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yeah, and we had plans on halloween to go to a thing called punpkinville and both him and his wife canceled so i never got to take my daughter bc they wanted to go as a family
It's a shame you can't rely on them, for stuff like this. But you know what you need to do now to insure you're not left stranded again. They'll just have to live life disappointed and angry until they can take responsibility for their own actions.


sorry i was never notified about this post (once again)

I thought they would at this point because that isnt the only time it has happened. they make promices all the time and dont keep them.


I kind of figured that was the case. I seem to recall your dad had an alcohol problem? Does his wife as well? I also seem to recall many of your family have distanced themselves from him. While I know you haven't, if he keeps blaming you and others for his own irresponsibility, you may have to, or at least keep up extremely strong boundaries. I really feel for you; that sucks.


My dad did have a prob when he was alive but he found the time for us kids so much more about 6 months before he passed and my mom does whatever she can for me and my daughter. As far as my husbands dad and step mom, she is a recovering alcholic (but has almost went back to it after 10 years of being sober) and his dad just tends to make plans even though he knows what is going on and when it is.

It is not on me to make sure he makes time for his grand daughter.
OK, that clears up the confusion. It's your father in law, not your father who is doing this. I'm glad you did have time with your dad and your mom and you are close.

And you're right, it is not on you. Sadly you and your husband are left explaining to your daughter why grandpa doesn't show when promised, or will be when she's old enough to notice.
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yeah, and we had plans on halloween to go to a thing called punpkinville and both him and his wife canceled so i never got to take my daughter bc they wanted to go as a family
It's a shame you can't rely on them, for stuff like this. But you know what you need to do now to insure you're not left stranded again. They'll just have to live life disappointed and angry until they can take responsibility for their own actions.


sorry i was never notified about this post (once again)

I thought they would at this point because that isnt the only time it has happened. they make promices all the time and dont keep them.


I kind of figured that was the case. I seem to recall your dad had an alcohol problem? Does his wife as well? I also seem to recall many of your family have distanced themselves from him. While I know you haven't, if he keeps blaming you and others for his own irresponsibility, you may have to, or at least keep up extremely strong boundaries. I really feel for you; that sucks.


My dad did have a prob when he was alive but he found the time for us kids so much more about 6 months before he passed and my mom does whatever she can for me and my daughter. As far as my husbands dad and step mom, she is a recovering alcholic (but has almost went back to it after 10 years of being sober) and his dad just tends to make plans even though he knows what is going on and when it is.

It is not on me to make sure he makes time for his grand daughter.
OK, that clears up the confusion. It's your father in law, not your father who is doing this. I'm glad you did have time with your dad and your mom and you are close.

And you're right, it is not on you. Sadly you and your husband are left explaining to your daughter why grandpa doesn't show when promised, or will be when she's old enough to notice.


So once again i did not get this notice and i am only not getting them from this thread. makes no darn sense to me.

yeah my dad and mom always tried to do what they could and my mom still does.

yeah she will understand at some point and i dont want to have that talk with her.

My husbands mom and step dad live 4 hours away and they have never ment my daughter and they put more effert in to getting to know her then my husbands dad and step mom that live right down the street which i think is ridiculous.

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babyboo17forever
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sorry i was never notified about this post (once again)

I thought they would at this point because that isnt the only time it has happened. they make promices all the time and dont keep them.


I kind of figured that was the case. I seem to recall your dad had an alcohol problem? Does his wife as well? I also seem to recall many of your family have distanced themselves from him. While I know you haven't, if he keeps blaming you and others for his own irresponsibility, you may have to, or at least keep up extremely strong boundaries. I really feel for you; that sucks.


My dad did have a prob when he was alive but he found the time for us kids so much more about 6 months before he passed and my mom does whatever she can for me and my daughter. As far as my husbands dad and step mom, she is a recovering alcholic (but has almost went back to it after 10 years of being sober) and his dad just tends to make plans even though he knows what is going on and when it is.

