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Little Lucii
Dangerous Hunter
Ralodosmovo
Little Lucii
For sure. What do you write about?
emotion_bigheart
gaia_contract
gaia_angelleft grr purr grr gaia_angelright
I roleplay but I'm also working on a novel
It's about cosmic gods and divorce.
Ralodosmovo
Frost-tail Wolf
It spoopy in here~
emotion_kirakira
emotion_kirakira
Hello. Cool avi.Ralodosmovo
Little Lucii
Ah I see. I never got into rp as I never saw the appeal. That's cool tho and getting to be creative is such a healthy thing. 3nodding What I need to start getting on writing is the main backbone for the game/romhacks I want to make. It's def challenging cuz the story is so huge lol. Like oh man idk where to even start on tryna explain it all but yeah it's def gonna be a huge a** thing and it's a ******** load of work. I'm also having to do tons of research as well.
So other than that project, I also do quite a bit of writing for my goth blog. I have a couple new topics to talk about and rn it's all just a matter of me putting my thoughts into words. Plus I'm going to be having to do research for these subjects as well. So I def keep plenty busy. ^^
Little Lucii
Dangerous Hunter
Ralodosmovo
Little Lucii
Ah I see. I never got into rp as I never saw the appeal. That's cool tho and getting to be creative is such a healthy thing. 3nodding What I need to start getting on writing is the main backbone for the game/romhacks I want to make. It's def challenging cuz the story is so huge lol. Like oh man idk where to even start on tryna explain it all but yeah it's def gonna be a huge a** thing and it's a ******** load of work. I'm also having to do tons of research as well.
So other than that project, I also do quite a bit of writing for my goth blog. I have a couple new topics to talk about and rn it's all just a matter of me putting my thoughts into words. Plus I'm going to be having to do research for these subjects as well. So I def keep plenty busy. ^^
emotion_bigheart
gaia_contract
gaia_angelleft grr purr grr gaia_angelright
STICKY NOTES ARE YOUR FRIENDS.
please use them like everywhere. I have ideas randomly and I keep sticky notes on hand. If I have an idea I write it down and add it to my journal at the end of the day. That way I can organize them later !
Frost-tail Wolf
Ralodosmovo
Frost-tail Wolf
It spoopy in here~
emotion_kirakira
emotion_kirakira
Hello. Cool avi.Why thank you~
Ralodosmovo
Little Lucii
STICKY NOTES ARE YOUR FRIENDS.
please use them like everywhere. I have ideas randomly and I keep sticky notes on hand. If I have an idea I write it down and add it to my journal at the end of the day. That way I can organize them later !
please use them like everywhere. I have ideas randomly and I keep sticky notes on hand. If I have an idea I write it down and add it to my journal at the end of the day. That way I can organize them later !
True but I mostly use those for like phone numbers n s**t. I have a few Discord channels I use for notes. One's a DM to myself with an alt and the others are on the private server. It's super organized. lol But yeah when I gets my ideas, I gotsta jot em down. Such a pain when I forget to. I usually don't forget tho cuz this project means a lot to me so I'm pretty on top of things.
Seri Dreams
Benevolent Wolf
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Ralodosmovo
Seri Dreams
ᯓ✦∘I finally went on an art hiatus, to so I can make myself
something but now there is no art flow HAHA. Go figure.
Then I started feeling a little down today, but I am sure it will
go away once I focus on my routine of things.
something but now there is no art flow HAHA. Go figure.
Then I started feeling a little down today, but I am sure it will
go away once I focus on my routine of things.
Feel free to hmu via DM if you're ever not feeling so great. I'd be down to chat with ya. heart I hope you feel better too. heart I was a little stressed earlier over what was discussed in the Gaia channel but it passed quickly as it tends to do. Rn I'm just waiting for it to be dinner time. xp But yeah if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm usually always around sept when I'm off for the night. heart
my non-supportive mother, I never had a nurturing mother.
She tries her best, I am sure. But I mentioned how I want to
go back to school, because my school grant has been restored.
