☥🦇 Goth Gaians Hangout Thread 🦇☥

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[Green_crayon42]

What's goin on peeps?

[Green_crayon42]

Man. I can't take it sometimes.....
everyone's out there doin stuff and going places they wanna go...and I'm just not capable of that.......I really do hate it.
I mean, I do know not everyone has the dream life, or job or things. but I just............I'm so sick of being incapable!! emo
Sorry.

[Ralodosmovo]

Mischief And Misery

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Hey there, and things are good.Got a new job, local, more hours no spending 3 hours a day in travel.And pretty hot here to.

How about yourself?

Good for the most part. Congrats on the new job! What is it? Just trying to cool down rn and then breakfast. Looking forward to date night tonight.

Great to hear, and thanks.
And cleaning, not going to say what as I like to keep my job private.

And nice, you know what your husband has planned, or is it a surprise?

Oh understandable! And nah it's just a planned thing. It's a special occasion but for a bit of a private reason. 3nodding

Ah nice, well hope you have a good time.Hope he wine's and dines you!

I had a lovely day. Played lota Minecraft with my bestie, got to be in a VC with my bestie and my sister so I'm glad they got to meet. And then Andy made us sloppy Joe's for dinner. They weren't that great but not bad. I'm just thankful he tried to make a special dinner tonight. ^.^ heart

[Ralodosmovo]

Green_crayon42

What's goin on peeps?

Green_crayon42

Man. I can't take it sometimes.....
everyone's out there doin stuff and going places they wanna go...and I'm just not capable of that.......I really do hate it.
I mean, I do know not everyone has the dream life, or job or things. but I just............I'm so sick of being incapable!! emo
Sorry.

Nm, just chillin for the evening. Currently listening to Chains (my roommate) game obnoxiously loud. Though that will change when I find something to listen to.

Also I totally feel ya. Just today I saw a thread about vacation stuff which who tf can relate to that! Most ppl live paycheck to paycheck and can't afford that s**t so it's a bit insulting in a way to see. There's so much s**t I wish I could do and have too but ofc can't afford. I can't even afford to get my mouth fixed up. Just last month was an insane struggle because we paid off some extra bills so we even had to borrow money from our roommate just to have food and stuff for the last week. sweatdrop

This is also why I don't follow a lot of goth vlog channels because they always have EVERYTHING and it makes the poor goth feel a bit meh. At least for me it does. I have a lot of things to be thankful for sure but eh it's still depressing, the struggle for money and such. I mostly just don't focus on what I can't have and focus on what I do have and can do. It helps me greatly mentally.

What specifically would you like to have rn? For rn that'd be dental insurance! Then perhaps a few new outfits. One day I'd also like to get my art printed out to hang up on our blank walls. Ah another thing, I'd like to get crafting supplies so I can get back into DIY. I'd need a sewing machine, fabric, stuffing, paint, and storage drawers.

[Green_crayon42]

Ralodosmovo

Green_crayon42

What's goin on peeps?

Green_crayon42

Man. I can't take it sometimes.....
everyone's out there doin stuff and going places they wanna go...and I'm just not capable of that.......I really do hate it.
I mean, I do know not everyone has the dream life, or job or things. but I just............I'm so sick of being incapable!! emo
Sorry.

Nm, just chillin for the evening. Currently listening to Chains (my roommate) game obnoxiously loud. Though that will change when I find something to listen to.

Also I totally feel ya. Just today I saw a thread about vacation stuff which who tf can relate to that! Most ppl live paycheck to paycheck and can't afford that s**t so it's a bit insulting in a way to see. There's so much s**t I wish I could do and have too but ofc can't afford. I can't even afford to get my mouth fixed up. Just last month was an insane struggle because we paid off some extra bills so we even had to borrow money from our roommate just to have food and stuff for the last week. sweatdrop

This is also why I don't follow a lot of goth vlog channels because they always have EVERYTHING and it makes the poor goth feel a bit meh. At least for me it does. I have a lot of things to be thankful for sure but eh it's still depressing, the struggle for money and such. I mostly just don't focus on what I can't have and focus on what I do have and can do. It helps me greatly mentally.

What specifically would you like to have rn? For rn that'd be dental insurance! Then perhaps a few new outfits. One day I'd also like to get my art printed out to hang up on our blank walls. Ah another thing, I'd like to get crafting supplies so I can get back into DIY. I'd need a sewing machine, fabric, stuffing, paint, and storage drawers.

hubby and food made me better so yeay. Sarah is no longer depressed about it.

Um...well, I am getting what I need very soon. was just depressed for a couple minutes. Hmm....I'll always take new outfits! hell yea.
Oooo sewing is fun. I can't wait to play with my machine again!

[Ralodosmovo]

Green_crayon42

hubby and food made me better so yeay. Sarah is no longer depressed about it.

Um...well, I am getting what I need very soon. was just depressed for a couple minutes. Hmm....I'll always take new outfits! hell yea.
Oooo sewing is fun. I can't wait to play with my machine again!

My old machine got left at my ex's house in another state. At least his mom uses it tho so it's not going to waste. I'm glad ur feeling better. I get short waves of depression like that here and there too but being distracted helps. I'm actually quite happy lately.

