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My mom doesn't talk like that. And when she has company she just locks my door.
Slave- Chained by Romance
*shuffles my feet* I was told this thread had some understanding people. Though i am not a transgender or transexual, i am intersexed. I have a unique condition, but that isnt important in this thread post, to get that story you will have to PM me. But anyways, im looking for some advice/supportive articles and such that could help me with the whole transition, because im tired if hiding it from people
You're in a good place here. We have scads of people who are in transition, thinking about it, or know somebody who is. May I ask what your intended destination is?

Oh, and I'm Jeannette. 49, mtf ts, had some surgery, bee fulltime since 1994. Lesbian by inclination, tho few bio-fem dykes see me as such.
Jeannette Willow
Slave- Chained by Romance
*shuffles my feet* I was told this thread had some understanding people. Though i am not a transgender or transexual, i am intersexed. I have a unique condition, but that isnt important in this thread post, to get that story you will have to PM me. But anyways, im looking for some advice/supportive articles and such that could help me with the whole transition, because im tired if hiding it from people
You're in a good place here. We have scads of people who are in transition, thinking about it, or know somebody who is. May I ask what your intended destination is?

Oh, and I'm Jeannette. 49, mtf ts, had some surgery, bee fulltime since 1994. Lesbian by inclination, tho few bio-fem dykes see me as such.


I'd consider you a lesbian.
NightOceanGirl221
Jeannette Willow
Slave- Chained by Romance
*shuffles my feet* I was told this thread had some understanding people. Though i am not a transgender or transexual, i am intersexed. I have a unique condition, but that isnt important in this thread post, to get that story you will have to PM me. But anyways, im looking for some advice/supportive articles and such that could help me with the whole transition, because im tired if hiding it from people
You're in a good place here. We have scads of people who are in transition, thinking about it, or know somebody who is. May I ask what your intended destination is?

Oh, and I'm Jeannette. 49, mtf ts, had some surgery, bee fulltime since 1994. Lesbian by inclination, tho few bio-fem dykes see me as such.


I'd consider you a lesbian.

NOG, I'd run over and hug you totally if I could. Thanks smile

As for other intersexed people, didn't they find out that track star who so totally out-ran the rest of the women is really intersexed? No ovaries, no uterus, ubdescended testicles, serum testosterone levels at 3x normal for bio-fems?

Conservative Smoker

it was something like that...
I think I read about that... didn't they think she was male at first?
Yeah, they did. Apparently one or more of the losers were cheesed off enough to demand she undergo a slew of tests to decide if she is or is not. I think the results have left them flummoxed, as I've seen naught new on this since then.
I hope they figure out a fair way to let her compete!
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Yes, foh realz. cool

So okay, on topic. This is my current Facebook status:

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Is finally admitting that I am incredibly attracted to guys... and suddenly depressed that I can't seem to find any that are okay with my body. When I try to talk to people about it they give me the whole, "You did this to yourself" sp...iel... They just don't understand, I wouldn't have ever been happy as a "straight girl." I would never betray my own gender identity for the sake of being with a guy.
I hate this crap so much. I can't find any guy who is REALLY open to the idea. That's why I made the pansexuality thread. Because every pansexual guy I talk to is like, "I'm not into cuntboys, sorry." WTF? The only queer guy I know who is okay with dating transmen is a transman himself, but he's polyamorous and lives 500 miles away from me. *SIGH*

I just don't know what to do. I'm sort of feeling suicidal again, to be honest. I just don't have much hope in me left for my future. And as long as I keep pitying myself no one is going to be interested in me. This feels awful.
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I'm sorry Dan. D:If it means anything to you, I'd date a transman and I'm only like 50 miles from you.
People are around, you just gotta keep going.
That does give me some hope, but the 50 miles thing. I want to be liked by someone who can actually, I donno, see me. gonk If guys who date trans guys are so rare that they're no closer than 50 miles to me... See where I'm going with this?

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Syndactyly
Yes, foh realz. cool

So okay, on topic. This is my current Facebook status:

Quote:
Is finally admitting that I am incredibly attracted to guys... and suddenly depressed that I can't seem to find any that are okay with my body. When I try to talk to people about it they give me the whole, "You did this to yourself" sp...iel... They just don't understand, I wouldn't have ever been happy as a "straight girl." I would never betray my own gender identity for the sake of being with a guy.
I hate this crap so much. I can't find any guy who is REALLY open to the idea. That's why I made the pansexuality thread. Because every pansexual guy I talk to is like, "I'm not into cuntboys, sorry." WTF? The only queer guy I know who is okay with dating transmen is a transman himself, but he's polyamorous and lives 500 miles away from me. *SIGH*

*cough cough*

But I guess me being okay with it doesn't count since you don't like the way I view you?