I want to claim my life again, because I was robbed of it from
taking care of my family. Instead of being supportive, she puts
me down. And its like... well you know how that can be.
I am going to look into it though, I want to keep
looking forward, not backwards.
I guess the main thing that had me in my feels, is that it reminded me
of all the people that downplayed my wins.
I LOATHE people like that. Its like... get over yourself, and learn how
to be happy for others. And they act like you don't know what depression is.
And I am like tf I do! Oh do I know. My life is depression LOL.
But it wont stop me from celebrating people I care about, to not do so...
just makes you a shitty person.
I am sorry you were in it too Ralo, dinner sounds like a lovely remedy too!
And likewise, feel free to holla at me xD!
I am here for you, and anyone else that needs someone to hype them.
rawfie
Seri Dreams
ᯓ✦∘I finally went on an art hiatus, to so I can make myself
something but now there is no art flow HAHA. Go figure.
Then I started feeling a little down today, but I am sure it will
go away once I focus on my routine of things.
something but now there is no art flow HAHA. Go figure.
Then I started feeling a little down today, but I am sure it will
go away once I focus on my routine of things.
rawfie
Manly Man-Lover
Ralodosmovo
Seri Dreams
Tysm hun. That means a lot. And yeah I def feel for you cuz you and I have that in common. I can talk more in depth about it in our DM of you ever want. Yeah ppl like that can be the worst. It's almost kind of hard to imagine how some ppl can be that dense, but fact of the matter is, it's due to a number of reasons. One of which if not the main is that they lack personal accountability. That's honestly the back bone of it but it branches off into how they are. The narcissism, their invalidating nature, them choosing to ignore even the mere possibility of someone other than themselves dealing with mental struggles. The list goes on.
It's also 100% selfishness. When one refuses to look at the bigger picture, invalidates others and so on, it just shows they're a s**t person and need to grow up. Thing is tho, individuals like this are usually already about as mature as they're going to get in life. They choose to remain dense which will keep closing everyone else out. Honestly it's a whole a** ******** load of psychological s**t that I understand very well but at the end of the day it's 100% on them and they can't blame it on anyone else or any mental problems they might have.
Just know that you are absolutely 1000% above that and are the better person. Keep in mind that even when they invalidate you, what they're really doing is invalidating themselves because they're so imbalanced that they don't even to step back and take a look at how they're being as a person. It's a shame really and they will become more and more isolated until they change for the better which they rarely ever do.
As for your feelings and what you go through, it is valid. Fact of the matter is that everyone's feelings are valid. You can't even really take that away from someone either. We feel what we feel and it's not just gonna undo cuz someone's a tool and can't brain common decency. xp
Lol sorry that was a lot. But idk I just often have a lot to say. You're an amazing person, good friend and a strong individual. You are someone who truly represents what the goth community is really all about. I'm sorry you have to live with ppl like that and I've been around them my whole life too and it never gets any easier till you're able to get away from them. Another thing to keep in mind is that 'these things don't last forever.' You can absolutely get away from all that some day and you deserve it. It's just all about taking the right steps to get there even if we have to take it one small step at a time, one day at a time. You goth this. 3nodding heart
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rawfie
Seri Dreams
rawfie
Seri Dreams
ᯓ✦∘I finally went on an art hiatus, to so I can make myself
something but now there is no art flow HAHA. Go figure.
Then I started feeling a little down today, but I am sure it will
go away once I focus on my routine of things.
something but now there is no art flow HAHA. Go figure.
Then I started feeling a little down today, but I am sure it will
go away once I focus on my routine of things.
people decide to keep trying 3nodding
Ralodosmovo
Seri Dreams
Tysm hun. That means a lot. And yeah I def feel for you cuz you and I have that in common. I can talk more in depth about it in our DM of you ever want. Yeah ppl like that can be the worst. It's almost kind of hard to imagine how some ppl can be that dense, but fact of the matter is, it's due to a number of reasons. One of which if not the main is that they lack personal accountability. That's honestly the back bone of it but it branches off into how they are. The narcissism, their invalidating nature, them choosing to ignore even the mere possibility of someone other than themselves dealing with mental struggles. The list goes on.
