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[babyboo17forever]

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

that is awesome! At least you can get more now lol.

Yep, and I'm posting up a storm, once again, lol. It is really adding up.

That is what i am still doing lol and going through my invo.

I think i am going to do an lk inspired quiz like thing to so people can have something to use when there is no one to talk to. Just have to come up with the questions lol.

You could do fun questions like how would you use kin items in an avatar design or silly questions, to make it fun.

Or you could do a variation of the wrong answer game. It's a game where someone asks a serious question, but the answer must be wrong, silly, a tall tale or something like that. The only wrong answer is the right one. Then you could use frequently asked questions by new players for people to come up with wild answers to.

The real fun ensues with someone comes into the thread and doesn't realize the answer is supposed to be wrong.

that is def a cute idea, i may do sections to make it fun. i have no decided yet.

Yep; I'm just brainstorming ideas here. mrgreen I'm sure you've got other ideas too.

I will be very glad when my h gets home. Everything has been so hard on him, but he likes to be where he can do something when he's upset, even if it's to sit next to his dad daily during this. I feel for him. Update, now after yet another heart attack, my father in law finally decided to have that bypass surgery after all and it's scheduled for tomorrow when my h. has to come home. The airline ticket can't be changed.

I'm trying to stay out of his family drama while being supportive. I have enough drama in my own family.

I am happy for the help.

I am glad he is choosing the surgery so he may be around longer for his family but am sorry your h has to come home the day he has it. Is there a reason they will not change it.

yeah i hate to be included in any drama

[glengrin]

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

That is what i am still doing lol and going through my invo.

I think i am going to do an lk inspired quiz like thing to so people can have something to use when there is no one to talk to. Just have to come up with the questions lol.

You could do fun questions like how would you use kin items in an avatar design or silly questions, to make it fun.

Or you could do a variation of the wrong answer game. It's a game where someone asks a serious question, but the answer must be wrong, silly, a tall tale or something like that. The only wrong answer is the right one. Then you could use frequently asked questions by new players for people to come up with wild answers to.

The real fun ensues with someone comes into the thread and doesn't realize the answer is supposed to be wrong.

that is def a cute idea, i may do sections to make it fun. i have no decided yet.

Yep; I'm just brainstorming ideas here. mrgreen I'm sure you've got other ideas too.

I will be very glad when my h gets home. Everything has been so hard on him, but he likes to be where he can do something when he's upset, even if it's to sit next to his dad daily during this. I feel for him. Update, now after yet another heart attack, my father in law finally decided to have that bypass surgery after all and it's scheduled for tomorrow when my h. has to come home. The airline ticket can't be changed.

I'm trying to stay out of his family drama while being supportive. I have enough drama in my own family.

I am happy for the help.

I am glad he is choosing the surgery so he may be around longer for his family but am sorry your h has to come home the day he has it. Is there a reason they will not change it.

yeah i hate to be included in any drama

Thanks.

It may be he can, but I know often when I buy a ticket it's set. It may be he's just ready to come home now too.

I feel for my husband, his siblings and their kids, all very upset after what my father in law put them through. I'm glad for their sake he finally listened to the doctors before refusing again. It turns out he hadn't before because he assumed he'd be in the hospital for a few months after the surgery and he refused to consider that. Once he finally learned that no, he'd be recovering at home, he was willing. People are strange, but it's his life and his choice to die or live.

Agreed, drama sucks.

[babyboo17forever]

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

That is what i am still doing lol and going through my invo.

I think i am going to do an lk inspired quiz like thing to so people can have something to use when there is no one to talk to. Just have to come up with the questions lol.

You could do fun questions like how would you use kin items in an avatar design or silly questions, to make it fun.

Or you could do a variation of the wrong answer game. It's a game where someone asks a serious question, but the answer must be wrong, silly, a tall tale or something like that. The only wrong answer is the right one. Then you could use frequently asked questions by new players for people to come up with wild answers to.