I could actually show up over there for a weekend a few weeks from now.
If you were okay with that.
It kind of doesn't, because I want a guy to accept me as a man. sad

LULZ! That wouldn't be a good idea. Unless I suddenly ended up with an apartment. My family said pretty much under no circumstances may I have friends over.

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xD I tried.
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It kind of doesn't, because I want a guy to accept me as a man. sad

LULZ! That wouldn't be a good idea. Unless I suddenly ended up with an apartment. My family said pretty much under no circumstances may I have friends over.


Wow you have a strict family. My mom is really happy whenever I have people over because it means I have a social life.

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Yes, foh realz. cool

So okay, on topic. This is my current Facebook status:

Quote:
Is finally admitting that I am incredibly attracted to guys... and suddenly depressed that I can't seem to find any that are okay with my body. When I try to talk to people about it they give me the whole, "You did this to yourself" sp...iel... They just don't understand, I wouldn't have ever been happy as a "straight girl." I would never betray my own gender identity for the sake of being with a guy.
I hate this crap so much. I can't find any guy who is REALLY open to the idea. That's why I made the pansexuality thread. Because every pansexual guy I talk to is like, "I'm not into cuntboys, sorry." WTF? The only queer guy I know who is okay with dating transmen is a transman himself, but he's polyamorous and lives 500 miles away from me. *SIGH*

I just don't know what to do. I'm sort of feeling suicidal again, to be honest. I just don't have much hope in me left for my future. And as long as I keep pitying myself no one is going to be interested in me. This feels awful.
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I'm sorry Dan. D:If it means anything to you, I'd date a transman and I'm only like 50 miles from you.
People are around, you just gotta keep going.


That does give me some hope, but the 50 miles thing. I want to be liked by someone who can actually, I donno, see me. gonk If guys who date trans guys are so rare that they're no closer than 50 miles to me... See where I'm going with this?
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Pft, it's only an hour and 5 minute drive. talk2hand
The point is, they're around. If there's one 50 miles away who's the say there's not one that's, oh I donno... 3 miles away?

EDIT: also, as I stated, I know a few guys here that would date you/screw your brains out. xD If there's multiple in a small retirement town like Hemet, who's the say they're not everywhere?
Last I checked there's a sex offender 3 miles away. Maybe he could help me out? gonk

NightOceanGirl221
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It kind of doesn't, because I want a guy to accept me as a man. sad

LULZ! That wouldn't be a good idea. Unless I suddenly ended up with an apartment. My family said pretty much under no circumstances may I have friends over.


Wow you have a strict family. My mom is really happy whenever I have people over because it means I have a social life.
Well, it's a long story. At 18 years old I pretty much said "******** you" (in nicer words) and moved out. Then I ended up homeless and had to crawl back to them a year later. So they've set some really strict rules... as a way to get back at me I guess? I don't know. I think mostly they want to avoid having "those freaky trannies" in their house. Yes, they have serious problems with people like us. sad

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Syndactyly
Last I checked there's a sex offender 3 miles away. Maybe he could help me out? gonk

NightOceanGirl221
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It kind of doesn't, because I want a guy to accept me as a man. sad

LULZ! That wouldn't be a good idea. Unless I suddenly ended up with an apartment. My family said pretty much under no circumstances may I have friends over.


Wow you have a strict family. My mom is really happy whenever I have people over because it means I have a social life.
Well, it's a long story. At 18 years old I pretty much said "******** you" (in nicer words) and moved out. Then I ended up homeless and had to crawl back to them a year later. So they've set some really strict rules... as a way to get back at me I guess? I don't know. I think mostly they want to avoid having "those freaky trannies" in their house. Yes, they have serious problems with people like us. sad
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I have 3 on my street D:
Syndactyly
Last I checked there's a sex offender 3 miles away. Maybe he could help me out? gonk

NightOceanGirl221
Syndactyly
It kind of doesn't, because I want a guy to accept me as a man. sad

LULZ! That wouldn't be a good idea. Unless I suddenly ended up with an apartment. My family said pretty much under no circumstances may I have friends over.


Wow you have a strict family. My mom is really happy whenever I have people over because it means I have a social life.
Well, it's a long story. At 18 years old I pretty much said "******** you" (in nicer words) and moved out. Then I ended up homeless and had to crawl back to them a year later. So they've set some really strict rules... as a way to get back at me I guess? I don't know. I think mostly they want to avoid having "those freaky trannies" in their house. Yes, they have serious problems with people like us. sad


While you did mess up that is kind of mean. As for the sex offender thing a serial rapist used to live down the street from me. Really creepy.

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