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Sifen Yamishi

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 12:37 pm
I've been at a crossroads for while now in terms of my relationship. The girlfriend is attracted to me either way when I'm a girl or when I complete my transition into being a boy. However...

I don't find myself attracted to her when she's presenting as a guy. Only when she has the makeup, forms and other things to make her look more like a girl do I find myself going crazy over her.

So what to do?

gonk  
PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 2:14 pm
Hmmm talking i best. Maybe drop some hints you like her as a girl more. Like give her extra compliments when she's dressed up as a girl and all. She may like the attention and do it more, or notice and ask.
I do think it important to find out what about her looking like a guy and if it affects how you feel about her. And maybe find a way to work up the courage to mention your preference or such.  

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 9:47 am
i'm going to be frank, hun.
it's a ... bit adult of terminology, but i'd rather like to think of my "extras" more like a clitoris anyway.  
PostPosted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 10:36 am
You know, that's exactly how my boyfriend and I are, except he's in your shoes. He's only attracted to me when I shave, wear make-up, tight jeans, et cetera. Honestly, it hurts a lot but there's nothing y'all can do when it comes to what you're attracted to. The only thing I can say is love isn't all about physical attraction, so keep loving her regardless of her appearance. If it becomes a detrimental part of your relationship, then there's nothing I can say gonk But good luck!  

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 26, 2012 1:47 am
Sifen Yamishi
I've been at a crossroads for while now in terms of my relationship. The girlfriend is attracted to me either way when I'm a girl or when I complete my transition into being a boy. However...

I don't find myself attracted to her when she's presenting as a guy. Only when she has the makeup, forms and other things to make her look more like a girl do I find myself going crazy over her.

So what to do?

gonk


Love her more. Try to love her more than her appearance haha. Hm try to get used to her wearing manly clothes? I think women who wears manly clothes are either sexy or adorable smile  
PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2012 3:30 pm
Ill show you my Boobs and it'll fix everything. Haha mk ;p Talk to her is the best way. Communication honey.
Sifen Yamishi
I've been at a crossroads for while now in terms of my relationship. The girlfriend is attracted to me either way when I'm a girl or when I complete my transition into being a boy. However...

I don't find myself attracted to her when she's presenting as a guy. Only when she has the makeup, forms and other things to make her look more like a girl do I find myself going crazy over her.

So what to do?

gonk
 

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