Lilith_Lilium
Nordic_Bjork
mangachan
Oh yeah I just noticed something in the OP…you guys talked about meeting up for Halloween. Talking about something in theory and having it be an actual plan are two different things. If this is to develop into something, you want to start your relationship off based on clarity. The next time you speak with this person, ask him if you guys are in fact meeting for that (or anything else) because you'd very much like to go with him. If he skirts the issue or drags his feet, you have your answer.
Hahah yeah.
For me texting people is a struggle, I feel like I don't get to know them as good as when I am in "direct" contact. Texting gives such a fragile one lined conversation.....going back and forth...
For the halloween thing I didn't EXACTLY ask him about it. I was mentioning about the concert I am going to on halloween, and how I missed my hometown and friends.
Then I got a reply: "I'll see if i get time. Would be fun" I got very happy and surprised.
I asked him a second time if he was still considering it, and wrote "Not exactly impossible
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Soooo......I dunno. I would really appreciate meeting him face to face and maybe have a "date", but I am the kind of person who suffers from negativity and pessimistic views...I really have to change
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Halloween is 2 weeks away, you could ask him out for lunch or something before then
It's not that easy....where I live is like a really rural place.
And where he lives at is the big city which is 2 hours away, divided by this mountain range. Know it sounds dramatical, but the road on that mountain closes soon. So when it's open it takes 2 hours, and when it's closed it takes about 5 hours, driving around the mountains and along the coast line. It's open when I am visiting there, but closes on the second day I'm in the city, so I have to take the train 3 hours then a bus 2 hours.
Wish I could just do that....
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