It is not on me to make sure he makes time for his grand daughter.
OK, that clears up the confusion. It's your father in law, not your father who is doing this. I'm glad you did have time with your dad and your mom and you are close.

And you're right, it is not on you. Sadly you and your husband are left explaining to your daughter why grandpa doesn't show when promised, or will be when she's old enough to notice.


So once again i did not get this notice and i am only not getting them from this thread. makes no darn sense to me.

yeah my dad and mom always tried to do what they could and my mom still does.

yeah she will understand at some point and i dont want to have that talk with her.

My husbands mom and step dad live 4 hours away and they have never ment my daughter and they put more effert in to getting to know her then my husbands dad and step mom that live right down the street which i think is ridiculous.
The loss will be his stepdad's. It's sad really, for your husband and child, but at least his mother and her husband are involved.

You'll just have to make it clear to your daughter when the time comes it has nothing to do with her, who she is or anything she's done. With so many other family involved with her life, she should be fine. She is growing up well loved.
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sorry i was never notified about this post (once again)

I thought they would at this point because that isnt the only time it has happened. they make promices all the time and dont keep them.


I kind of figured that was the case. I seem to recall your dad had an alcohol problem? Does his wife as well? I also seem to recall many of your family have distanced themselves from him. While I know you haven't, if he keeps blaming you and others for his own irresponsibility, you may have to, or at least keep up extremely strong boundaries. I really feel for you; that sucks.


My dad did have a prob when he was alive but he found the time for us kids so much more about 6 months before he passed and my mom does whatever she can for me and my daughter. As far as my husbands dad and step mom, she is a recovering alcholic (but has almost went back to it after 10 years of being sober) and his dad just tends to make plans even though he knows what is going on and when it is.

It is not on me to make sure he makes time for his grand daughter.
OK, that clears up the confusion. It's your father in law, not your father who is doing this. I'm glad you did have time with your dad and your mom and you are close.

And you're right, it is not on you. Sadly you and your husband are left explaining to your daughter why grandpa doesn't show when promised, or will be when she's old enough to notice.


So once again i did not get this notice and i am only not getting them from this thread. makes no darn sense to me.

yeah my dad and mom always tried to do what they could and my mom still does.

yeah she will understand at some point and i dont want to have that talk with her.

My husbands mom and step dad live 4 hours away and they have never ment my daughter and they put more effert in to getting to know her then my husbands dad and step mom that live right down the street which i think is ridiculous.
The loss will be his stepdad's. It's sad really, for your husband and child, but at least his mother and her husband are involved.

You'll just have to make it clear to your daughter when the time comes it has nothing to do with her, who she is or anything she's done. With so many other family involved with her life, she should be fine. She is growing up well loved.


it def is. I am too. i didnt know if they would be or not seen my hubby isnt very close to his mom.

i will. she is def well loved and spoiled and she knows it lol

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babyboo17forever
So how's your day going today?

I am waiting for my husband's plane to arrive in about 50 min. or so.
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babyboo17forever
So how's your day going today?

I am waiting for my husband's plane to arrive in about 50 min. or so.


its going okay. just finished updating item list in charity

are you going to pick him up?

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babyboo17forever
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babyboo17forever
So how's your day going today?

I am waiting for my husband's plane to arrive in about 50 min. or so.


its going okay. just finished updating item list in charity

are you going to pick him up?
No. He took his car. I have some vision problems so I don't drive long distances or at night; a type of migraine that can cause loss of vision. It shows up very rarely but it's best to be in places where I can pull over quickly should it happen when I'm driving (thankfully it never has). Plus a major cluster event permanently distorted my vision so driving in poor light like at night is a very bad idea.

It sounds like your day is nice and relaxing.
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babyboo17forever
So how's your day going today?

I am waiting for my husband's plane to arrive in about 50 min. or so.


its going okay. just finished updating item list in charity

are you going to pick him up?
No. He took his car. I have some vision problems so I don't drive long distances or at night; a type of migraine that can cause loss of vision. It shows up very rarely but it's best to be in places where I can pull over quickly should it happen when I'm driving (thankfully it never has). Plus a major cluster event permanently distorted my vision so driving in poor light like at night is a very bad idea.

