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What happened, Rin? It couldn't have something to do with your girlfriend, could it??

The heart is thought of a only an organ to keep one alive, to pump blood through ones self and keep them breathing. but the heart is more then a physical object... people can 'have heart' to have a strong will, to fight for what one believes in, to be an underdog and come out on top... but the heart is also considered a tool of love... heart ache, heart broken, heart of gold... No one knows if these sayings are true or if love, is the mind playing tricks, but I'm sure if you ask your heart, whether or not this will work out. You will find the answer. marriage isn't a burden, it's a blessing taken by two who wish to be more then friendship allows. if you can honestly live with ending what you once thought was your heart's desire, go for it. but ask yourself, if what your heart wants, is something your mind, body and soul can handle... You may love someone one day and not be on speaking terms the next, but will you make up?

Can you surpass fear on a glimmer of hope and claim love for what you truly know, not think nor hope. but know it is?.. I ask you Rin, is Kaede someone you can think about and feel joy on the worst of days, is missing her something that is unbearable yet you bear to see her another day? is the distance so great that you don't have love to travel, is your passion lost because you have not YET seen the one you love? If it were your son in the same dilemma, what advice would you give? love among adults and love mung children who think they be fit the name of adult are two different things... Is what you feel a crush? or true passion? do you love her, or are you in love with her?

I have asked many questions in the statements above, but i hope their answers will help answer this final question...

Do you love her?

I'm a fifteen year old boy who has not yet felt what I know is love... but I Hope insight of one with no love can help you decide whether or not you have love...

wow so thats wat happened..a heart is a strong thing though sometimes it can hurt badly espically if ur in luv with someone..life is a tough thing its never easy..and as far as life isnt easy so isnt luv..luv is a magical thing that doesnt jjust come and happen..as much as it hurts u if u go though it all it may someday come out the way u want things 2 be..remember life is a hard game that never ends..i dont no if that made sense..hope it did in some way..