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Is it really worth it?

I'm in love with a man who has a lot of friend girls. Lately he's been giving them loads of donation letters and even sent one of them a package in the mail and I found out today, a necklace.

Now, I know he's really sweet
and giving, but he gives everyone BUT me stuff. I'm not materialistic and I don't want his stuff, but can you imagine how it makes me feel? I just want to know that he cares for me like he does for them. But he leaves them comments on myspace and all he does is text me really short messages and I get to call him once every few nights for a few minutes.

I just don't understand it. He says he loves me and not them, but he treats me so differently from them! This one girl he talks to is really nasty and she's always saying things like "You not being here makes me sad in the pants."

I don't know what to do. I love him, but I'm in so much pain over these women that he's friends with! I asked him to stop talking to the nasty one, and he says he will, but I feel bad because it's his friend. But I don't know what else to do!

He say
s he loves me and I want to trust him, but how can I when I'm always so jealous of these girls? ~_~ smilies/icon_gonk.gif smilies/icon_crying.gif


Btw, when I asked the girl to stop talking to him, this is what she posted on his myspace.

Dec 26 2006 6:08P
aw. that sucks. yeah, i got a message from that girl the other day. she's still pissed at me because i won't stop talking to you.






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Velvet Atlas
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commentCommented on: Thu Dec 28, 2006 @ 07:51pm
well it seems like things are happening in a way that is inpleasent for you (redundent i know)

well um i can say for one thing (being a guy), we are weird (again redundent) but, i know for me i have alot of girls as friends, and each means different things to me, why i like them, or if i have any feelings... but i dont know (seeing as you didnt tell any of how you have been showing your feelings) try to tell him (if you havent, but im sure you have (*rollseyes*) and maybe you just have to let go of some of it (and him) he a guy, he's going to have other female friends, (unless you kidsnap him and hide him in your basement(that sounds fun actual *ahem*)) and maybe just tell him all this, that you feel like your not being shown anough affections...

(and well, as much as i hate to say, i dont have that much dating exp.... only gone out with one girl and only for about 3 months... )

Donald, hope i have been on


commentCommented on: Thu Dec 28, 2006 @ 09:54pm
You know...Guys tend to treat people who they love differently.



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[W]ataru [F]ujii
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commentCommented on: Thu Dec 28, 2006 @ 10:39pm
Well hun...You need to comfront him right away and tell him that you believe that your not getting the attention you deserve. If he say's he loves you more then the other girls, ask him to prove it. It's your right as a woman and a human being to demand the attention you deserve. Don;t let anyone tell you diffrently.

And if he won't, then you can do better.


commentCommented on: Fri Dec 29, 2006 @ 12:22am
Just remember what I said

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Keep ya head up and ya Smile Shining
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Yuki Rei Ai
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LupusDarkmoon
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commentCommented on: Fri Dec 29, 2006 @ 05:33pm
If it gets to you that much you should confront him about it. Be calm about it & don't flip out on him if you do confront him. And if possible do so in person, that way you can tell if he's lying by seeing his face & looking him in the eyes.


commentCommented on: Sun Dec 31, 2006 @ 12:05am
That sounds like a load of bullshit to me, I'd be pissed 8D Then again, I don't give the best advice when it comes to things like this. I'm too harsh. >_>; I'm sorry to be so useless, but I really don't know what to say. >; If I had more information on the situation, maybe, but at this point, I got nothing. Sorry. ; w ;



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commentCommented on: Thu Mar 22, 2007 @ 02:13am
Hmm...
Who is he, where is he, and how strong is he?
><~
You, my little Princess, don't derserve that at ALL.
{Laughs at her extremly late response}
Still, if he doesn't stop/ didn't stop, either dump him or confront him.
remember, You've still got me. <3~
THIS Prince, is never leaving her Princess behind.


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