DiGital Lucifer
You say it like I'm the one deciding these things.
As do you.
DiGital Lucifer
It's common sense to understand some things are not the best way for everyone.
Of course. But then, no action is ever in everyone's favor.
DiGital Lucifer
I think it's common feelings in abortion that a would-be mother realizes the nature of what she's doing. I doubt that it's an alternative that is regarded as.. The best choice possible. Possibly for them at that moment in time.. But certainly not the only alternative.
And why do you think that these are common feelings? Common to whom?
DiGital Lucifer
In addition.. My understanding of responsibility stems from something you can't debate with.
If I can't debate with it, then neither can you.
IPrimarily because you'd be a fool to say that some of the most joyful things in life should be treated with dissrespect. By dissrespect, I insinuate that it's a dissrespect for life. In the case of something extenuating, it's a tough choice between which is more valuable.
You'll have to make yourself more clear.
I do not mock your beloefs and values, why do you feel need to both assume mine and then call them foolish? I'll be plain: I do not believe existence to be more valid than nonexistence. I do not think that life is superior to nonlife. I do not think that anyone or anything ever has an innate right to existence.
DiGital Lucifer
I see you think I dictate what's right and wrong; An irrational thought considering I'm leaving myself open to rational change.
Quite the opposite. I'm not trying to dictate what is right and wrong. I'm trying to prove that no one has the jurisdiction to do so for another and that attempts at such are illogical.
DiGital Lucifer
Besides.. If selfishness isn't wrong, why don't you explain why. I gave an opinionated explanation why I personally see selfishness as inappropriate.
The burden of proof lies with one trying to make a positive statement. It is impossible to disprove somethign from a stance of nonexistence. If I claim that there's a purple dragon standing behind you, it's my job to prove it rather than your job to say 'No, there isn't'
DiGital Lucifer
I do believe a parent is made at conception; whether or not they are truly a parent is no gurantee since it's not that feasible to say you know they will or not as time goes on.
And that is a personal belief. So long as you recognize that, no foul. The moment you try to state is as fact, you run into problems.
DiGital Lucifer
In my opinion.. Parenting includes how you treat a child while they are still developing in the womb. Since after all.. You can ******** them up by doing stupid s**t like getting drunk every night or smoking cigarettes.
That doesn't count as parenting under my definition, but merely as taking responsibility for one's pregnancy. Parenthood, in my view, applies only after there is a neonate (or older child) to be a parent to. Before such time, pregnancy is a medical condition.