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Grin Evilly

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:11 pm


User ImageHow many of our daydreams will darken into nightmares...


My boyfriend has officially won the title of '#1 Cockmaster.'

He makes me so ******** mad.

Have you ever been called to hang out with someone and their friends, you go and you feel a little ignored?

Yeah, well times this by infinity. And this happens nearly every single time I hang out with him and his friends. His friends are nice people and everything, but they seems scared that my boyfriend won't approve of what they have to say. And since my boyfriend is a jealous little a**, they can't talk to me without him being all, "QUIT LOOKING AT MY GIRLFRIEND."

The only thing my ******** boyfriend said to me today is, "Turn the ******** around, retard." and "Hey, your mom wants you." We walked to Jumbo video and he didn't say a ******** word to me. I pretty much followed them while listening to Silent Hill music on my MP3 player. And when we sat down to watch The Hills Have Eyes 2, my mom called for me since she wanted to say good-bye when she left, and he ******** SMACKED ME while I was SLEEPING (the movie had not caught my interest, not to mention they ******** talk talk talk talk talk through the ******** movie) and told me to go upstairs.

I was like, "You know what? I'm going home." He seemed kinda startled as I got off the couch and went upstairs with my mom. My mom and his mom were kinda startled that I was so grumpy, since I never act grumpy, really (I don't like showing my feelings to people).

I am honestly just really ******** sick of him. I do pretty much everything for him and he ******** treats me like he doesn't care. He doesn't even say he loves me anymore. It's like he just uses me and then... doesn't care.

I'm very angry right now, and usually later that turns to sadness and I've been very well known to do very dangerous things when I'm sad, since I used to be suicidal and cut and stuff.

Any advice? Or anything to make me feel better? Anyone willing to talk to my boyfriend, even?

Ps. You have no clue how ******** smug I'm going to be marching around with a hat signed by Johnathon Davis --his idol-- and me not getting anything signed for him cause I didn't stick around to take anything to get signed and... Yeah, I'm not even making sense now.

... where there is a danger of them coming true?User Image
PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:19 pm


Grin please dun hurt yourself! i hate to see my BBFs get hurt! 3nodding it seems to me your man is what I call a ********! he is being retarted to test you! 3nodding MEN ARE ASSHOLES I MEAN SOME MEN ARE! 3nodding

Kawaii Pandaa


Grin Evilly

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:21 pm


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Grin please dun hurt yourself! i hate to see my BBFs get hurt! 3nodding it seems to me your man is what I call a ********! he is being retarted to test you! 3nodding MEN ARE ASSHOLES I MEAN SOME MEN ARE! 3nodding


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I am currently very interested in giving my foot a one way ticket straight to his balls.

stare

I hate him sometimes.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:21 pm


First, don't hurt yourself.
Try to calm down.

Second.. He really sounds like an a*****e, I'm sorry.
I think you can do better.

Have you tried talking to him about this?
If you have, and it hasn't worked..
I suggest dump him.
He isn't worth it.

siamesisk


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Vice Captain

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:26 pm


Yah, gotta say don't hurt yourself. I used to cut, too, and it doesn't help anything anyway, only makes things worse.

As for your boyfriend, yeah honestly, he sounds like an a**. I mean, if this is a common occurrence, i'd say just ******** drop him. I guarantee you he's not worth it.
PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:27 pm


I think you should bring it up with him. Tell him it's really something he needs to improve on.

If he doesn't improve after a little while, then he's not worth your time. There's no point wasting all of your time and effort on him if he's not even going to treat you well.

[Popo-the-Strange]


Dom!no

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:35 pm


talk to him about it.

and remember
it's not you.
it's him.


he sounds like a t**t.
PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 7:08 pm


Sounds like he needs a jumpkick to the face. I volunteer to do it! XD

Srzly, what a t**t he's being. I say bring it up to him, and if he doesn't immediately start falling all over himself and then CHANGES, his a** should hit the curb. Prefferably with a curb-stomp added in, for fun.

You definately deserve better than his sorry self. heart

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Seranin

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 7:12 pm


I've dealt with someone like that before. I did everything I could for him and when he took me to my senior prom, my boyfriend, which was what he was at the time, didn't dance with me and sat in the corner and then when we went home to watch movies he didn't even sit with me, or hold my hand, or cuddle with me, or lay with me. He just.. ignored me.

I promptly broke up with him a week after, because I was sick of the neglect.

You should do the same. You can -try- to talk to him but I doubt it'll do any good. From what it sounds like, it'll go in one ear and out the other in his case D:

Just.. drop him like a bad habit. You of all people deserve better <3

Make sure he realizes that, too, when he's crawling back, groveling D<
PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 7:25 pm


Hell, I wouldn't even bother talking to him. I say just dump him and add a nice smack across his face for me, will ya? Just the fact that he ignores you is enough, but to smack you....? There are dozens of other ways he could've woken you up, so he's got no excuse.

Really, get yo' self a new boyfriend, preferably one that spoils you. Or at least pays attention to you.

Dried P e a c h e s


L Amoureux

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 8:09 pm


Unfortunately males can be like that. But under no circumstances should you take your boyfriend talking too you like a piece of s**t.
You know sometimes, it's hard to be nice to everyone at once. But he's out of his frekkin mind ignoring YOU over your friends and then calling you all those nasty things. And the one thing that really ******** me off was him hitting you!! I would tell him to go ******** himself. No girl deserves to be with a nasty lil shithead like that. And i am sure, by the sounds of things you deserve more.

Theres only one mature way around this and that is TALK to him, tell him that you don't like it when he ignores you in front of his friends and that you don't like been called filthy/nasty names. If he doesn't get that, then you will have too resort to female tactics. Start ignorning him in turn, start going out with your friends and leave him behind. Stop hanging out with his friends. And last but not least. Dump the a*****e.
PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 8:15 pm


If he's starting to treat you like PROPERTY instead of a person... yeah, ditch him. It'll only get worse, after this. >:/

Or have a nice talk with him/slap him in the face, SOMETHING. Theres no reason he should be treating you like this, no way.

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Rainbow Gekko

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 8:28 pm


Have a little fun with him first, before you ditch him. It's called payback twisted
Make him hurt, make him jealous, and all of that stuff, but make sure your the one to ditch him.

All you have to do is ask, am I'm sure more then half of the people in PPS with have a 'nice little' talk with him. 3nodding

.... And I know I would love to pound his face in. twisted
PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 8:33 pm


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Thank you you guys. xd You've cheered me up.

I'm definetly gonna talk to him about it. And if I don't see at least some improvement over time, then I'm gonna dump him, even though it's gonna be hard.

And the smacking thing is normal. xD I smack him to wake him up, too. Don't fret over that.

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Grin Evilly


Sonic Butterfly

PostPosted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 9:04 pm


Wow. If my boyfriend ever treated me like that... I'd dropkick his a**. Seriously. That's ******** really, if he's driving you to the point where you want to hurt yourself, no way, drop him like a bad habit. I'm glad you're gonna talk to him before you do anything, but really, you don't need to put up with this s**t.
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