But yeah thinking about my few struggles, some health and financial stuff, it can def bring one down. Even those are a bit minor tho but still. Is what it is and we can all relate. I find best thing to do is to try to stay positive and do what we can. heart

[CYBERPUNK PANDA]

User name change pirate

[Ralodosmovo]

CYBERPUNK PANDA

User name change pirate

Ah! A couple ppl on my list changed theirs and it often confuses me. Yes Ik who you are but I barely remember what your previous name was. My memory is kinda awkward especially when it comes to names that aren't very basic. sweatdrop

[Ralodosmovo]

Guys me and my sister Mouse and her kids just lost our family dog Shadow. We are beyond heartbroken. This is gonna be a rough time for all of us especially my sisters ex husband who was Shadow's best friend! The kids might also have a hard time too. Man I'm def not good with stuff like this. All ik is to be there for everyone I can be.

[White Mage Rose]

Ralodosmovo

Guys me and my sister Mouse and her kids just lost our family dog Shadow. We are beyond heartbroken. This is gonna be a rough time for all of us especially my sisters ex husband who was Shadow's best friend! The kids might also have a hard time too. Man I'm def not good with stuff like this. All ik is to be there for everyone I can be.

aww im sorry to hear this ralo .... are you ok hun ?

[Ralodosmovo]

White Mage Rose

Ralodosmovo

Guys me and my sister Mouse and her kids just lost our family dog Shadow. We are beyond heartbroken. This is gonna be a rough time for all of us especially my sisters ex husband who was Shadow's best friend! The kids might also have a hard time too. Man I'm def not good with stuff like this. All ik is to be there for everyone I can be.

aww im sorry to hear this ralo .... are you ok hun ?

Yeah, I will be okay. It's not hitting me nearly as hard as it is the others. Still rough tho. Losing an animal is so terrible. Idrk what to do other than to just try and keep myself busy with other things. I offered my condolence to my sisters ex, told him he can always talk to me if need be. I'm also trying to be there for my sis as much as I can. I'm also very happy she's getting back on her feet too. This would have been so much worse for her had she gotten this news while still locked up. Currently she's in rehab.

[Mischief And Misery]

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Hey there, and things are good.Got a new job, local, more hours no spending 3 hours a day in travel.And pretty hot here to.

How about yourself?

Good for the most part. Congrats on the new job! What is it? Just trying to cool down rn and then breakfast. Looking forward to date night tonight.

Great to hear, and thanks.
And cleaning, not going to say what as I like to keep my job private.

And nice, you know what your husband has planned, or is it a surprise?

Oh understandable! And nah it's just a planned thing. It's a special occasion but for a bit of a private reason. 3nodding

Ah nice, well hope you have a good time.Hope he wine's and dines you!

I had a lovely day. Played lota Minecraft with my bestie, got to be in a VC with my bestie and my sister so I'm glad they got to meet. And then Andy made us sloppy Joe's for dinner. They weren't that great but not bad. I'm just thankful he tried to make a special dinner tonight. ^.^ heart

That sounds like a wonderful day, I'm glad you had a great day. And oh well, at least he tried. lol

[Ralodosmovo]

Mischief And Misery

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Great to hear, and thanks.
And cleaning, not going to say what as I like to keep my job private.

And nice, you know what your husband has planned, or is it a surprise?

Oh understandable! And nah it's just a planned thing. It's a special occasion but for a bit of a private reason. 3nodding

Ah nice, well hope you have a good time.Hope he wine's and dines you!

I had a lovely day. Played lota Minecraft with my bestie, got to be in a VC with my bestie and my sister so I'm glad they got to meet. And then Andy made us sloppy Joe's for dinner. They weren't that great but not bad. I'm just thankful he tried to make a special dinner tonight. ^.^ heart

That sounds like a wonderful day, I'm glad you had a great day. And oh well, at least he tried. lol

Yeah it was. Rn now tho I'm dealing with some heavy stuff unfortunately. It will be okay tho. Just kinda not in the mood for much. I have some art ideas so maybe I will work on some art. Idk.

[Mischief And Misery]

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Ralodosmovo

Mischief And Misery

Great to hear, and thanks.
And cleaning, not going to say what as I like to keep my job private.

And nice, you know what your husband has planned, or is it a surprise?

Oh understandable! And nah it's just a planned thing. It's a special occasion but for a bit of a private reason. 3nodding

Ah nice, well hope you have a good time.Hope he wine's and dines you!

I had a lovely day. Played lota Minecraft with my bestie, got to be in a VC with my bestie and my sister so I'm glad they got to meet. And then Andy made us sloppy Joe's for dinner. They weren't that great but not bad. I'm just thankful he tried to make a special dinner tonight. ^.^ heart

That sounds like a wonderful day, I'm glad you had a great day. And oh well, at least he tried. lol

Yeah it was. Rn now tho I'm dealing with some heavy stuff unfortunately. It will be okay tho. Just kinda not in the mood for much. I have some art ideas so maybe I will work on some art. Idk.

Ah, I hope it passes.
And yeah, distraction is one of the best things.

[Green_crayon42]

Wellll, we went to a flea market where I bought Nightmare Before Christmas shot glasses and a snow globe with Jack in it.
Then came home for a 5 hour nap. I blame the sun.