Feeling a lot of stress on relationships lately. I've been having some tension between my friends and my boyfriend. My friends say that I've been neglecting them over my boyfriend. I see how in some ways, I have been blind and didn't realize I was choosing him over them. But in quite a few ways, they're merely being selfish with me, and aren't used to having to share me, or me wanting to be away from them.
I've come up with a rough draft of how I'm going to handle this issue...
1. Our "locker time" is ours. No boyfriends allowed. They leave before we approach the lockers.
2. My boyfriend gets the majority of the morning. I catch up on the latest news and stresses, then it's boyfriend.
3. Boyfriend gets Sundays. Friends get Fridays/ Saturdays. (roughly. basically, if I hang out with my boyfriend saturday, then friends get sundays. but sundays work better, cause he goes to Youth with me.)
4. Before 9:00, I talk to friends. No boyfriend.
5. After 9:00, that's boyfriend time.
6. Start texting friends more too. No point in having unlimited text if you never use it.
Please, and questions, comments, or suggestions, comment them or PM me with them. biggrin
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