It's also 100% selfishness. When one refuses to look at the bigger picture, invalidates others and so on, it just shows they're a s**t person and need to grow up. Thing is tho, individuals like this are usually already about as mature as they're going to get in life. They choose to remain dense which will keep closing everyone else out. Honestly it's a whole a** ******** load of psychological s**t that I understand very well but at the end of the day it's 100% on them and they can't blame it on anyone else or any mental problems they might have.
Just know that you are absolutely 1000% above that and are the better person. Keep in mind that even when they invalidate you, what they're really doing is invalidating themselves because they're so imbalanced that they don't even to step back and take a look at how they're being as a person. It's a shame really and they will become more and more isolated until they change for the better which they rarely ever do.
As for your feelings and what you go through, it is valid. Fact of the matter is that everyone's feelings are valid. You can't even really take that away from someone either. We feel what we feel and it's not just gonna undo cuz someone's a tool and can't brain common decency. xp
Lol sorry that was a lot. But idk I just often have a lot to say. You're an amazing person, good friend and a strong individual. You are someone who truly represents what the goth community is really all about. I'm sorry you have to live with ppl like that and I've been around them my whole life too and it never gets any easier till you're able to get away from them. Another thing to keep in mind is that 'these things don't last forever.' You can absolutely get away from all that some day and you deserve it. It's just all about taking the right steps to get there even if we have to take it one small step at a time, one day at a time. You goth this. 3nodding heart
Anyways. Yes, I think that invalidation is something that triggers TF out of me,
because that is just so much of my past that I won't tolerate today.
And, my mother just so happens to be the only person I TRY to tolerate.
I want to be a vet tech, I want to do something that I always wanted to do.
I went to school to be a grade teacher, but she downplayed that too.
And I dropped out. And its like....
I wish I can hug the me back then and tell her, "Cyn you have so much love, and
potential in you. Don't let people downplay your wins!" heart
I had past bonds like that too, "How is someone with anxiety going to care for
kids, or animals?" And I should of said, "Watch me." rofl
I got so much sass today, and I don't want to give credit to my past traumas.
But sometimes people do teach you to grow a spine, and tell people off.
Because, the only reason I dealt with people was because I LET myself deal with them.
And no one has to.
Heck you don't have to be mean back, you just politely set a boundary and tell someone
"Hey I get you are miserable, but downplaying my wins maakes you a shitty person."
OKAY maybe thats not polite, but its just as right to say.
Like what am I supposed to do? Keep everything to myself?
At that point your walking on egg shells.
Your carrying other peoples emotions, and its no ones responsibility to do that.
And my mother is exactly that. She reminds me the type of people I don't want in my
life.
Accountability is correct though! So you are right.
Unfortunately some people rather push blame.
Ralodosmovo
Seri Dreams
YOU GOTH THIS omg love that xD <3
Anyways. Yes, I think that invalidation is something that triggers TF out of me,
because that is just so much of my past that I won't tolerate today.
And, my mother just so happens to be the only person I TRY to tolerate.
I want to be a vet tech, I want to do something that I always wanted to do.
I went to school to be a grade teacher, but she downplayed that too.
And I dropped out. And its like....
I wish I can hug the me back then and tell her, "Cyn you have so much love, and
potential in you. Don't let people downplay your wins!" heart
I had past bonds like that too, "How is someone with anxiety going to care for
kids, or animals?" And I should of said, "Watch me." rofl
I got so much sass today, and I don't want to give credit to my past traumas.
But sometimes people do teach you to grow a spine, and tell people off.
Because, the only reason I dealt with people was because I LET myself deal with them.
And no one has to.
Heck you don't have to be mean back, you just politely set a boundary and tell someone
"Hey I get you are miserable, but downplaying my wins maakes you a shitty person."
