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Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom the relationship with my gf,i'm single..again. I'm sorry sad
I'm awful at breaking up with people, but I know that
relationships come and go, and you should just enjoy
the time that you share with people while you have it.
And even when they're gone, it opens you up to new
opportunities, as much as it can hurt. At least that's
what I try to tell myself and believe at heart. hard to see good,i go into a shelter tomorrow,i have no friends offline,...and i don't share experiences with people since no one talks to me offline,i must be some kinda monster with how ppl look at me all the time. That's rough. I don't want to ask too many questions
and invade your privacy or anything :c
People can be shallow, but just gotta prove them wrong.
Have you tried keeping up conversations with people? It's
not always the easiest thing, but it's a good way to open up
with people. If you generally approach people with questions
instead of statements they're more willing to converse (in
my experience anyways). You probably already know that,
but just throwing things out there. |
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:14 pm
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shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom the relationship with my gf,i'm single..again. I'm sorry sad
I'm awful at breaking up with people, but I know that
relationships come and go, and you should just enjoy
the time that you share with people while you have it.
And even when they're gone, it opens you up to new
opportunities, as much as it can hurt. At least that's
what I try to tell myself and believe at heart. hard to see good,i go into a shelter tomorrow,i have no friends offline,...and i don't share experiences with people since no one talks to me offline,i must be some kinda monster with how ppl look at me all the time. That's rough. I don't want to ask too many questions
and invade your privacy or anything :c
People can be shallow, but just gotta prove them wrong.
Have you tried keeping up conversations with people? It's
not always the easiest thing, but it's a good way to open up
with people. If you generally approach people with questions
instead of statements they're more willing to converse (in
my experience anyways). You probably already know that,
but just throwing things out there. people act like i'm a known rapist when they see me,so talking to people isn't easy...
How so?
I was always really introverted. People generally left me alone.
When I did try to strike up conversations they always flickered out
awkwardly. But I recently started approaching more people. Asking
questions instead of just offhand comments. People like to talk about
themselves and their experiences smile
It doesn't work with everyone. Some people still give weird looks
and kind of avoid conversation, but most have at least humored me
for a few minutes. Some I've ended up talking to for hours. And some
are now friends. And asking questions is a good way to find things in
common and something solid to talk about. |
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:16 pm
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Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom the relationship with my gf,i'm single..again. I'm sorry sad
I'm awful at breaking up with people, but I know that
relationships come and go, and you should just enjoy
the time that you share with people while you have it.
And even when they're gone, it opens you up to new
opportunities, as much as it can hurt. At least that's
what I try to tell myself and believe at heart. hard to see good,i go into a shelter tomorrow,i have no friends offline,...and i don't share experiences with people since no one talks to me offline,i must be some kinda monster with how ppl look at me all the time. That's rough. I don't want to ask too many questions
and invade your privacy or anything :c
People can be shallow, but just gotta prove them wrong.
Have you tried keeping up conversations with people? It's
not always the easiest thing, but it's a good way to open up
with people. If you generally approach people with questions
instead of statements they're more willing to converse (in
my experience anyways). You probably already know that,
but just throwing things out there. people act like i'm a known rapist when they see me,so talking to people isn't easy... How so?
I was always really introverted. People generally left me alone.
When I did try to strike up conversations they always flickered out
awkwardly. But I recently started approaching more people. Asking
questions instead of just offhand comments. People like to talk about
themselves and their experiences smile
It doesn't work with everyone. Some people still give weird looks
and kind of avoid conversation, but most have at least humored me
for a few minutes. Some I've ended up talking to for hours. And some
are now friends. And asking questions is a good way to find things in
common and something solid to talk about. |
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:21 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:22 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:28 pm
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shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom they just give me that "you are a horrible person" look and won't even answer when i ask questions,even in situations when i am surrounded by people that are there for the same reason i am such as a game release. That's awful :[
I dunno. Keep trying? That's about the best
you can do in bad situations. But don't be afraid
to be a little pushy about conversation razz
If people are gonna be that shallow, then they
deserve being given a little bit of a hard time in
escaping a conversation. would be nice,but most just walk away when i keep trying in that manner.