The real fun ensues with someone comes into the thread and doesn't realize the answer is supposed to be wrong.

that is def a cute idea, i may do sections to make it fun. i have no decided yet.

Yep; I'm just brainstorming ideas here. mrgreen I'm sure you've got other ideas too.

I will be very glad when my h gets home. Everything has been so hard on him, but he likes to be where he can do something when he's upset, even if it's to sit next to his dad daily during this. I feel for him. Update, now after yet another heart attack, my father in law finally decided to have that bypass surgery after all and it's scheduled for tomorrow when my h. has to come home. The airline ticket can't be changed.

I'm trying to stay out of his family drama while being supportive. I have enough drama in my own family.

I am happy for the help.

I am glad he is choosing the surgery so he may be around longer for his family but am sorry your h has to come home the day he has it. Is there a reason they will not change it.

yeah i hate to be included in any drama

Thanks.

It may be he can, but I know often when I buy a ticket it's set. It may be he's just ready to come home now too.

I feel for my husband, his siblings and their kids, all very upset after what my father in law put them through. I'm glad for their sake he finally listened to the doctors before refusing again. It turns out he hadn't before because he assumed he'd be in the hospital for a few months after the surgery and he refused to consider that. Once he finally learned that no, he'd be recovering at home, he was willing. People are strange, but it's his life and his choice to die or live.

Agreed, drama sucks.

yeah he prob does want to come home and misses you.

everyone makes the decisions they think are best.

it def does.

[glengrin]

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

that is def a cute idea, i may do sections to make it fun. i have no decided yet.

Yep; I'm just brainstorming ideas here. mrgreen I'm sure you've got other ideas too.

I will be very glad when my h gets home. Everything has been so hard on him, but he likes to be where he can do something when he's upset, even if it's to sit next to his dad daily during this. I feel for him. Update, now after yet another heart attack, my father in law finally decided to have that bypass surgery after all and it's scheduled for tomorrow when my h. has to come home. The airline ticket can't be changed.

I'm trying to stay out of his family drama while being supportive. I have enough drama in my own family.

I am happy for the help.

I am glad he is choosing the surgery so he may be around longer for his family but am sorry your h has to come home the day he has it. Is there a reason they will not change it.

yeah i hate to be included in any drama

Thanks.

It may be he can, but I know often when I buy a ticket it's set. It may be he's just ready to come home now too.

I feel for my husband, his siblings and their kids, all very upset after what my father in law put them through. I'm glad for their sake he finally listened to the doctors before refusing again. It turns out he hadn't before because he assumed he'd be in the hospital for a few months after the surgery and he refused to consider that. Once he finally learned that no, he'd be recovering at home, he was willing. People are strange, but it's his life and his choice to die or live.

Agreed, drama sucks.

yeah he prob does want to come home and misses you.

everyone makes the decisions they think are best.

it def does.

True.

True, but a lot of the drama comes from what one person thinks is best, the other is sure it's the worst thing ever.... Then again, lots of times people make decisions they know aren't best, but are doing it for other reasons, like fear, compulsion, etc.

[babyboo17forever]

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

that is def a cute idea, i may do sections to make it fun. i have no decided yet.

Yep; I'm just brainstorming ideas here. mrgreen I'm sure you've got other ideas too.

I will be very glad when my h gets home. Everything has been so hard on him, but he likes to be where he can do something when he's upset, even if it's to sit next to his dad daily during this. I feel for him. Update, now after yet another heart attack, my father in law finally decided to have that bypass surgery after all and it's scheduled for tomorrow when my h. has to come home. The airline ticket can't be changed.

I'm trying to stay out of his family drama while being supportive. I have enough drama in my own family.

I am happy for the help.

I am glad he is choosing the surgery so he may be around longer for his family but am sorry your h has to come home the day he has it. Is there a reason they will not change it.

yeah i hate to be included in any drama

Thanks.

It may be he can, but I know often when I buy a ticket it's set. It may be he's just ready to come home now too.

