I feel weird.

[taranova12]

Okay, so for a while now, I've been struggling with my sexuality. Sometimes I think I'm bisexual, sometimes I think I'm a lesbian. I feel more comfortable as a lesbian, I guess (I've only ever dated/fantasized about girls), but there are some moments when a really attractive guy comes on TV and I can't help but think about him sexually. The same happens with women, of course, and more often.

Lately, though, I've discovered something REALLY weird. I'm a girl, but I'm attracted to gay men. What the hell does THAT mean? gonk

Anyone else have any experience with this or something similar? Also, how do you know if you're REALLY gay or just...attracted to both sexes? This is hard to explain. >.< SO confused.  

[DJ Arctic Wolf]

well i tried the dating scene with women, but it didnt work out well. besides, i always had wet dreams of hot sexy young men and never any women. i guess i saw enough v****a through trashed porno mags that i got bored with them. plus, i look at alot of gay furries porn as well sweatdrop  

[Naibzel]

Do you see yourself in a steady relationship with either sex?
If so you're probably bisexual/pansexual/or whatever term you'd like to choose
If you only see yourself with women then you're a lesbian.
[[I don't think you should try so hard to label yourself though,
you are who you are and you like who you like]]

I think you may like gay men in that several of them are more feminine, a feature many women have, and as a girl who likes girls that may be a trait you seem drawn to, maybe not gay men but more feminine men in general.

This is how I see things anyways  

[Shanna66]

its normal to find some gay men attractive for anyone who has any sort of interest in men imo i guess its the wanting what youcant have thing xd  

[etluhcs]

i feel you there with the attraction to gay men. i'm like 100% per cent lesbian but yeah, i'll find myself sometimes thinking i wish i was a gay guy so i could hit that. dramallama  

[BleedingInkXIII]

Yep. Chicks and feminine men with me. XD I'm at the point where I really just dont know what to call myself. (I respond by saying "I'm Awesomesexual". It's great. It confuses people.) I guess bi or pan would fit best in terms of definition?

 

[taranova12]

Oh, God. sweatdrop I thought I was the only one! lol. XD I think you're right, I'm pretty much attracted to anything feminine. Even the very few guys I do like, such as Niel Patrick Harris, are gay and not very overtly masculine. I don't quite think I'm pansexual, therefore.

Oh well! Like you guys have said, labels mean absolutely nothing. I'll just keep doing what I usually do: identify myself as a lesbian, mostly because I have absolutely no interest in dating men, and don't want to lead them on. ninja LMAO  

[XxScream_Aim_FirexX]

I'm definitely confused as to whether I'm bisexual or straight right now. I do, at times, find myself attracted to men, but it is usually the feminine ones. I suggest you experiment with a guy, and try to figure it out if it continues to bother you, because it's been bugging me for a while (the confusion, or the fact that I'm unsure about it, either way), and I might be doing that same thing here, but for now I'm content with muh ladies.  

[She Promised You Cookies]

Hey, if gay guys are the ONLY guys you get attracted to, just say you're a lesbian. Since they're gay, it's very unlikely they'll want a sexual relationship with you. Just sayin'.  

[Mistress Le Gasp]

I have the same thing.
The weird part is, I prefer guys, but with a few rare exceptions, they're all the feminine-matthew-lush-type-guy.
I'm not really attracted to girls often.  

[AstridMiriam]

I use too feel that way also