It sounds like your day is nice and relaxing.


oh, i am glad you chose to be safe and not drive if you know you may have a prob but glad it has never happened before

it has been. just actually finished with my daughter bath.

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Question: What world can I earn Hell Portals in LK?


That is in the milky way all stages. Stage 5 has watermeat which can also drop jack bags but you need a strong kin (like you do for trees in kindred wilds) to battle them

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Question: What world can I earn Hell Portals in LK?


That is in the milky way all stages. Stage 5 has watermeat which can also drop jack bags but you need a strong kin (like you do for trees in kindred wilds) to battle them


Thank you. My strongest kins are Gobbles lvl 18 and Oppososaurus lvl 20. Not strong enough yet for stage 5
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Question: What world can I earn Hell Portals in LK?


That is in the milky way all stages. Stage 5 has watermeat which can also drop jack bags but you need a strong kin (like you do for trees in kindred wilds) to battle them


Thank you. My strongest kins are Gobbles lvl 18 and Oppososaurus lvl 20. Not strong enough yet for stage 5


Check out the thread in my sig, you can earn free kin with the games!!

Also in the milky way you can get hell portals on all lvls

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babyboo17forever
So how's your day going today?

I am waiting for my husband's plane to arrive in about 50 min. or so.


its going okay. just finished updating item list in charity

are you going to pick him up?
No. He took his car. I have some vision problems so I don't drive long distances or at night; a type of migraine that can cause loss of vision. It shows up very rarely but it's best to be in places where I can pull over quickly should it happen when I'm driving (thankfully it never has). Plus a major cluster event permanently distorted my vision so driving in poor light like at night is a very bad idea.

It sounds like your day is nice and relaxing.


oh, i am glad you chose to be safe and not drive if you know you may have a prob but glad it has never happened before

it has been. just actually finished with my daughter bath.
After a few tries, I finally got into the reply box; serious lag on Gaia. My husband is home safe. His father is in surgery right now and we don't expect to hear anything for several hours yet, maybe not until after we go to bed. It was scheduled for 5:30 pm his father's time, really late. I guess they did that to get him in asap.

So is your daughter napping now or up and running around after her bath?
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babyboo17forever
So how's your day going today?

I am waiting for my husband's plane to arrive in about 50 min. or so.


its going okay. just finished updating item list in charity

are you going to pick him up?
No. He took his car. I have some vision problems so I don't drive long distances or at night; a type of migraine that can cause loss of vision. It shows up very rarely but it's best to be in places where I can pull over quickly should it happen when I'm driving (thankfully it never has). Plus a major cluster event permanently distorted my vision so driving in poor light like at night is a very bad idea.

It sounds like your day is nice and relaxing.


oh, i am glad you chose to be safe and not drive if you know you may have a prob but glad it has never happened before

it has been. just actually finished with my daughter bath.
After a few tries, I finally got into the reply box; serious lag on Gaia. My husband is home safe. His father is in surgery right now and we don't expect to hear anything for several hours yet, maybe not until after we go to bed. It was scheduled for 5:30 pm his father's time, really late. I guess they did that to get him in asap.

So is your daughter napping now or up and running around after her bath?


Glad he made it home safely. If you dont hear anything tonight you prob will tomorrow.

she is actually having dinner atm

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Question: What world can I earn Hell Portals in LK?


The Milky Way. Welcome to the world of LK. In my op, read one of the beginning guides to take full advantage of the game and avoid some quirks that can cost. There is a guide for what landings have what rigs and what rewards they have, very useful.

There are many good giveaway threads to keep you supplied for the games. You may want to pick up a soldier mouse from one of them as it's free from them and stronger than what you have now, once it's leveled up. I used it when I began as a great RIG farmer, once it was fully leveled up and it can take on Sycamortes at stage 5 with patience and potions.

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