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Post: 94917835_1 created on Fri, 21 Nov 2014 22:40:01 +0000
Posted: Fri, 21 Nov 2014 22:40:01 +0000

My name is Autumn. Im 16 and I love a boy, and this boy loves me back, but he goofed and started to talk to another girl and got feelings for that girl. In the end I OFFERED him a 2nd chance and he gratefully took it. I love him really and truly but my heart still feels like a barrel of bricks....what do I do?

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Post: 94917835_2 created on Fri, 21 Nov 2014 23:20:57 +0000
Posted: Fri, 21 Nov 2014 23:20:57 +0000

Give yourself time to move past him.

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Post: 94917835_3 created on Sat, 22 Nov 2014 01:14:05 +0000
Posted: Sat, 22 Nov 2014 01:14:05 +0000

Accept that he had feelings for another girl and move past it??? Its natural. Hell someone can "like" lots of people at once. Its not even that rare. Accept it and move on or break up with him. If this is THAT big of a deal then end it.

From what I see he didnt cheat on you. You werent even together and he ONLY developed feelings for someone. Overreaction much.

Also please dont caps OFFERED like that. Makes you really sound full of yourself like your forgiving some massive thing. No one likes a blowhard in the metaphorical sense. Seriously your coming across like you think your the best thing since sliced bread.

I get your only 16 and still have growing to do. Just take things less seriously, yourself included and itll start working

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Post: 94917835_4 created on Sat, 22 Nov 2014 02:00:02 +0000
Posted: Sat, 22 Nov 2014 02:00:02 +0000

Go fish at another pond. That fish is taken.

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Post: 94917835_5 created on Tue, 02 Dec 2014 01:52:58 +0000
Posted: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 01:52:58 +0000

Thankyou to all who replied with advice!! I have spoken with him and we have chosen to try again. Thankyou for all of your concern heart

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Post: 94917835_6 created on Tue, 02 Dec 2014 02:25:49 +0000
Posted: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 02:25:49 +0000

Madam Aipom

Thankyou to all who replied with advice!! I have spoken with him and we have chosen to try again. Thankyou for all of your concern heart

You choose to try again? To be honest, you are just going to end up wasting your time.

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Post: 94917835_7 created on Tue, 02 Dec 2014 02:44:00 +0000
Posted: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 02:44:00 +0000

Did he just have a crush, or did he cheat on you? If it was just a crush that he didn't act on, you are overrreacting.

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Post: 94917835_8 created on Tue, 02 Dec 2014 02:48:42 +0000
Posted: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 02:48:42 +0000

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Madam Aipom

Thankyou to all who replied with advice!! I have spoken with him and we have chosen to try again. Thankyou for all of your concern heart

You choose to try again? To be honest, you are just going to end up wasting your time.

But she never said he cheated. This is her decision. She asked for advice on the decision to be made, but the decision has already been made.

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Post: 94917835_9 created on Tue, 02 Dec 2014 03:03:22 +0000
Posted: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 03:03:22 +0000

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Madam Aipom

Thankyou to all who replied with advice!! I have spoken with him and we have chosen to try again. Thankyou for all of your concern heart

You choose to try again? To be honest, you are just going to end up wasting your time.

But she never said he cheated. This is her decision. She asked for advice on the decision to be made, but the decision has already been made.

Fair enough. I hope it goes well.

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Post: 94917835_10 created on Tue, 02 Dec 2014 06:46:47 +0000
Posted: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 06:46:47 +0000

Try again? For what? If you want to waste your time then go ahead. He clearly had feelings for the girl. There are hints that people just don't get. Then y'all wonder why y'all end up getting heart broken. But hey who am I. Do your thing girl. It's your decision.