*waves hi* I just got home a short while ago. My h and I have been out doing some overdue shopping and getting other stuff done.
How's your day going?
Did you enjoy your time out with your hubby?
Its going, not feeling well and my nap make me more tired.
Try to get as much sleep as you can; hopefully your daughter sleeps better tonight.
Update, the surgery for my father in law went well and they actually finished early. He's begun the long recovery process.
I am hoping so, both me and my hubby need the rest although i did let him sleep well i was up with her last night
that is good. i am glad.
I hope so too, but if not, tonight it's his turn...
Thanks.
No he may have to go to the hospital to be with his dad tomorrow if he doesnt have to go to work early. We got a message this morning that his dad is having something done with his heart tomorrow and his own wife is not going to be with him but wants my husband to go (remind you we have no car to get him there so he will have to walk early in the am in the cold) She says it is his responsibility to be there with his dad which i partly agree but so does she.
Its going, not feeling well and my nap make me more tired.
Try to get as much sleep as you can; hopefully your daughter sleeps better tonight.
Update, the surgery for my father in law went well and they actually finished early. He's begun the long recovery process.
I am hoping so, both me and my hubby need the rest although i did let him sleep well i was up with her last night
that is good. i am glad.
I hope so too, but if not, tonight it's his turn...
Thanks.
No he may have to go to the hospital to be with his dad tomorrow if he doesnt have to go to work early. We got a message this morning that his dad is having something done with his heart tomorrow and his own wife is not going to be with him but wants my husband to go (remind you we have no car to get him there so he will have to walk early in the am in the cold) She says it is his responsibility to be there with his dad which i partly agree but so does she.
Kind of shocked at how she is.... how long a walk is it? And why isn't she going and giving him a lift? I guess it's best if you stay out of it beyond offering sympathy for him. He has to figure out his family himself and set up boundaries. But it does affect you too so there is no easy answer.
Its going, not feeling well and my nap make me more tired.
Try to get as much sleep as you can; hopefully your daughter sleeps better tonight.
Update, the surgery for my father in law went well and they actually finished early. He's begun the long recovery process.
I am hoping so, both me and my hubby need the rest although i did let him sleep well i was up with her last night
that is good. i am glad.
I hope so too, but if not, tonight it's his turn...
Thanks.
No he may have to go to the hospital to be with his dad tomorrow if he doesnt have to go to work early. We got a message this morning that his dad is having something done with his heart tomorrow and his own wife is not going to be with him but wants my husband to go (remind you we have no car to get him there so he will have to walk early in the am in the cold) She says it is his responsibility to be there with his dad which i partly agree but so does she.
Kind of shocked at how she is.... how long a walk is it? And why isn't she going and giving him a lift? I guess it's best if you stay out of it beyond offering sympathy for him. He has to figure out his family himself and set up boundaries. But it does affect you too so there is no easy answer.
it is at least an hour wallk which is a lot in this color. Idk why she wont she tried to play a blame game kinda this morning saying she cant be worrying about everyone because it is going to cause her to drink again and wanted me to baby her with it via message. Saying she has to worry about us and her daughter and her husband and she is to stressed about it. I advised her she has no need to worry about us all the time bc we might have our down moments but we always figure it out. I just dont like when people try that game with me and i told her so.
She didnt even message my husband about it, just me.
I am hoping so, both me and my hubby need the rest although i did let him sleep well i was up with her last night
that is good. i am glad.
I hope so too, but if not, tonight it's his turn...
Thanks.
No he may have to go to the hospital to be with his dad tomorrow if he doesnt have to go to work early. We got a message this morning that his dad is having something done with his heart tomorrow and his own wife is not going to be with him but wants my husband to go (remind you we have no car to get him there so he will have to walk early in the am in the cold) She says it is his responsibility to be there with his dad which i partly agree but so does she.
Kind of shocked at how she is.... how long a walk is it? And why isn't she going and giving him a lift? I guess it's best if you stay out of it beyond offering sympathy for him. He has to figure out his family himself and set up boundaries. But it does affect you too so there is no easy answer.
it is at least an hour wallk which is a lot in this color. Idk why she wont she tried to play a blame game kinda this morning saying she cant be worrying about everyone because it is going to cause her to drink again and wanted me to baby her with it via message. Saying she has to worry about us and her daughter and her husband and she is to stressed about it. I advised her she has no need to worry about us all the time bc we might have our down moments but we always figure it out. I just dont like when people try that game with me and i told her so.
She didnt even message my husband about it, just me.
Ugh; I can see lots of drama coming from her. She really sounds toxic.
If you guys can possibly afford it, maybe call uber or lyft for a ride for him?
I am hoping so, both me and my hubby need the rest although i did let him sleep well i was up with her last night
that is good. i am glad.
I hope so too, but if not, tonight it's his turn...
