Ibara_NightSong
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- Posted: Tue, 31 May 2005 02:31:30 +0000
I just resently turned 18. I'm in a relationship with a 22 year old (and we're really happy, that's not the problem). He proposed to me at christmas, and we agreed to have a two year engagement (which made my family really happy. I don't think his even noticed or cared... sad ). About a month ago he admitted the reason he was still a virgin at 20 (which is when we hooked up) is because he was scared of sex. You see when he was about 8 he went on a trip with his dad and his dad's oldest friend. His dad's friend molested him, and his dad has never known about this. I'm the only one he has ever told. I was floored because I had been through something similar when I was younger only when I told my mother she didn't believe me and didn't really care (my mom's a b***h pure and simple).
Now I know he and his dad haven't gotten along much because his dad wasn't that great of a parent when he was younger (mostly because his mom's mom chased him off, but that is no excuse and his dad knows and has admitted this). I know he wants to see his dad more to fix their relationship, but his dad's friend still is friends with his dad and is almost always there. His dad still doesn't know and he doesn't want to tell him. When he was like three his dad went to prison for a year for assualting a guy that locked him and his sister in a dark room while babysitting them and I think he's afraid of what his dad will do to the friend if he ever found out. That and I know the fear of admitting something like that happened to you.
My question is do you think I should tell his dad, confront the friend? Personally I want to butcher the friend after having all the big tough gay guys I know (which is a lot actually) rape the hell out of him then shove bamboo up his d**k and let it grow for a while before killing him, because he hurt the one I love so much. He's admitted he pretty much wants to do the same to the guy that did it to me. What do you think I should do? Should I just leave it alone and go with what my fiance wants or thinks he wants?
Now I know he and his dad haven't gotten along much because his dad wasn't that great of a parent when he was younger (mostly because his mom's mom chased him off, but that is no excuse and his dad knows and has admitted this). I know he wants to see his dad more to fix their relationship, but his dad's friend still is friends with his dad and is almost always there. His dad still doesn't know and he doesn't want to tell him. When he was like three his dad went to prison for a year for assualting a guy that locked him and his sister in a dark room while babysitting them and I think he's afraid of what his dad will do to the friend if he ever found out. That and I know the fear of admitting something like that happened to you.
My question is do you think I should tell his dad, confront the friend? Personally I want to butcher the friend after having all the big tough gay guys I know (which is a lot actually) rape the hell out of him then shove bamboo up his d**k and let it grow for a while before killing him, because he hurt the one I love so much. He's admitted he pretty much wants to do the same to the guy that did it to me. What do you think I should do? Should I just leave it alone and go with what my fiance wants or thinks he wants?