so we decided to put his big hoo hoo dilly in my cha cha..

[Holy muletastic]

yeah. um. we just decided to see if he would fit in me. him being a pretty big guy and me being a small girl and all. so we poked around and such but it didnt really work.

i've never had sex. so..

he got a part of it in but it hurt alot so he pulled out.

i wont get pregnant.. right? even if there was precum? all he got in was the head pretty much.

and what would help it get in?

[or an artist]

i sincerely hope youre kidding, but if you're not, yes. you can get pregnant doing that. its sex for christs sake.

ps. luuuuuuuuuuuuuube

[fizznomore]

Any heterosexual genital-to-genital contact without protection can lead to pregnancy. Any genital-to-genital contact without protection can lead to STD contraction.

Use a condom next time.


How to enjoy pain-free sex every time, especially the first time!

Many women experience unnecessary pain during sex. For the vast majority, sex does not have to be, and should not be painful. There are many, many things you can do to ensure pain-free sex, and if they do not work, you need to see a doctor.

- Lubrication - makes penetrative sex of any kind a lot easier. Use water-based lubricant with latex condoms.

- Physical health - if you are feeling under the weather or have a compromised immune system, it might be harder for you to become completely aroused. A nutritious diet and regular exercise really are essential for a good sex life. Some drugs - including prescription drugs such as anti-depressants, and recreational drugs and alcohol - may also affect your libido.

- Mental health and relaxation - are you comfortable with your partner? To have penetrative sex, you must be completely at ease. Is your partner gentle? Mental health is also important - if you are feeling anxious, depressed, pressured, or have body-image issues, arousal may be more difficult.

- Foreplay - Penetrative sex does not exist without other sexual activity to precede it. You need enough time to relax and become well lubricated.

- Masturbation - if you are comfortable with your body, understand your own anatomy, and are able to communicate what you enjoy with your partner, sex will be all the more enjoyable. Try www.scarleteen.com and www.clitical.com.

- Expectations - be positive. If you expect sex to be painful, you'll tense up so much that it will hurt. See article below on vaginismus.


From ow to wow! Demystifying painful intercourse at Scarleteen.com.
An explanation of the hymen - most hymens break through exercise during youth, and the breakage is rarely painful.
An article on how sex should NEVER hurt, whether it's your first or your hundredth time.
(a little bit of everything including my favorite "Sex should not hurt whether it is your first time or your hundredth time." wink
Vaginismus - expecting sex to hurt causes you to tense the vaginal muscles, which in turn does make sex painful. Relax.
When Sex Hurts - A Redbook article on some of the illnesses and conditions than can cause or contribute to painful sex.

Sex still painful? See a doctor.

- The Official "Fizzlesticks' Fantastic Safer Sex Kit" Thread -

[ShadowSkies]

If you're extremely nervous... it doesn't help. sad

>.>
Though, it is possible to get pregnant.
Use a condom next time, silly.
You'll have to wait and see, though.

Every time you have sex, you have to realize that each time there's always a chance of pregnancy.
Relaxation is your best friend. Deep breaths, it's easy to be tense...

Oh, and pretty much everything else that Fizzlesticks types is right on. :3

[ShojinKun]

well first thing i would do is take some pregnacy pill and second probaly some lube might do the trick.. dont worry the first time is ushally the worst

[ShojinKun]

also did "release" or not? if he didnt than your not likely to get pregnant but just to be sure you should take some pills

[Noraa Fugu]

Use a damn condom and there wouldn't be much to worry about. Also use the pill at the same time, couldn't hurt.

Anyways, lots of fore play, lube, relaxation ect.

[fizznomore]

And for good measure:


Fizzlesticks' Fantastic Safer Sex Kit - Checklist
Or 'Things to consider to help you decide if you're ready for sex'
2nd Edition! | NB: In this article, sex refers to all sexual activity.

- Gynecologist or GP appointment
Before you have sex, both you and your partner/s should have general check-ups, and be tested for all STIs, even if you've never been sexually active before (you may have a contagious disease and not even know it!). Continue to have check-ups once or even twice a year, particularly if you have multiple partners. Make sure you have transport to the doctors/Planned Parenthood Centre (offer cheap or free services & supplies), and someone you trust to take with you if you're feeling nervous. Remember: always be totally honest with your doctor.

- Latex gloves
Manual sex involves using the hands to stimulate the genitals. If you have rough skin, wounds (cuts, scratches, warts) or long nails, you could easily hurt your partner. Latex (or an alternative like vinyl if you're allergic) gloves solve this problem! Also, really handy for use during menstruation!

- Condoms
oral sex on a man/blow job - USE A CONDOM to prevent STIs
sharing dildos - USE CONDOMS to prevent STIs
vaginal intercourse - USE A CONDOM to prevent STIs and pregnancy
a**l sex - USE A CONDOM to prevent STIs, and to make entry easier
Spermicidal condoms are NOT recommended. They can irritate the vulva/v****a, and increase the chance of urinary tract infections in women.

- Dental dams
Dams - a thin sheath of latex - are essential for cunnilingus (oral sex on a woman, 'going down') and analingus/rimming (oral stimulation of the a**s). A cut open condom or latex glove will also suffice, or glad wrap if you're REALLY desperate. These will reduce the risk of STI contraction - because you sure can catch STIs (herpes, aka cold sores, particularly) via oral sex. Also, really handy for use during menstruation! By the way, Glyde makes dams in flavours - raspberry, vanilla and cola. blaugh

- LUBE!
Water-based lube helps make entry easier during penetrative sex, helps prevent latex barriers tearing, is relaxing and keeps everything lubricated. It is essential! NB: Beware of oil-based lubricants; they break down latex.
True (irrelevant) story: Fizz once slurged 'tester' Strawberry Shortcake-flavoured lube all over herself at an adult store. Be careful - it's slippery. xp

- The Pill and other contraceptives
If you are sexually active in a heterosexual relationship, it's wise to consider going on the Pill or an alternative hormonal contraceptive to help prevent pregnancy. You will need to discuss possible side-effects and which contraceptive might be right for you with your doctor.

- Emotional Stability
Are you sure you want to have sex? Are you in a stable frame of mind at the moment? Can you deal with emotional/physical consequences of sex? Have you got an open, honest relationship with your partner? Supportive friends and family?

- Plan B
Do you have access to pregnancy tests? The morning-after pill, if the condom breaks? Have you made decisions together about what you will do in the case of pregnancy or Sexually Transmitted Infection?

- Money
You're going to need cash to buy all this safe sex gear (most of which you can find at the doctor's, pharmacy or supermarket), and to cover you in case of emergency. Do you have a steady income?

Got everything? Go have fun.