OKAY maybe thats not polite, but its just as right to say.
Like what am I supposed to do? Keep everything to myself?
At that point your walking on egg shells.
Your carrying other peoples emotions, and its no ones responsibility to do that.
And my mother is exactly that. She reminds me the type of people I don't want in my
life.
Accountability is correct though! So you are right.
Unfortunately some people rather push blame.
Anyways. Yes, I think that invalidation is something that triggers TF out of me,
because that is just so much of my past that I won't tolerate today.
And, my mother just so happens to be the only person I TRY to tolerate.
I want to be a vet tech, I want to do something that I always wanted to do.
I went to school to be a grade teacher, but she downplayed that too.
And I dropped out. And its like....
I wish I can hug the me back then and tell her, "Cyn you have so much love, and
potential in you. Don't let people downplay your wins!" heart
I had past bonds like that too, "How is someone with anxiety going to care for
kids, or animals?" And I should of said, "Watch me." rofl
I got so much sass today, and I don't want to give credit to my past traumas.
But sometimes people do teach you to grow a spine, and tell people off.
Because, the only reason I dealt with people was because I LET myself deal with them.
And no one has to.
Heck you don't have to be mean back, you just politely set a boundary and tell someone
"Hey I get you are miserable, but downplaying my wins maakes you a shitty person."
OKAY maybe thats not polite, but its just as right to say.
Like what am I supposed to do? Keep everything to myself?
At that point your walking on egg shells.
Your carrying other peoples emotions, and its no ones responsibility to do that.
And my mother is exactly that. She reminds me the type of people I don't want in my
life.
Accountability is correct though! So you are right.
Unfortunately some people rather push blame.
Yes I love goth puns and that gives me an idea rn. I should write a collection of em on the front page. 
I only know a few but they're so good. xDI got the goth puns listed on the front page now. :3 [x]
Hey yeah it triggers me too as it just reminds me of past abuse n s**t. I try not to think about stuff like that tbh as it just doesn't do any good for me. Though I will address matters of concern whenever need be.
Working with animals is an incredibly admirable line of work and for someone to disrespect that is incredibly disturbing and is a very bad sign on their part. Like you're pretty much a piece of s**t if you look down on someone for working with and or caring about animals. No way around it I'm afraid.
Also sorry this took forever for me to get back to you on. I was in a haze for a while heh. When that happens I'm just in a stoned adhd swirl of a dozen things I'm doing at once while slowly taking forever with each thing. xD sweatdrop
Oh same with with downplaying you wanting to teach kids. Like what the ********? Crazy ppl I tell you. Sorry you're surrounded by ppl like that. I'm just glad me and mines are able to provide a nice community for you and everyone else. ;o;
Nah I get you on putting up with ppl like that. Ohhhhhh the setting boundaries in that way where we're also putting ppl in their place. Man that is gold stuff and my partner A does it beautifully when he's dealing with s**t customers or well, s**t ppl in general. Hell, even around here. It's like you totally don't let ppls s**t get to you at all and you remain polite, respectful, and unaffected. Haha it really puts them in their place esp when you can think of witty s**t that points out how they're just a bumbling tool while we're level headed and not affected. Lol never gets old and I never get tired of doing that myself either. lol
Seri Dreams
Benevolent Wolf
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Ralodosmovo
Seri Dreams
YOU GOTH THIS omg love that xD <3
Anyways. Yes, I think that invalidation is something that triggers TF out of me,
because that is just so much of my past that I won't tolerate today.
And, my mother just so happens to be the only person I TRY to tolerate.
I want to be a vet tech, I want to do something that I always wanted to do.
I went to school to be a grade teacher, but she downplayed that too.
And I dropped out. And its like....
I wish I can hug the me back then and tell her, "Cyn you have so much love, and
potential in you. Don't let people downplay your wins!" heart
I had past bonds like that too, "How is someone with anxiety going to care for
kids, or animals?" And I should of said, "Watch me." rofl
I got so much sass today, and I don't want to give credit to my past traumas.
