I don't run around, get drunk, or use drugs. Also, I have a good job and a nice home. People say I'm boring; maybe that's why I'm alone. This happens SO MUCH, that some guys believe that they actually have to BECOME Jerks to get women attracted to them. That said, there are a number of things Jerks do to attract women that make them effective seducers and pick up artists. And these are things that "nice guys" can do, and get the same results.
Be playful. You don't have to have a big s**t-eating grin when you're hanging out with her, but it's a good idea to make your interactions fun. She'll remember that being around you was fun and kind of charged (flirting is good for that).
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Hi homemakerrock. I understand what you mean, but you have forgotten rule number 1- Don't give them free sex. That will get you used every time. Men only appreciate what they have to work for, whether it be walking on egg shells because of some bitchy b***h, and hoping that they do the right thing by her and not get clobbered, or wondering just how he will win this girl in bed. Being great in the sack is only great when the guy wasn't sure he would ever get you there.
People he knows well start to tease him when you're within earshot; overhearing these comments should peak your interest. When talking, maintain the eye contact too but not for too long. As a general rule of thumb, maintain eye contact 70% of the time. Here are some of the signs, gestures, facial expressions and overall body language of a man in love. These include all the stages - from the initial to the advanced.
I think the girls who don't 'need tips' on being sexy, are often already doing these things anyway. The idea of offering tips is for those who really don't know how to be sexy and may not already be doing these things.
If you don't know what these are, take a sniff of the air - you'll find them! These are the places that sell bath oils, shower gels, body lotions - all in cute little pre-packaged assortments, with a ton of different fragrances all with cute sounding names. Women can't get enough of this stuff.
Why do women cancel on some guys while the guys we consider as jerks keep getting the pretty ones? I asked myself this same question a long time ago and I concluded that our attitude and behavior plays a significant role in our dating life, it determines whether she would show up as agreed or not.
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