It can be rough sometimes 3nodding The way people treat me, that's on them. But the way I treat people is what is important to me. There are so many things that are out of our control as human beings that I feel like the one thing I DO have control over is the way that I choose to treat other people.
Maybe the person who said those horrible things to you is having a terrible time right now. Maybe their father died. Maybe they are in an abusive relationship. There is always a reason behind the way people act. It doesnt make it right but I find it easier to deal with when I think in those terms. Then I just feel sorry for them.
No. That wasn't why he did that. A week ago in DMS. He and others complained about my ringset. I have done DMS 31 times with no problems. And for him to say I "needed" to swap my ring cls is like say my rings are his and I dunno what I'm doing. Now he's going to blacklist me for no reason, he made sis cry. I dunno what to do. I sent a report but I dunno if it will get through. I lost all hope.
Yes so what I am saying is maybe he's being an a** because something is going on with him that you wouldn't know because you dont know them personally.
Anywho, I hope you feel better and things go your way ;3
But it's always like that. Almost 97% of people I meet are mean and crual. I thought Gaia was the last and only place left to give me hope of not being hated. But I was wrong. And yesterday on zomg was the worst. I never felt so much pain and misery in my life. What (won't give name here cus it's forums. unless you want to know who) said. He called me and my sister a slut and said he'll blacklist me on zomg so I'll never do DMS again. I'm 19. I have feelings too. Why are humans so mean? Online and offline?
Why worry about what someone mean said? That's not the sort of person you want to associate with, anyway. You need to be with people that make you feel good about yourself, and I know there's plenty of kind people on Gaia that can do that! So don't let that one person represent all of Gaia. You're most definitely not hated! heart And I'm sure everyone would give you hugs if they could!
But it's not just on gaia. It's the last 14 years of my life. I even told mydself that I should never be the thing that hates me, a human. But now that pain hurts more. It keeps growing. I just want to be part of a group again, be treated like a human. Can you guys talk to popcorn frog and tell him to leave me alone? I don't think I can handle anymore hate.