Thanks.
No he may have to go to the hospital to be with his dad tomorrow if he doesnt have to go to work early. We got a message this morning that his dad is having something done with his heart tomorrow and his own wife is not going to be with him but wants my husband to go (remind you we have no car to get him there so he will have to walk early in the am in the cold) She says it is his responsibility to be there with his dad which i partly agree but so does she.
Kind of shocked at how she is.... how long a walk is it? And why isn't she going and giving him a lift? I guess it's best if you stay out of it beyond offering sympathy for him. He has to figure out his family himself and set up boundaries. But it does affect you too so there is no easy answer.
it is at least an hour wallk which is a lot in this color. Idk why she wont she tried to play a blame game kinda this morning saying she cant be worrying about everyone because it is going to cause her to drink again and wanted me to baby her with it via message. Saying she has to worry about us and her daughter and her husband and she is to stressed about it. I advised her she has no need to worry about us all the time bc we might have our down moments but we always figure it out. I just dont like when people try that game with me and i told her so.
She didnt even message my husband about it, just me.
Ugh; I can see lots of drama coming from her. She really sounds toxic.
If you guys can possibly afford it, maybe call uber or lyft for a ride for him?
it does but she thinks she does everything right. i love her as my mother in law but most the time i cant stand her.
we prob will call a cab. i dont think uber has made its way here yet.
No he may have to go to the hospital to be with his dad tomorrow if he doesnt have to go to work early. We got a message this morning that his dad is having something done with his heart tomorrow and his own wife is not going to be with him but wants my husband to go (remind you we have no car to get him there so he will have to walk early in the am in the cold) She says it is his responsibility to be there with his dad which i partly agree but so does she.
Kind of shocked at how she is.... how long a walk is it? And why isn't she going and giving him a lift? I guess it's best if you stay out of it beyond offering sympathy for him. He has to figure out his family himself and set up boundaries. But it does affect you too so there is no easy answer.
it is at least an hour wallk which is a lot in this color. Idk why she wont she tried to play a blame game kinda this morning saying she cant be worrying about everyone because it is going to cause her to drink again and wanted me to baby her with it via message. Saying she has to worry about us and her daughter and her husband and she is to stressed about it. I advised her she has no need to worry about us all the time bc we might have our down moments but we always figure it out. I just dont like when people try that game with me and i told her so.
She didnt even message my husband about it, just me.
Ugh; I can see lots of drama coming from her. She really sounds toxic.
If you guys can possibly afford it, maybe call uber or lyft for a ride for him?
it does but she thinks she does everything right. i love her as my mother in law but most the time i cant stand her.
we prob will call a cab. i dont think uber has made its way here yet.
We can't pick our family, our spouse's family or who they choose to marry or partner with alas.
A cab works. I've never used uber or lyft because they require a smart phone app and I don't have a smart phone. It might make sense to check into for you however since you're presently without a car. Here, one taxi service has an exclusive contract with the city and it's drivers are horrible and they all seem to be from the same extended family. I'm glad it has this competition now.
No he may have to go to the hospital to be with his dad tomorrow if he doesnt have to go to work early. We got a message this morning that his dad is having something done with his heart tomorrow and his own wife is not going to be with him but wants my husband to go (remind you we have no car to get him there so he will have to walk early in the am in the cold) She says it is his responsibility to be there with his dad which i partly agree but so does she.
Kind of shocked at how she is.... how long a walk is it? And why isn't she going and giving him a lift? I guess it's best if you stay out of it beyond offering sympathy for him. He has to figure out his family himself and set up boundaries. But it does affect you too so there is no easy answer.
it is at least an hour wallk which is a lot in this color. Idk why she wont she tried to play a blame game kinda this morning saying she cant be worrying about everyone because it is going to cause her to drink again and wanted me to baby her with it via message. Saying she has to worry about us and her daughter and her husband and she is to stressed about it. I advised her she has no need to worry about us all the time bc we might have our down moments but we always figure it out. I just dont like when people try that game with me and i told her so.
She didnt even message my husband about it, just me.
Ugh; I can see lots of drama coming from her. She really sounds toxic.
If you guys can possibly afford it, maybe call uber or lyft for a ride for him?
it does but she thinks she does everything right. i love her as my mother in law but most the time i cant stand her.
we prob will call a cab. i dont think uber has made its way here yet.
We can't pick our family, our spouse's family or who they choose to marry or partner with alas.
A cab works. I've never used uber or lyft because they require a smart phone app and I don't have a smart phone. It might make sense to check into for you however since you're presently without a car. Here, one taxi service has an exclusive contract with the city and it's drivers are horrible and they all seem to be from the same extended family. I'm glad it has this competition now.
yeah i know.
the cabs here are not horrible due to it being a small place, i know most the drivers the fees just suck
