okay I actually really want to post about something that is bothering me today.
So backstory.
When I was 15, I survived a sexual assault. It was never reported, I am fine and have come to terms with it. But like many traumas, sometimes you need to vent and talk it out.
So I had one person in high school I could talk to. When I reached college, I felt free, like it wouldn't affect me. So I opened up to a friend about it. Turned out to be a massive mistake.
A few year later I was a leader in my student organization with this person, as well as his coworker. Suddenly, he turned against me and started telling everyone about my sexual assault. He told many people "oh shes just crazy, ignore her!" and began sexually harassing me. I had to leave both my major, department, and job because he was a favorite of the staff and I did not properly pursue the issue. Turned out for the best for me, but still. Very hard to get through.
Fast forward to today. It's graduation. His girlfriend, who supported and contributed to the sexual harassment at an extremely high level, is the one who gave a speech at graduation.
Here I am, not graduating for another year due to the fallout and depression I had that was hugely magnified due to their actions.
Here I am, knowing what they did to both me and others, having to watch her flaunt her disappointing b***h of a self with a selfish speech that she made entirely about herself, as I suffer in silence.
I am so angry because the situation is so unfair, and all I can do is sit here and watch.
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