glengrin
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- Posted: Mon, 17 Dec 2018 19:41:09 +0000
babyboo17forever
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glengrin
babyboo17forever
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glengrin
babyboo17forever
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yeah, and we had plans on halloween to go to a thing called punpkinville and both him and his wife canceled so i never got to take my daughter bc they wanted to go as a family
sorry i was never notified about this post (once again)
I thought they would at this point because that isnt the only time it has happened. they make promices all the time and dont keep them.
I kind of figured that was the case. I seem to recall your dad had an alcohol problem? Does his wife as well? I also seem to recall many of your family have distanced themselves from him. While I know you haven't, if he keeps blaming you and others for his own irresponsibility, you may have to, or at least keep up extremely strong boundaries. I really feel for you; that sucks.
My dad did have a prob when he was alive but he found the time for us kids so much more about 6 months before he passed and my mom does whatever she can for me and my daughter. As far as my husbands dad and step mom, she is a recovering alcholic (but has almost went back to it after 10 years of being sober) and his dad just tends to make plans even though he knows what is going on and when it is.
It is not on me to make sure he makes time for his grand daughter.
And you're right, it is not on you. Sadly you and your husband are left explaining to your daughter why grandpa doesn't show when promised, or will be when she's old enough to notice.