WARNING: this is going to be about sex.
if you're uncomfortable reading or talking about it turn back now. i'm not going to say anything inappropriate. everything i'm going to be talking about is clean.
anyways, the beginning of this month my boyfriend and i have decided not to have sex.
not like forever just for a few years.
we just don't want to end up making a mistake and get pregnant when we're not ready and unable to afford taking care of a child. plus, i'm in school and it would suck to get quit school when i'm almost finished.
so we've decided to wait on sex until we were ready for whatever is to come.
i've only had sex with two people in my life. the first time i had sex was with my first boyfriend when i was 17 years old. the second is with my current boyfriend. both people i was in a serious relationship with and in love.
i don't regret having sex at a young age. i do wish i waited though. it would have been nice being a bit older than i was.
i'm really enjoying not having sex. sure him and i are tempted to do things here and there, but all and all we have our minds set straight. and i feel like in agreeing to do this my boyfriend and my bond has grown stronger. i'm glad we can decide to do something together and stick to it.
what are your thoughts on sex?
if you're uncomfortable reading or talking about it turn back now. i'm not going to say anything inappropriate. everything i'm going to be talking about is clean.
anyways, the beginning of this month my boyfriend and i have decided not to have sex.
not like forever just for a few years.
we just don't want to end up making a mistake and get pregnant when we're not ready and unable to afford taking care of a child. plus, i'm in school and it would suck to get quit school when i'm almost finished.
so we've decided to wait on sex until we were ready for whatever is to come.
i've only had sex with two people in my life. the first time i had sex was with my first boyfriend when i was 17 years old. the second is with my current boyfriend. both people i was in a serious relationship with and in love.
i don't regret having sex at a young age. i do wish i waited though. it would have been nice being a bit older than i was.
i'm really enjoying not having sex. sure him and i are tempted to do things here and there, but all and all we have our minds set straight. and i feel like in agreeing to do this my boyfriend and my bond has grown stronger. i'm glad we can decide to do something together and stick to it.
what are your thoughts on sex?