BATCATGIRL
thewaitingtree
Eh....
Sorry but South Korea is kind of racist. I'm not Korean, but I am white and living in South Korea.
Everywhere I go I hear "와! 외국인있다!" (wow! there's a foreigner!) Some people or kids don't even know the word for foreigner - so they say the only thing they can associate with a white face - "영어" (English).
I've had store keepers not want to serve me. If I go in a restaurant alone - they assume I want take out.. and it's kind of like take your food and leave. (granted - korean culture - they think it is sad to eat alone... but i live alone and my friends are busy so i eat alone... but i have to do 'take out' all the time.)
In Asia - you really don't get many people of different color. So having foreigners is very new and weird to them.
Some people are really nice, but you get a lot of stares, grunts (from old men) and stuff.
Some people will literally be afraid of you just because you don't look like them.
Some people will refuse to speak to you. (they are deathly afraid of speaking english! their faces soften when i speak korean to them)
But there are kind and nice people, who aren't afraid of foreigners. And there are some decent English speakers.
I had a friend once who was from South Korea. She builled me from primary to high school at the end I had to stop being friends with her cause she never changed. Some Chinese told me to be careful with South Koreans. You should go home if its unpleasant for you
South Koreans are very obsessed with appearance. So if you are fat, red, short, or quirky - well too bad - they're gonna tell you.
If I don't wear BB cream - my coworkers will probably ask if I'm OK - because "you don't look well". They are so used to everyone having smooth, even skin tone. I use the BB cream to even out my tone and cover my dark eye circles.
I don't mind. I like a lot of other things about living here. I like having a job and health insurance.
I like living in my own place, and I have some friends here.
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