Ada Satin
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- Posted: Fri, 23 Aug 2013 22:14:08 +0000
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Ada Satin
She is. She is one of my closest friends. But after she became a model she started getting a personality adjustment. A little more selfish. She wanted to be. I never asked her to and told her that I didn't' want her staying long because I had stuff to finish at home. That an she had spent the night and we spent all afternoon. She said she didn't want to leave and wanted to keep watching the "scenery". She knew I was interested in him.
I expressed clear interest in him, which is why she wanted to come over and meet him. I told her I was really excited because I met a guy who, when I talked to, would find ways to relate to what I was saying: Ex// I told him I was a fashion major and he told me that was very exciting and his grandfather works as a tailor and his cousin went to fashion school. This of course being an example of a few conversations me and him had in a course of a few days. We talked about Japanese tattoos, being martial artists, the art scene downtown and what he likes to do on free times.
Provocative if we are going to the club. Very short skirts. But whenever we went out to do shopping she is a very comfortable dresser. Doesn't dress to flashy. Not very revealing. Shirt and jeans and a jacket. So this felt fairly deliberate.
Haha, yeah. I think that's where the no experience comes in for me. I sometimes get so excited I don't want to wait long if I can help it. I never been one to bed a guy right away but I can start getting antsy.
Based on that much, it sounds like he would be a nice enough guy. In an odd way, though your friend seems to have clearly done you wrong in this case, she really wound up doing you a favor by exposing another side of him that might have taken far longer for you to have witnessed on your own.
In regards to your friend... has she ever shown any signs of competitiveness with you in the past or.. I guess after she began acting selfishly as you described?
I understand. I don't feel as if I have ever been in a rush to sleep with anyone or turn things sexual, but I do enjoy the feeling of having feelings for someone, and the rush that comes with the emotions tied to that. Having breaks is one thing, learning how to find them and hit them is another matter. sweatdrop That said, it gets easier with experience. I'm more cautious now due to being burned enough times to be worried about it.
Well, she had done this a few times. When she first started her modeling career and I told her I had to be home at a certain time but she wanted me to support her at this massive modeling photo shoot. So I go, dressed up and I watched her stuff as she was getting her pictures taken. And when it was about time to go I looked for her and all she could say to me was that I should hold on and I ended up being 30 min late. Luckily the thing I had to be at was pushed back.
The second time was when I took her to comic con with me and a friend cause I had an extra ticket. I had work 50 something hours on this wonder woman costume. The armor pieces, the shoes and of course the leotard. All made from scratch.We we got to the con and people started asking me for pictures and ect. Well she got upset cause she wanted to wear her costume that she decided not to wear. So we go all the way to her house and she ends up taking an hour to put it on. So we end up missing 3 hours of the convention. And when we get there, people recognize her historic cosplay. And she started getting very cocky saying things like "People recognize me more then your character" and, "more people want to take pictures with me and not you." And just stuff like that. And it was super upsetting cause I don't cosplay for a bunch of people, I do it for myself. We ended up missing a lot of panels. Then she dragged me to a show I didn't want to go to.
Yeah, I think for me it's more of the feels and spending time with someone on intimate dates that getting caught up in any instant sexual gratification. razz Yeah, that damn stove, gotta stop getting burned by it. Oh well, life is a big lesson. Gotta learn one way or another. Makes us better people!