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okay, i think it's better to tell people things they don't want to hear over the phone or the internet. not like break up or anything, but things they don't wanna hear or aren't ready to hear. like if it'll surprise them, i think it's ok to just not tell them in person, cuz over the phone, or over IM, at least they can say something like "i'll ttyl, i gotta think about this for a while, i'm not sure how to react to this and i don't wanna say something stupid" or somethin like that. in person, you're STUCK THERE until you react. and most times, people over IM or phone won't say something explaining why they're leaving, they'll just say "i g2g, bye." or somthin like that. which i CONDONE! i would rather tell someone something they won't know how to react to over phone or IM... would YOU? all of youses guyses... [ reply, darn youuuu!!! rofl ]