I feel for my husband, his siblings and their kids, all very upset after what my father in law put them through. I'm glad for their sake he finally listened to the doctors before refusing again. It turns out he hadn't before because he assumed he'd be in the hospital for a few months after the surgery and he refused to consider that. Once he finally learned that no, he'd be recovering at home, he was willing. People are strange, but it's his life and his choice to die or live.

Agreed, drama sucks.

yeah he prob does want to come home and misses you.

everyone makes the decisions they think are best.

it def does.

True.

True, but a lot of the drama comes from what one person thinks is best, the other is sure it's the worst thing ever.... Then again, lots of times people make decisions they know aren't best, but are doing it for other reasons, like fear, compulsion, etc.

very good point. i def agree with you on that.

[glengrin]

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

I am happy for the help.

I am glad he is choosing the surgery so he may be around longer for his family but am sorry your h has to come home the day he has it. Is there a reason they will not change it.

yeah i hate to be included in any drama

Thanks.

It may be he can, but I know often when I buy a ticket it's set. It may be he's just ready to come home now too.

I feel for my husband, his siblings and their kids, all very upset after what my father in law put them through. I'm glad for their sake he finally listened to the doctors before refusing again. It turns out he hadn't before because he assumed he'd be in the hospital for a few months after the surgery and he refused to consider that. Once he finally learned that no, he'd be recovering at home, he was willing. People are strange, but it's his life and his choice to die or live.

Agreed, drama sucks.

yeah he prob does want to come home and misses you.

everyone makes the decisions they think are best.

it def does.

True.

True, but a lot of the drama comes from what one person thinks is best, the other is sure it's the worst thing ever.... Then again, lots of times people make decisions they know aren't best, but are doing it for other reasons, like fear, compulsion, etc.

very good point. i def agree with you on that.

I just learned long ago to not try and control anyone. The corollary to that is people learned long ago not to try and control me either; it never turns out as they intend! I was this way even as a small child. I did what I felt was the right thing regardless of what others thought. It's worked well for me over a life time but really pissed of others who are all about control. rofl

[babyboo17forever]

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

I am happy for the help.

I am glad he is choosing the surgery so he may be around longer for his family but am sorry your h has to come home the day he has it. Is there a reason they will not change it.

yeah i hate to be included in any drama

Thanks.

It may be he can, but I know often when I buy a ticket it's set. It may be he's just ready to come home now too.

I feel for my husband, his siblings and their kids, all very upset after what my father in law put them through. I'm glad for their sake he finally listened to the doctors before refusing again. It turns out he hadn't before because he assumed he'd be in the hospital for a few months after the surgery and he refused to consider that. Once he finally learned that no, he'd be recovering at home, he was willing. People are strange, but it's his life and his choice to die or live.

Agreed, drama sucks.

yeah he prob does want to come home and misses you.

everyone makes the decisions they think are best.

it def does.

True.

True, but a lot of the drama comes from what one person thinks is best, the other is sure it's the worst thing ever.... Then again, lots of times people make decisions they know aren't best, but are doing it for other reasons, like fear, compulsion, etc.

very good point. i def agree with you on that.

I just learned long ago to not try and control anyone. The corollary to that is people learned long ago not to try and control me either; it never turns out as they intend! I was this way even as a small child. I did what I felt was the right thing regardless of what others thought. It's worked well for me over a life time but really pissed of others who are all about control. rofl

I tend to do the same thing. Today i actually pissed my father in law off, not on purpose but it happened because he didnt like what i did and he usually doesnt.

[glengrin]

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

yeah he prob does want to come home and misses you.

everyone makes the decisions they think are best.

it def does.

True.

True, but a lot of the drama comes from what one person thinks is best, the other is sure it's the worst thing ever.... Then again, lots of times people make decisions they know aren't best, but are doing it for other reasons, like fear, compulsion, etc.

very good point. i def agree with you on that.

