Sayaka Tenoh
Hmmm. I guess so. Like I said before I don't plan on making painfully exaggerated stereotypes of a gay couple. I realize they act normal like regular people. And I don't think it would hurt to look at some BL manga but looking at some actual books wouldn't hurt either. Not all BL manga is "pinkfaced bullshit" though.
BL Manga is, by definition, the most horrific stereotypes you can get. It's not meant to be real.
Your best bet in writing
genuine gay stories is to write
genuine characters. And by that, I mean simply looking to your circle of friends, or folks you admire who are gay, and taking your inspiration from that.
If you look at BL Manga for "what to do" or "to get ideas" then you're just going to be doing the entire LGTB community a disservice by writing something that is a copy of how someone else THINKS gay men act like.
It'd be like saying, "I want to draw like da Vinci!" So you go out, find someone who drew a copy of a copy of the Mona Lisa, and drew from that. It means you're presenting your thoughts on how other people view the Mona Lisa, and all their faults and errors all in one fell swoop.