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Yuki no Yoru

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Post: 7015408_1 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:02:16 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:02:16 +0000

I don't understand it- some days I can mantain eye contact with my crush for a long time and other times I turn away quickly D:

Is there anyway to get rid of this habit and improve on my eye contacting (xD sounds weird) skills?

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Post: 7015408_2 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:03:10 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:03:10 +0000

Have a staring contest with your mirror.

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Post: 7015408_3 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:03:23 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:03:23 +0000

whatever you do, dont make it seem like your just staring at him

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Post: 7015408_4 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:04:16 +0000
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Vir Neco

Have a staring contest with your mirror.

I've tried that...it hasn't helped sweatdrop

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Post: 7015408_5 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:05:09 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:05:09 +0000

I would like to know that too.. but i have a hard time with eyecontact in general sweatdrop

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Post: 7015408_6 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:06:09 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:06:09 +0000

xd Um, well, you could just be nervous around him so you turn away. Nothing wrong with that. Too improve them all you have to do is keep your eyes on him like you would on an "eye contact" day.

My opinion.

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Post: 7015408_7 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:06:09 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:06:09 +0000

Maybe if you get more comfortable w/ yourself at all instances. Usually it all comes from insecurity.

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Post: 7015408_8 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:08:07 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:08:07 +0000

ButterBalls

But why am I nervous only sometimes? gonk

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Post: 7015408_9 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:10:48 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:10:48 +0000

Eye contact is tricky. I normally mimic the person who im talking to.
It is tricky though. Just go with what feels right.

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Post: 7015408_10 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:11:19 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:11:19 +0000

Yuki no Yoru

Vir Neco

Have a staring contest with your mirror.

I've tried that...it hasn't helped sweatdrop

who wins??

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Post: 7015408_11 created on Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:18:50 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Apr 2005 03:18:50 +0000

Awww that happens to me too. I dont know how to not... it's like you're either staring too much, or looking quickly away too much. I think it's probably natural. Maybe your crush doesn't notice it because you might just feel as though you're staring too much or looking away too quickly. sweatdrop Confusing stuff.

I happen to have something for a next-door neighbor. I wouldn't call it a crush, because I dont like him... anymore. But it's awkwardness. And I don't htink I can ever looking at his housenormally. It just seems weird. Or him either. Gah.

Try not to worry yourself too mcuh about it.