it.
i am too, i didnt mind helping but it just shouldnt get like that ever
Depression distorts everything so badly and zaps any caring about anything. She really doesn't care how bad it gets, has no energy to do anything about it. It truly is a mental illness and there are no easy answers.
No one can rescue her from it except a professional and that is only if she is ready to face the underlying cause of it.
In the future, do your best not to spend time at her place. If she needs a ride, ride with her instead. Your daughter really needs to not spend any time there; it is a health hazard for her.
All your work improved things at her house for a day or so, but that's it.
I have depression myself and ik how it feels but i am younger and i guess i deal with it better although there are days i do not want to do anything.
She sees someone and is supposed to take meds although i dont think she does.
I mainly go there for my nephew bc he has mental issues himself and i make sure it is clean when my daughter is there.
You have my sympathies. I'm wondering though if your depression is situational rather than illness? Sometimes feeling depressed is a sane reaction to the circumstances you find yourself in, even as you strive to see the positive side of things.
But what you describe of your aunt's, that is classic mental illness.
I have been diagnosed with biopolar/drepression and adhd. I was on meds for quite awhile but when i was old enough to make my own choses (which was 16 due to my mom kicking me out of my home) i stopped taking them and learned ways i could cope with all of them on my own. Some days are better then other with all 3.
i am too, i didnt mind helping but it just shouldnt get like that ever
Depression distorts everything so badly and zaps any caring about anything. She really doesn't care how bad it gets, has no energy to do anything about it. It truly is a mental illness and there are no easy answers.
No one can rescue her from it except a professional and that is only if she is ready to face the underlying cause of it.
In the future, do your best not to spend time at her place. If she needs a ride, ride with her instead. Your daughter really needs to not spend any time there; it is a health hazard for her.
All your work improved things at her house for a day or so, but that's it.
I have depression myself and ik how it feels but i am younger and i guess i deal with it better although there are days i do not want to do anything.
She sees someone and is supposed to take meds although i dont think she does.
I mainly go there for my nephew bc he has mental issues himself and i make sure it is clean when my daughter is there.
You have my sympathies. I'm wondering though if your depression is situational rather than illness? Sometimes feeling depressed is a sane reaction to the circumstances you find yourself in, even as you strive to see the positive side of things.
But what you describe of your aunt's, that is classic mental illness.
I have been diagnosed with biopolar/drepression and adhd. I was on meds for quite awhile but when i was old enough to make my own choses (which was 16 due to my mom kicking me out of my home) i stopped taking them and learned ways i could cope with all of them on my own. Some days are better then other with all 3.
yeah she def has it and some other issues.
I'm sorry you're having to deal with all of that. emotion_hug
i am too, i didnt mind helping but it just shouldnt get like that ever
Depression distorts everything so badly and zaps any caring about anything. She really doesn't care how bad it gets, has no energy to do anything about it. It truly is a mental illness and there are no easy answers.
No one can rescue her from it except a professional and that is only if she is ready to face the underlying cause of it.
In the future, do your best not to spend time at her place. If she needs a ride, ride with her instead. Your daughter really needs to not spend any time there; it is a health hazard for her.
All your work improved things at her house for a day or so, but that's it.
I have depression myself and ik how it feels but i am younger and i guess i deal with it better although there are days i do not want to do anything.
She sees someone and is supposed to take meds although i dont think she does.
I mainly go there for my nephew bc he has mental issues himself and i make sure it is clean when my daughter is there.
You have my sympathies. I'm wondering though if your depression is situational rather than illness? Sometimes feeling depressed is a sane reaction to the circumstances you find yourself in, even as you strive to see the positive side of things.
But what you describe of your aunt's, that is classic mental illness.
I have been diagnosed with biopolar/drepression and adhd. I was on meds for quite awhile but when i was old enough to make my own choses (which was 16 due to my mom kicking me out of my home) i stopped taking them and learned ways i could cope with all of them on my own. Some days are better then other with all 3.
yeah she def has it and some other issues.
I'm sorry you're having to deal with all of that. emotion_hug
Thank you.
I chose to deal with it on my own. i prefer natural remedies for things if i can or learning to cope. I never liked medication and only give it to my daughter when absolutly necessary and i only take it if necessary also.
