Promoting Self Happiness. Help.

[l Chibi l]

I have had issues in the past(and present) where I distance myself from everyone, but once I find someone I truly care about(best friend, significant other, ect.) I become very dependent on this person for my happiness. If they happen to step out of my life, it destroys me. Does anyone have any tips on how to boost self esteem and focusing on yourself as the main source of your own happiness?

[frawggy]

YES
i used to be like this up until very recently actually
i realized it was something so much more deep-rooted than i thought
im not accusing you of anything but heres my side of the story: it was self-hatred that lead me to be so broken about these stupid petty little relationships
i found reasons to love myself and now i couldnt give 5 ******** about anyone (i still care about others but you know what i mean)

so yeah just stick to yourself and youre unstoppable haha
as for self-love now thats a journey of your own, sorry...

[l Chibi l]

frawggy

YES
i used to be like this up until very recently actually
i realized it was something so much more deep-rooted than i thought
im not accusing you of anything but heres my side of the story: it was self-hatred that lead me to be so broken about these stupid petty little relationships
i found reasons to love myself and now i couldnt give 5 ******** about anyone (i still care about others but you know what i mean)

so yeah just stick to yourself and youre unstoppable haha
as for self-love now thats a journey of your own, sorry...

I just kind of can't wait to get out of here I guess
Leave everything behind and move and do what I want to in life
I think too commonly nowadays we only do things to feel awknowledged by others
That's bad
You should do it because it makes you happy

[frawggy]

you should pm me and we can talk about it smile

l Chibi l

frawggy

http://img.pokemondb.net/sprites/black-white/anim/shiny/politoed.gif
YES
i used to be like this up until very recently actually
i realized it was something so much more deep-rooted than i thought
im not accusing you of anything but heres my side of the story: it was self-hatred that lead me to be so broken about these stupid petty little relationships
i found reasons to love myself and now i couldnt give 5 ******** about anyone (i still care about others but you know what i mean)

so yeah just stick to yourself and youre unstoppable haha
as for self-love now thats a journey of your own, sorry...
http://img.pokemondb.net/sprites/black-white/anim/shiny/politoed.gif

I just kind of can't wait to get out of here I guess
Leave everything behind and move and do what I want to in life
I think too commonly nowadays we only do things to feel awknowledged by others
That's bad
You should do it because it makes you happy