Transtastic! ||The Chat Thread||

Do you agree to the new rules of this thread and promise to uphold them if we are moved back? (Read first post, first page)

I agree.	67.0%	[ 260 ]
I disagree.	6.2%	[ 24 ]
I don't want to read them.	8.0%	[ 31 ]
Who cares?	2.6%	[ 10 ]
Gold.	16.2%	[ 63 ]
Total Votes:			[ 388 ]

[grasscutter]

Aww I see what you're saying. I have to be with the right person and in the right mindset. If I'm too hyper then cuddling fails. I find it hard to watch movies sometimes so that's an issue XP I'm sure you'll find someone who you can relate to in that way.

Ah gotcha. That sounds shitty. It doesn't sound like you like living with her or in that area xp

Ha ha ha ha I told you I totally look more like a dude. After you said that I looked at the pics and there really are no indicators I have girl parts. I don't take testosterone or anything. It's just who I am.

Yeah it is fun, I haven't seen that. I should look for it. I'm planning on dying it crazy colors and whatnot xd mrgreen

[Syndactyly]

grasscutter

Aww I see what you're saying. I have to be with the right person and in the right mindset. If I'm too hyper then cuddling fails. I find it hard to watch movies sometimes so that's an issue XP I'm sure you'll find someone who you can relate to in that way.

Ah gotcha. That sounds shitty. It doesn't sound like you like living with her or in that area xp

Ha ha ha ha I told you I totally look more like a dude. After you said that I looked at the pics and there really are no indicators I have girl parts. I don't take testosterone or anything. It's just who I am.

Yeah it is fun, I haven't seen that. I should look for it. I'm planning on dying it crazy colors and whatnot xd mrgreen

I definitely CANNOT cuddle during a movie. And that's when people want to cuddle the most. I also can't cuddle when I'm trying to sleep. Dude, I need my space. D:<

My mom is... okay. Even though she doesn't acknowledge my gender, we get along on a lot of other levels. But I HATE this town!

I am extremely envious. I've had to work hard to look male. Granted, I never really looked female... I've always been rather androgynous. People assumed I was a girl because most guys have masculine features. I just had... features. xd

Haha. I'd like to grow my hair out some. I miss my old hair. sad

[grasscutter]

I know, I can't cuddle during movies. I love to cuddle to go to sleep though. That feels so good. Aww now I'm sad cuz I want someone to cuddle with tonight XP lol

Yeah I've never lived down there. Why do you hate it so much? Least you somewhat get along with your mom.

Really? I used to hate it. When I was a kid I got made fun of all the time. Now I'm a lot more comfortable with who I am. That's why sometimes it's hard for me to understand people who try really hard to pass, since I don't have to do that at all. Even with long hair I look like a dude with long hair. It's weird.

That's pretty awesome though. Androgyny is cool. Plus now you're starting to look more masculine so that's a cool thing to see the changes.

What does your hair look like now/ what did it look like before?

[Kaosgirl]

se revolter

if i've been told correctly. females who wish to trans into a male still can not have reassignment surgery for their genitals, which means they won't have a fully functioning p***s. without that missing puzzle piece i honestly don't see the point of having a sex change at all. you might as well just become a lesbian or bisexual who is more so like the opposite sex. there's so many risk with having a sex change, and i just don't think it's worth it if you'll always have a v****a.

Actually, they can get reassignment surgery for their genitals. It's of questionable quality, but it's sufficient for some. (Not necessarily ideal, but sufficient.)

And even without that 'missing puzzle piece,' there are still points some would find valuable. Increased muscle mass from testosterone and facial hair, for example. Lack of disconcerting jiggly bits on your chest.

One must weigh the 'risks' versus the 'rewards' and make their own decision - albeit with qualified guidance, according to the standards of care. It's not my place to second guess the recommendations of their psychologist - though I reserve that right regarding my own.

[Syndactyly]

Hmmm. Well, when sleeping, I just need my space. Also, if I'm spooning with someone, that's pretty much an instant turn on and I'll want to ******** instead of sleep. gonk

Well, there's A LOT of uptight religious people here. I think that's the worst part for me.

Haha, I would have hated being teased, but if I was in your position today I'd be so thrilled.

Yeah, I love the changes.

Photobucket is being so stupid right now, so I can't post pics. D:< It's been acting up for me all day but no one else seems to have any trouble using it... Anyway, my hair right now is... maybe an inch and a half long? It's just kind of a short do. It used to be more around 3-4 inches long, so I had bangs and stuff. I just liked that look better. I liked my sexy hair, lol...

