It might sound like a question coming out of the color blue, but after watching a video on "Why black men like white women," that is quickly going viral, the question must be asked. Do all interracial couples suffer narcissism?
Narcissism as described on mentalhealth.com, is a "Personality disorder characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, need for admiration, extreme self-involvement, and lack of empathy for others. Individuals with this disorder are usually arrogantly self-assured and confident. They expect to be noticed as superior..."
In the video, a black man and his white girlfriend attempt to explain the real reason why black men choose white women over black women. While there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference in a partner, what is puzzling is the amount of hate being thrown at black women, who obviously having no parts in their relationship.
Listed below are the seven deadly sins of narcissism. After reading them and watching the video, you decide: Are their "attitudes" narcissistic? Then answer the question: Do all interaccial couples feel this way?
Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism:
Shamelessness: Shame is the feeling that lurks beneath all unhealthy narcissism, and the inability to process shame in healthy ways.Magical thinking: Narcissists see themselves as perfect, using distortion and illusion known as magical thinking. They also use projection to dump shame onto others.Arrogance: A narcissist who is feeling deflated may re-inflate by diminishing, debasing, or degrading somebody else.Envy: A narcissist may secure a sense of superiority in the face of another person's ability by using contempt to minimize the other person.Entitlement: Narcissists hold unreasonable expectations of particularly favorable treatment and automatic compliance because they consider themselves special. Failure to comply is considered an attack on their superiority, and the perpetrator is considered an "awkward" or "difficult" person. Defiance of their will is a narcissistic injury that can trigger narcissistic rage.Exploitation: Can take many forms but always involves the exploitation of others without regard for their feelings or interests. Often the other is in a subservient position where resistance would be difficult or even impossible. Sometimes the subservience is not so much real as assumed.Bad boundaries: Narcissists do not recognize that they have boundaries and that others are separate and are not extensions of themselves. Others either exist to meet their needs or may as well not exist at all. Those who provide narcissistic supply to the narcissist are treated as if they are part of the narcissist and are expected to live up to those expectations. In the mind of a narcissist there is no boundary between self and other.
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