Kata Samoes
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- Posted: Fri, 16 Nov 2007 05:44:52 +0000
Barely_evil
I was not directing any verbage toward you, your bedroom, your mom or so on. How come you have to be so vulgar anyway? I haven't spoken to you and I hate to read your responses where you quote my posts and use such vulgarity.
Back on topic, you don't have a uterus, you are a man, or atleast I hope you are no woman.
And one last thing for you to get through your thick skull, if you have sex (and you are a woman), you know that there's a probability of pregnancy, consensual or not, you know there are chances of it happening. You know the cause, you know how you can end up. I have no empathy for a person who has your attitude.
Back on topic, you don't have a uterus, you are a man, or atleast I hope you are no woman.
And one last thing for you to get through your thick skull, if you have sex (and you are a woman), you know that there's a probability of pregnancy, consensual or not, you know there are chances of it happening. You know the cause, you know how you can end up. I have no empathy for a person who has your attitude.
Chance of pregnancy is not a guarantee of pregnancy, so if she gets pregnant she did not welcome it. Most likely she tried to prevent it with precautions, and had sex for reasons OTHER than pregnancy!
And just for kicks and giggles, I'll reiterate this FASCINATING concept for you:
Consent to sex =/= consent to pregnancy, only the risk. Risk =/= result, as pregnancy is not guaranteed every time you have sex, so there is no responsibility for the woman to be, or stay, pregnant.
I believe Moniquill puts it nicely:
"Consent to sex=/=Consent to sperm in the uterus. Consent to sperm in the uterus=/=Consent to conception. Consent to conception=/=consent to implantation. Consent to implantation=/= consent to pregnancy. Consent to pregnancy=/= consent to carry to term. Consent, by its nature, must be EXPRESS and ONGOING. It can be withdrawn, and unless it's directly spelled out, it cannot be assumed."
Women cannot control if, when, or HOW they conceive. Fault does not exist there. Sex is not the only source of pregnancy.
Sex also has many functions, none of them a primary purpose unless chosen by the couple.
Here are the functions of sex, in no order:
Fun
Exercise
Pleasure
Pro-creation
Bonding
Spiritual
Experimental
Passing time
Relief
Relaxation
And humans are not the only ones who have sex for reasons other than pro-creation: READ.
Do not assume every unwanted pregnancy is the result of consensual sex. They may result due to sexual abuse, rape, or the contraception/birth control simply failed.
Thus, due to freedom of choice and personal morals, abortion is a right and a choice for all women.