[grasscutter]

Ha ha I really laughed out loud when you mentioned the spooning ******** thing XD

Ah yeah I would hate that. Argh. I'm sorry.

Yeah I hated it when I was a kid, I'm a lot more comfortable now. Obviously I just shaved my head biggrin How masculine do you look now? Would you say more or less than me?

That's lame. I just used photobucket too. You should post pics when you get a chance. Ha ha well that won't take too long to grow out. It's gonna hit the akward stage though XP But then you'll have sexy hair biggrin

[Syndactyly]

Kaosgirl

se revolter

if i've been told correctly. females who wish to trans into a male still can not have reassignment surgery for their genitals, which means they won't have a fully functioning p***s. without that missing puzzle piece i honestly don't see the point of having a sex change at all. you might as well just become a lesbian or bisexual who is more so like the opposite sex. there's so many risk with having a sex change, and i just don't think it's worth it if you'll always have a v****a.

Actually, they can get reassignment surgery for their genitals. It's of questionable quality, but it's sufficient for some. (Not necessarily ideal, but sufficient.)

And even without that 'missing puzzle piece,' there are still points some would find valuable. Increased muscle mass from testosterone and facial hair, for example. Lack of disconcerting jiggly bits on your chest.

One must weigh the 'risks' versus the 'rewards' and make their own decision - albeit with qualified guidance, according to the standards of care. It's not my place to second guess the recommendations of their psychologist - though I reserve that right regarding my own.

I might not be able to get a perfect d**k, but I would like to get rid of my v****a. So many gay men turn me down because "v****a is gross." Maybe if I just didn't have any genitals they'd be okay with that. I'm probably going to go for metoidioplasty, so I'd have a small d**k. Then I guess their reason would be I have a small d**k. At least it wouldn't be, "Eww you're a woman" anymore.

Agreed with the second part, totally agreed. Sure, I can't have my d**k, but I can still get out of having a female body. And that's great.

[Syndactyly]

grasscutter

Ha ha I really laughed out loud when you mentioned the spooning ******** thing XD

Ah yeah I would hate that. Argh. I'm sorry.

Yeah I hated it when I was a kid, I'm a lot more comfortable now. Obviously I just shaved my head biggrin How masculine do you look now? Would you say more or less than me?

That's lame. I just used photobucket too. You should post pics when you get a chance. Ha ha well that won't take too long to grow out. It's gonna hit the akward stage though XP But then you'll have sexy hair biggrin

Yeah, it's like this:
I'm big spoon, my d**k is touching your a**. I want to ******** your a**.
I'm little spoon, you're touching my a**, I want you to ******** my a** (with your d**k or strap-on).
xd

Yeah. The people here are so uptight, when I was in HS they banned "Opposite Gender Day" saying it was encouraging/condoning homosexuality/transsexuality. I don't even think they know what that means.

In terms of masculinity, you've got me beat, at least in facial structure. I still look like a kid. I have a baby face. gonk I'll be sure to post some pix when Photobucket stops being a douche.

[grasscutter]

Sorry for the late reply, I went out for a smoke break and saw my friend outside and we started talking and.... yeah you know how that goes.

Ha ha ha nice. I can see how that'd get you going. I've spooned before. I like it. Ah ******** I'm actually getting horny now and I'm alone. Just talking about this stuff is doing that. Awesome.

What? Really? That's bullshit. I don't even see how that could be legal. I've heard stuff about high schools being weird about trans and homosexuality stuffage. A girl had almost didn't get to have a senior pic in the yearbook because she wore a tux. That's ******** up. My school wasn't really open about it, and I was teased a bit when I wasn't even out, but it wasn't too bad.

Ha ha that's awesome. You'll get a more adult looking face eventually. That's so cool, I have never really thought about it as a compliment how I look. That's really awesome actually. I'm glad that I'm starting to actually like who I am as a person.

Do post some pics when Photobucket lets you, I wanna see!

[Breayue]

Hm...I haven't seen much transexual hate where I live. In middle school and high school we did gender bender day during spirit week. Almost all the guys in the school wore mini skirts, high heels, wigs, make-up...point is they just went all out. There were only a couple girls who participated, I was one of them and loved it. The girl I had a crush on at the time said I looked really cute that day.