I just learned long ago to not try and control anyone. The corollary to that is people learned long ago not to try and control me either; it never turns out as they intend! I was this way even as a small child. I did what I felt was the right thing regardless of what others thought. It's worked well for me over a life time but really pissed of others who are all about control. rofl

I tend to do the same thing. Today i actually pissed my father in law off, not on purpose but it happened because he didnt like what i did and he usually doesnt.

Nice! While the drama sucks, it'd be far worse to try to avoid it by capitulating and becoming someone we're not. That way leads to deep unhappiness.

[babyboo17forever]

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

yeah he prob does want to come home and misses you.

everyone makes the decisions they think are best.

it def does.

True.

True, but a lot of the drama comes from what one person thinks is best, the other is sure it's the worst thing ever.... Then again, lots of times people make decisions they know aren't best, but are doing it for other reasons, like fear, compulsion, etc.

very good point. i def agree with you on that.

I just learned long ago to not try and control anyone. The corollary to that is people learned long ago not to try and control me either; it never turns out as they intend! I was this way even as a small child. I did what I felt was the right thing regardless of what others thought. It's worked well for me over a life time but really pissed of others who are all about control. rofl

I tend to do the same thing. Today i actually pissed my father in law off, not on purpose but it happened because he didnt like what i did and he usually doesnt.

Nice! While the drama sucks, it'd be far worse to try to avoid it by capitulating and becoming someone we're not. That way leads to deep unhappiness.

yeah, he got mad bc he could not promice me he would be here to take our daughter to see santa so i chose to go with someone else to make sure she got to go and he got mad at me for it

[glengrin]

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

very good point. i def agree with you on that.

I just learned long ago to not try and control anyone. The corollary to that is people learned long ago not to try and control me either; it never turns out as they intend! I was this way even as a small child. I did what I felt was the right thing regardless of what others thought. It's worked well for me over a life time but really pissed of others who are all about control. rofl

I tend to do the same thing. Today i actually pissed my father in law off, not on purpose but it happened because he didnt like what i did and he usually doesnt.

Nice! While the drama sucks, it'd be far worse to try to avoid it by capitulating and becoming someone we're not. That way leads to deep unhappiness.

yeah, he got mad bc he could not promice me he would be here to take our daughter to see santa so i chose to go with someone else to make sure she got to go and he got mad at me for it

You certainly did the right thing. If he couldn't commit, he had no right to expect you to rely on him doing so. He's not taking responsibility for the results of his own action.

[babyboo17forever]

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

very good point. i def agree with you on that.

I just learned long ago to not try and control anyone. The corollary to that is people learned long ago not to try and control me either; it never turns out as they intend! I was this way even as a small child. I did what I felt was the right thing regardless of what others thought. It's worked well for me over a life time but really pissed of others who are all about control. rofl

I tend to do the same thing. Today i actually pissed my father in law off, not on purpose but it happened because he didnt like what i did and he usually doesnt.

Nice! While the drama sucks, it'd be far worse to try to avoid it by capitulating and becoming someone we're not. That way leads to deep unhappiness.

yeah, he got mad bc he could not promice me he would be here to take our daughter to see santa so i chose to go with someone else to make sure she got to go and he got mad at me for it

You certainly did the right thing. If he couldn't commit, he had no right to expect you to rely on him doing so. He's not taking responsibility for the results of his own action.

yeah, and we had plans on halloween to go to a thing called punpkinville and both him and his wife canceled so i never got to take my daughter bc they wanted to go as a family

[glengrin]

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

I tend to do the same thing. Today i actually pissed my father in law off, not on purpose but it happened because he didnt like what i did and he usually doesnt.

Nice! While the drama sucks, it'd be far worse to try to avoid it by capitulating and becoming someone we're not. That way leads to deep unhappiness.

yeah, he got mad bc he could not promice me he would be here to take our daughter to see santa so i chose to go with someone else to make sure she got to go and he got mad at me for it

You certainly did the right thing. If he couldn't commit, he had no right to expect you to rely on him doing so. He's not taking responsibility for the results of his own action.

yeah, and we had plans on halloween to go to a thing called punpkinville and both him and his wife canceled so i never got to take my daughter bc they wanted to go as a family

It's a shame you can't rely on them, for stuff like this. But you know what you need to do now to insure you're not left stranded again. They'll just have to live life disappointed and angry until they can take responsibility for their own actions.

