RobtheIdealist
"In many discussions, conventional feminism is not so much an analysis of patriarchy as it is an emphasis on equality of the sexes and a sense of camaraderie between women. This broad and vague definition allows it to operate as a big tent ideology that absorbs any and every idea and person dealing with women and gender. Even when women like my mother object to its norms and say 'I am not a feminist', they are still viewed as “feminist” because their work relates to women in some way."
The problem with feminism, to me it seems, is that it has this pretentious rhetoric that "everyone can be their own feminist" while having very centralized de facto principles that their activist events and policies adhere to. For example, you can "say" that you are Marxist feminist, but the rest of the feminist movement is Capitalist and will not integrate it in the mainstream movement. Feminism boasts a subgroup of Marxism simply because Marxism has a broad range of beneficiaries-- including women. This is just an excuse to gain the number of feminist supporters while not actually incorporating their ideologies into the movement. All take with no give. Exploiting Marxists and other anti capitalist ideologies to support a movement that remains Capitalist in its broader goals (ex: wage equality instead of the elimination of wage dependency).
The other thing is women of color, most especially Black women. Because feminism as a movement considers the feminine gender identity as a traditional gender role that needs to be abolished, the needs of women who have been completely robbed of their feminine gender identity due to slavery go ignored. Being considered masculine, hyper sexual, and emotionally invulnerable due to caricatures such as Jezebel, Mammy, and Sapphire go completely ignored in favor of getting rid of "oppressive gender roles" that White women have been infantilized by for centuries. That is not to say that such a thing is okay. That is also not to say Black women want to assimilate with Eurocentric femininity. However we do want our vulnerabilities acknowledged, and a little more normalization of enjoying traditionally feminine activities. But through feminism's predominately sex positive initiative, the needs of Black women for instance, who have been attributed with promiscuity through the Jezebel go ignored.
Basically what I feel is that feminism as a movement, when stripped of its empty rhetoric that there's a type of it for everyone, wants to assimilate with the traditional masculine gender identity. And this alienates people such as Black women, trans women, etc. who want to embrace a more feminine gender identity. I wrote about this more in detail
here if you're interested. But yeah....anyways! Discuss!