Syndactyly

Yes, if you are having a double-mastectomy, the nipples are temporarily removed and then grafted back on. They can also be resized if yours are "too big," although that's mostly a matter of stereotype, I've seen men with nipples of all sizes.

-nods- That part makes me a bit queesy. Mine are very sensitive, to the point that if attention is payed too much on them, it becomes unenjoyable. I wouldn't mind if they resized mine wee bit.

Syndactyly

Thing is, I was known as female for 18 years, but that didn't stop me from announcing my new name and new preferred pronouns. We all have to "change suddenly" at some point if we want to change at all.

Yes, definatly. There has been alot of sudden changes for the last year and a half here. For this I want to carefully smooth it in. Knowing how tings usually go it'll probably just be slammed down in the most sudden way possible. My luck for ya, lol.
It really shouldn't be a suprise. I was always known as the tomboy of the family. My mother mostly bought me boy cloths (to make me look unattractive). The cult my mom has us involved in called me "boy chelsea", which was bad in their eyes and made me feel like it was wrong.

Syndactyly

Yes, genitals do not make the man or woman. Sex classification is far more complicated than, "It has a p***s, it's a boy!" Now, this is what they do when the child is born. Because in most cases, yes, if it has a p***s it is a boy. But there are people with penises that have XX chromosomes, that identify as female, that have high levels of estrogen, etc.

That's what I thought you were talking about. I remember one day having a debate with my father on possible reasons why one would be gay or transgender and I brought up hormone levels. Of course being the holy roller he is he claimed it's impossible and people aren't born gay or transgender. I just kinda chuckled and walked away.

[Yaminon]

sad

So, I've been having sex problems with my boyfriend (who is also trans).

He doesn't seem to get the fact that... I don't like sex because I'm really dysphoric. He doesn't have the same dysphoria problems that I have, and it's like... he doesn't understand how much sex upsets me. I also was in sort of a bad relationship with someone in the past who made me do things sexually that I wasn't comfortable with, and it hasn't made it any easier for me to deal with body things.

I'm so frustrated and upset. He's been really patient, but I guess he's just had it because I don't reciprocate sexually and he said he thinks I'm just lazy and making excuses.

[Untamed Heart Beat]

Yaminon

sad

So, I've been having sex problems with my boyfriend (who is also trans).

He doesn't seem to get the fact that... I don't like sex because I'm really dysphoric. He doesn't have the same dysphoria problems that I have, and it's like... he doesn't understand how much sex upsets me. I also was in sort of a bad relationship with someone in the past who made me do things sexually that I wasn't comfortable with, and it hasn't made it any easier for me to deal with body things.

I'm so frustrated and upset. He's been really patient, but I guess he's just had it because I don't reciprocate sexually and he said he thinks I'm just lazy and making excuses.

Have you tried explaining things to him? I mean i know when i use to have those problems with James, we talked about it. Sex can be a great thing, but only when you are ready. You can't let him push you, and if he doesnt understand the situation in full, then he cant truly understand. <3

[Everlasting Radiance]

Hi everybody.. I'm 20 (21 in just a few months!) and I am MTF.

I haven't had much success though. =/ I'm stuck with a family that says they're supportive but they aren't in reality. I have a few good friends but I don't see the ones that are actually supportive enough.

So yeah, I'm stuck... crying

[Untamed Heart Beat]

Bassoonist

Hi everybody.. I'm 20 (21 in just a few months!) and I am MTF.

I haven't had much success though. =/ I'm stuck with a family that says they're supportive but they aren't in reality. I have a few good friends but I don't see the ones that are actually supportive enough.

So yeah, I'm stuck... crying

You are more than welcome to this thread. If you would like a friend, i support you, and everyone in here, though many times we dont see eye to eye, we all love and care for eachother.

[GaijinGuy36]

Mosaic of Broken Hearts

Bassoonist

Hi everybody.. I'm 20 (21 in just a few months!) and I am MTF.

I haven't had much success though. =/ I'm stuck with a family that says they're supportive but they aren't in reality. I have a few good friends but I don't see the ones that are actually supportive enough.

So yeah, I'm stuck... crying

You are more than welcome to this thread. If you would like a friend, i support you, and everyone in here, though many times we dont see eye to eye, we all love and care for eachother.

I'll second those sentiments, Mosaic.
Welcome, Bassoonist! Relax, let your hair down, enjoy being here! Maybe we can help! mrgreen