Revolutionary Justice
I'm into this girl at my work and she's into me. I told her how I feel and she was ecstatic to say the least. Thing is she has a boyfriend already so i ask her whats up with that. She tells me that she's basically in a loveless relationship. They don't kiss, sleep together, they don't even sleep in the same room! Basically they're roommates at this point but she's scared of him. She says he's "unpredictable". I asked if he's violent towards her and she said no(but i don't believe her honestly) but that last time she talked to him about breaking up he trashed her stuff and threw it all away! Explains why she doesn't have a phone or access to the internet and i kind of feel responsible for it :/. She told me when she leaves him she'll just have to quickly pack up and escape without a word. I asked if he'd shoot me and she said probably if he had a gun lol
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Problem is how am I supposed to get her out of this situation? I really do care about her but she's stuck in such a bad place but what am I supposed to do, she basically keeps hinting that she wants to move in with me. I only see her at work, not for that long usually, because her boyfriend doesn't let her out the house the ******** p***k(and he probably knows somethings up). So its like i don't really know her well enough to let her move in (and who knows what the landlady will think of that ugh) but I really enjoy being around her and want to date her. It's all just kind of fast though and I don't know what to do. Her boyfriend sounds like a psycho too like da fok, should I buy protection?
She isn't your girl until you guys are in an official relationship. Also note she could just be desperate and on the rebound to find a superman to save her from her hostage situation.
I would suggest she call a cop to help protect her when she moves out and gets a restraining order. She could also report him to the landlord to get him kicked out and change the locks. If she has to move out for her own safety, she should find a women's shelter for abuse victims.