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If you’re a busy parent who brings your child to school each morning, you probably don't give much thought to what you throw on before heading out the door. But if your kid goes to school in Florida, you might soon have to ditch those yoga pants and starting dressing up for the drop-off. One Florida school board member is proposing a dress code for parents in order to set a good example for students.

According to a story published recently in the Sun Sentinel, Broward County Public Schools board member Rosalind Osgood broached the topic during a recent school board meeting, citing as an example fathers who pick their children up wearing saggy pants at Boyd Anderson High School in her district. (She notes that students at that school are banned from wearing saggy pants.) “I’m not trying to instill a strict dress code,” Osgood, a mother of three, tells Yahoo Shine. “This is about basic presentation — many parents pick their children up wearing curlers in their hair, sweatpants that fall down, and even pajamas. How can we teach our children to be serious about education if their parents don’t set the right tone?”

Osgood’s suggestions don’t ban specific items, but rather include “dressing as though you’re going to church, work, or dinner.” Sweatpants are actually acceptable, she says, as long as hair is neat. And jeans are fine too, provided they’re not worn with a skimpy camisole or pajama top. “It’s hard to take parents seriously when they’re dressed sloppy, and it embarrasses the children, too,” she adds. "People have been telling me to focus on other issues, but this is important.”

And while Osgood admits it’s unlikely that a parental dress code would actually be instituted and enforced, she and another board member plan to address the issue during at the high school's upcoming Parent Night and hold a forum on the topic in September.

Yahoo Shine could not reach Boyd Anderson High School Principal Angel Almanzar for comment, however, the reaction on Twitter has been mostly negative.

“With all the big issues plaguing public schools these days — high poverty rates, language barriers, classroom crowding, guns — there should be bigger concerns than parents in their PJs in school drop-off lines," Mama Sass, a columnist with the Miami Herald, wrote in a column published last week. "As a parent, my morning responsibility is to get my child to school on time. ... Schools have dress codes for students because they spend the entire day there. My fuzzy bunny slippers will not interfere with their learning. Are my jammie pants lowering your test scores? Maybe if our kids didn’t have a crazy amount of homework each night, we parents would have more time to thoughtfully set out our clothes for the next morning."

If the parental dress code is approved, it will join a long list of controversial school bans that have taken place recently. In May, an unnamed preschool made headlines for banning “superhero play” due to rising injuries and urged parents to monitor their children’s media consumption to prevent kids from recreating action scenes at school. And in 2012, a Georgia elementary school banned the acroynymn "LOL" by forcing students to sign a pledge stating that they would not write it or any other texting acronym on the pages of anyone's yearbook. After parental backlash, the school reversed its policy.

You are a public school deal with the low class dress of the parents
How exactly would it set a good example? When they get home more than likely they will change, kids see what their parents wear everyday, getting dressed up to pick them up wouldn't make a difference. And do they really think kids think like that? "Ohh look that kids parent dresses so nicely, I'll do the same!"

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Oh Lord! Another case of over-stepping their bounds of authority! This is NOT a police state! And it is NOT Soviet Union! Buzz off!

Besides, kids are not gonna be swayed by what we wear anyhow.

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Most parents aren't showing up to school wearing dumpy pants like the people in Wal-Mart who show up wearing pajama bottoms or sweatpants. Most parents do dress nicely. I think it would be more appropriate to have a dress code for the students instead. Why bother with the parents they don't even go to the school? Heck put American kids in school uniforms so they all dress the same and don't mock kids wearing designer labels. I think putting the dress code on the parents is dumb because no student will want to dress like their parents anyhow. They are better off with having uniforms for students or making students dress better. No adult dresses as bad as teens do with sloppy clothes and laziness. Some adults are lazy sure but I don't see the point in enforcing it on the parents. I am sure some parents are lazy with their clothes but that is not for the school to decide. That is entirely up to the adult. You can't really patrol an adult and force them to change clothes.
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Oh Lord! Another case of over-stepping their bounds of authority! This is NOT a police state! And it is NOT Soviet Union! Buzz off!

Besides, kids are not gonna be swayed by what we wear anyhow.


No country ever started off as a police state. They all slowly became such, by stealing one right at a time, one more intrusion.

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What we have here is a cultural war between a government that is becoming more conservative and a populace that's becoming more liberal.
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What we have here is a cultural war between a government that is becoming more conservative and a populace that's becoming more liberal.



Bullshit. What we have here is a cultural war between a government that is becoming more tyrannical and controlling and a populace that has finally remembered the rights guaranteed in the constitution, and that the ******** government works for THEM, not the other way around.
They do realize their authority doesn't extend past the school property line, right?

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Um, what a stupid idea.
And if it does pass how will they enforce it??? What will happen when a parent shows up and isn't following the dress code?

When I was in school and the times my parents would drop me off they wouldn't even get out of the car. Just drive up to the main entrance, I get out, say goodbye, then they would drive off. I don't see this working. =/

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What we have here is a cultural war between a government that is becoming more conservative and a populace that's becoming more liberal.



Bullshit. What we have here is a cultural war between a government that is becoming more tyrannical and controlling and a populace that has finally remembered the rights guaranteed in the constitution, and that the ******** government works for THEM, not the other way around.


If by 'government' you mean 'one single school board member'.
And even she admits is is unlikely to pass.

""People have been telling me to focus on other issues, but this is important.”"

"People" are right. And I'm guessing a lot of those people are the other school board members. Probably the only reason this made it to a news story is because she received and unfavorable reaction from the school board so went to the press herself in order to further her cause.

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I really don't see a point when parents are already likely to be coming out of work to pick up their kids from school or dropping their kids off on their way to work, and a lot of workplaces have their own dress codes or uniform policies.

Like, do they expect people to put on their Sunday best for parent-teacher conferences?

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I really don't see a point when parents are already likely to be coming out of work to pick up their kids from school or dropping their kids off on their way to work, and a lot of workplaces have their own dress codes or uniform policies.

Like, do they expect people to put on their Sunday best for parent-teacher conferences?
Not everyone work 7-5 or one work one job in today's society. Or has the other spouse that help support the family. People work night shifts too. If I have to go see a teacher for something important then yes I'll dress a little nicely not for pick up process. Other wise deal with by happy bunny pj bottoms while I pick up my kids and fasten them into their booster.

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Okay, so you have parents who are involved with their kids, taking time out of their day to make sure that their children are making it to school and then picking them up. These parents are showing their kids that they are important to them, that what the kids are doing is something they support. They get a chance to find out what the kid is doing, thinking, etc. Bonding with them, even in a small way. In a world of absentee parenting, of adults letting the Internet and TV raise their kids, these parents are showing their children that they are important by spending one thing you can never get back--time.

And someone is complaining about what they are wearing.

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