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	Just some thoughts on being Bi
	Just some thoughts on being Bi


Warrning. Due to the request from a sleepy friend I must warn you that this entry talks about Adult situations and such. Ive been Bi-sexual for about 3/4 years now (Well longer if you count beffore I admited it) and in that time ive learned much about it and other sexualitys. And somtimes dealing with weird questions from peaple. Take my nephew's half brother. Im close to him and his fammily and he is one of the few peaple out side the net that knows im bi. But he said something along the lines of. "If youve never dated a guy your not bi." That made me pause for a sec and think but basically my answer to that is. Yea ive never dated a guy. But when I found out I was Bi I had never dated a girl eigther. So does that make a person who is attracted only to girls but who has never dated one really a Asexual(I think thats what there called)? Oo I don't think so. A Asexual has no attraction to anyone. Period. Now onto the obligitory sex. XD Well more like talking about it. Ive heard from time to time about the prejeduce about bi's that where all sex crazed maniacs. That has got to be the furthest from the truth ive ever known. I know plenty of bi peaple. Most of whom arn't very sexual active. What I beleave we are that makes us Bi is thus. Where more accepting of sex and sensual. Being open to many ideas about life also helps. (Though when I was straight I did look at homsexuals very differently.) My self, yes online I can be very umm... permiscous. But off line im still yet to touch man or woman intimatly if you get my drift. I want my first time with a person I care dearly(Though I might have someone who fits the bill. :3). Not someone I just met a few weeks ago or something of the sort. Possibly having kids where not ready for or get a std. I made that choice. ^_^ Some don't and regret it >.< Sex is something you gota be smart about. Even when certan parts of you arnt so smart XD Hemm... is there anything else? I can't think of anything. Well if I do ill add more. Laters. Dko · Thu Sep 22, 2005 @ 09:58am · 5 Comments


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	I thought asexual ment that they can reproduce of themselves or something? -like a copy.. Some bugs do it. Maybe it's just what it is here. xD Me being a New Zealander after all. Meh xd 3nodding Offline Anallya · Community Member · Sat Sep 24, 2005 @ 08:42am


	I don't like odd numbers, so another comment from me to you! biggrin I haven't had sex, i've kissed, with a guy and far to much tongue.. gross. But I've never gone out with a girl or anything. I don't really know if i'm really all that bi, online I don't mind the idea, but irl, it's not so easy. I already know from my sister my mom hates the idea. My dad doesn't care. My mom would blame me sister for it to. << Also, I remember when I use to think, "Eww.. lesbian." I don't think I really knew what it was back then, I didn't know what rape was. I guess I found out what it was and it wasn't so bad. I mean, so a woman likes another woman? Or a man likes a man? Why care? It's their life and you can't tell them who to like. xD Also, what's so wrong with it? I hate it when people give me the Christain crap, it has nothing to do with them.. losers, they just like getting into others business, it you don't believe what they want, you go to hell. Anyway, yeah. Have fun. =P Offline Anallya · Community Member · Sat Sep 24, 2005 @ 08:52am


	Interesting. heart Offline Kiram Mizuki · Community Member · Sun Oct 02, 2005 @ 02:27am


	Well maybe I said the wrong word. I know there is one for peaple who arn't attracted to eigther sex. Offline Dko · Community Member · Fri Oct 07, 2005 @ 09:27pm


	i beilieve almost exactaly like u do heart there were a few parts that were confusing lol but no worries aye Offline thisisguickythenim gone · Community Member · Sun Dec 03, 2006 @ 07:26am

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