[babyboo17forever]

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

I tend to do the same thing. Today i actually pissed my father in law off, not on purpose but it happened because he didnt like what i did and he usually doesnt.

Nice! While the drama sucks, it'd be far worse to try to avoid it by capitulating and becoming someone we're not. That way leads to deep unhappiness.

yeah, he got mad bc he could not promice me he would be here to take our daughter to see santa so i chose to go with someone else to make sure she got to go and he got mad at me for it

You certainly did the right thing. If he couldn't commit, he had no right to expect you to rely on him doing so. He's not taking responsibility for the results of his own action.

yeah, and we had plans on halloween to go to a thing called punpkinville and both him and his wife canceled so i never got to take my daughter bc they wanted to go as a family

It's a shame you can't rely on them, for stuff like this. But you know what you need to do now to insure you're not left stranded again. They'll just have to live life disappointed and angry until they can take responsibility for their own actions.

sorry i was never notified about this post (once again)

I thought they would at this point because that isnt the only time it has happened. they make promices all the time and dont keep them.

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babyboo17forever

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babyboo17forever

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babyboo17forever

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yeah, he got mad bc he could not promice me he would be here to take our daughter to see santa so i chose to go with someone else to make sure she got to go and he got mad at me for it

You certainly did the right thing. If he couldn't commit, he had no right to expect you to rely on him doing so. He's not taking responsibility for the results of his own action.

yeah, and we had plans on halloween to go to a thing called punpkinville and both him and his wife canceled so i never got to take my daughter bc they wanted to go as a family

It's a shame you can't rely on them, for stuff like this. But you know what you need to do now to insure you're not left stranded again. They'll just have to live life disappointed and angry until they can take responsibility for their own actions.

sorry i was never notified about this post (once again)

I thought they would at this point because that isnt the only time it has happened. they make promices all the time and dont keep them.

I kind of figured that was the case. I seem to recall your dad had an alcohol problem? Does his wife as well? I also seem to recall many of your family have distanced themselves from him. While I know you haven't, if he keeps blaming you and others for his own irresponsibility, you may have to, or at least keep up extremely strong boundaries. I really feel for you; that sucks.

[babyboo17forever]

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

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babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

glengrin

babyboo17forever

𝔹𝕒𝕓𝕪𝕓𝕠𝕠 𝕊𝕒𝕪'𝕤

yeah, he got mad bc he could not promice me he would be here to take our daughter to see santa so i chose to go with someone else to make sure she got to go and he got mad at me for it

You certainly did the right thing. If he couldn't commit, he had no right to expect you to rely on him doing so. He's not taking responsibility for the results of his own action.

yeah, and we had plans on halloween to go to a thing called punpkinville and both him and his wife canceled so i never got to take my daughter bc they wanted to go as a family

It's a shame you can't rely on them, for stuff like this. But you know what you need to do now to insure you're not left stranded again. They'll just have to live life disappointed and angry until they can take responsibility for their own actions.

sorry i was never notified about this post (once again)

I thought they would at this point because that isnt the only time it has happened. they make promices all the time and dont keep them.

I kind of figured that was the case. I seem to recall your dad had an alcohol problem? Does his wife as well? I also seem to recall many of your family have distanced themselves from him. While I know you haven't, if he keeps blaming you and others for his own irresponsibility, you may have to, or at least keep up extremely strong boundaries. I really feel for you; that sucks.

My dad did have a prob when he was alive but he found the time for us kids so much more about 6 months before he passed and my mom does whatever she can for me and my daughter. As far as my husbands dad and step mom, she is a recovering alcholic (but has almost went back to it after 10 years of being sober) and his dad just tends to make plans even though he knows what is going on and when it is.

It is not on me to make sure he makes time for his grand daughter.