But sometimes people do teach you to grow a spine, and tell people off.
Because, the only reason I dealt with people was because I LET myself deal with them.
And no one has to.
Heck you don't have to be mean back, you just politely set a boundary and tell someone
"Hey I get you are miserable, but downplaying my wins maakes you a shitty person."
OKAY maybe thats not polite, but its just as right to say.
Like what am I supposed to do? Keep everything to myself?
At that point your walking on egg shells.
Your carrying other peoples emotions, and its no ones responsibility to do that.
And my mother is exactly that. She reminds me the type of people I don't want in my
life.
Accountability is correct though! So you are right.
Unfortunately some people rather push blame.
Anyways. Yes, I think that invalidation is something that triggers TF out of me,
because that is just so much of my past that I won't tolerate today.
And, my mother just so happens to be the only person I TRY to tolerate.
I want to be a vet tech, I want to do something that I always wanted to do.
I went to school to be a grade teacher, but she downplayed that too.
And I dropped out. And its like....
I wish I can hug the me back then and tell her, "Cyn you have so much love, and
potential in you. Don't let people downplay your wins!" heart
I had past bonds like that too, "How is someone with anxiety going to care for
kids, or animals?" And I should of said, "Watch me." rofl
I got so much sass today, and I don't want to give credit to my past traumas.
But sometimes people do teach you to grow a spine, and tell people off.
Because, the only reason I dealt with people was because I LET myself deal with them.
And no one has to.
Heck you don't have to be mean back, you just politely set a boundary and tell someone
"Hey I get you are miserable, but downplaying my wins maakes you a shitty person."
OKAY maybe thats not polite, but its just as right to say.
Like what am I supposed to do? Keep everything to myself?
At that point your walking on egg shells.
Your carrying other peoples emotions, and its no ones responsibility to do that.
And my mother is exactly that. She reminds me the type of people I don't want in my
life.
Accountability is correct though! So you are right.
Unfortunately some people rather push blame.
Yes I love goth puns and that gives me an idea rn. I should write a collection of em on the front page. I only know a few but they're so good. xDI got the goth puns listed on the front page now. :3 [x]
Hey yeah it triggers me too as it just reminds me of past abuse n s**t. I try not to think about stuff like that tbh as it just doesn't do any good for me. Though I will address matters of concern whenever need be.
Working with animals is an incredibly admirable line of work and for someone to disrespect that is incredibly disturbing and is a very bad sign on their part. Like you're pretty much a piece of s**t if you look down on someone for working with and or caring about animals. No way around it I'm afraid.
Also sorry this took forever for me to get back to you on. I was in a haze for a while heh. When that happens I'm just in a stoned adhd swirl of a dozen things I'm doing at once while slowly taking forever with each thing. xD sweatdrop
Oh same with with downplaying you wanting to teach kids. Like what the ********? Crazy ppl I tell you. Sorry you're surrounded by ppl like that. I'm just glad me and mines are able to provide a nice community for you and everyone else. ;o;
Nah I get you on putting up with ppl like that. Ohhhhhh the setting boundaries in that way where we're also putting ppl in their place. Man that is gold stuff and my partner A does it beautifully when he's dealing with s**t customers or well, s**t ppl in general. Hell, even around here. It's like you totally don't let ppls s**t get to you at all and you remain polite, respectful, and unaffected. Haha it really puts them in their place esp when you can think of witty s**t that points out how they're just a bumbling tool while we're level headed and not affected. Lol never gets old and I never get tired of doing that myself either. lol
ᯓ✦∘˙I am here for it haha rofl
Nah you good, I had a feeling you were getting stoned or something xD!
(not a bad thing don’t worry)
Anyways. Yeah, I am glad to! I mean its one of the first communities that I found
where I can expand myself. Be myself, without being paranoid.
But yes, I don’t want to put up with people like that anymore. I put that life behind me. I put that people pleasing non-sense behind me.
PurrgatoryKit
Generous Datemate
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