Maybe it's the way you go about it?
I don't mean any offense, but most of your posts here
tend to be fairly negative. Maybe you come off similarly
IRL? Other than that there's nothing really I can say
besides good luck.
If you're comfortable with yourself, other people are far
more likely to feel comfortable around you~ |
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:29 pm
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Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom they just give me that "you are a horrible person" look and won't even answer when i ask questions,even in situations when i am surrounded by people that are there for the same reason i am such as a game release. That's awful :[
I dunno. Keep trying? That's about the best
you can do in bad situations. But don't be afraid
to be a little pushy about conversation razz
If people are gonna be that shallow, then they
deserve being given a little bit of a hard time in
escaping a conversation. would be nice,but most just walk away when i keep trying in that manner. Maybe it's the way you go about it?
I don't mean any offense, but most of your posts here
tend to be fairly negative. Maybe you come off similarly
IRL? Other than that there's nothing really I can say
besides good luck.
If you're comfortable with yourself, other people are far
more likely to feel comfortable around you~ |
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:37 pm
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shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom they just give me that "you are a horrible person" look and won't even answer when i ask questions,even in situations when i am surrounded by people that are there for the same reason i am such as a game release. That's awful :[
I dunno. Keep trying? That's about the best
you can do in bad situations. But don't be afraid
to be a little pushy about conversation razz
If people are gonna be that shallow, then they
deserve being given a little bit of a hard time in
escaping a conversation. would be nice,but most just walk away when i keep trying in that manner. Maybe it's the way you go about it?
I don't mean any offense, but most of your posts here
tend to be fairly negative. Maybe you come off similarly
IRL? Other than that there's nothing really I can say
besides good luck.
If you're comfortable with yourself, other people are far
more likely to feel comfortable around you~ well then i won't have friends,cause there is not a single moment in time when i am comfortable with myself.
People will still be friends with you when you're not. It just
takes people with more understanding and the willingness to
open up to find them.
Sometimes you have to put on a fake smile, and sometimes
the pretending can be the first step, or at the very least find
more people willing to chill. It's a lot of practice. I find going
out of my comfort zone and immersing myself in a completely
new crowd is helping me a lot. Getting a fresh start and all.
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:40 pm
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Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom they just give me that "you are a horrible person" look and won't even answer when i ask questions,even in situations when i am surrounded by people that are there for the same reason i am such as a game release. That's awful :[
I dunno. Keep trying? That's about the best
you can do in bad situations. But don't be afraid
to be a little pushy about conversation razz
If people are gonna be that shallow, then they
deserve being given a little bit of a hard time in
escaping a conversation. would be nice,but most just walk away when i keep trying in that manner. Maybe it's the way you go about it?
I don't mean any offense, but most of your posts here
tend to be fairly negative. Maybe you come off similarly
IRL? Other than that there's nothing really I can say
besides good luck.
If you're comfortable with yourself, other people are far
more likely to feel comfortable around you~ well then i won't have friends,cause there is not a single moment in time when i am comfortable with myself.
People will still be friends with you when you're not. It just
takes people with more understanding and the willingness to
open up to find them.
Sometimes you have to put on a fake smile, and sometimes
the pretending can be the first step, or at the very least find
more people willing to chill. It's a lot of practice. I find going
out of my comfort zone and immersing myself in a completely
new crowd is helping me a lot. Getting a fresh start and all.
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 6:15 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 6:17 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 6:20 pm
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shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom maybe but i'm too reserved for anything like that,i have been outgoing before,odly i find when i go out dressed as my true self i am alot more bubbley and out going and what not. Noooooo reservations suck :[
Why don't you go out as your true self more? i'm not out to my bigoted as hell family,and i "live" with them.
Ahh, got'cha.
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 6:20 pm
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Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom Kaiju Koi shea the anti-venom maybe but i'm too reserved for anything like that,i have been outgoing before,odly i find when i go out dressed as my true self i am alot more bubbley and out going and what not. Noooooo reservations suck :[
Why don't you go out as your true self more? i'm not out to my bigoted as hell family,and i "live" with them.
Ahh, got'cha.
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 2:13 am
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 2:14 am
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