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I'd have to agree with Jean-Claude being the right man for her- he pretty much knows how to handle her and they have quite the history together. My other thought would be Damien, but the only reason I'd take that back is because I think Anita needs someone to 'put her in her place'. (I mean, someone to stand up to her- at least equally.) I don't think Damien could do that, considering their positions.

Don't worry I won't. wink In a way you're right which is why she still is with all of them but I'm talking in the long run like who would be right for if she ever got marry and had kids or just decied to have one guy if she had a choose.

I've got to say, Richard.

If she had to choose, Richard is the one who truly is in love with her. And she'd never forgive herself for not ending up with him.

But ideally? Jean-Claude AND Richard. Gawd DAMN! Just have the menage-a-trois already! XD They all are close, and even though Richard isn't bi, he is attracted via the triumvirate.


Or, if those two get too obnoxious? Psht. Ditch 'em both and just be with Jason. Totally my third choice. Jason can cheer her up, handle her, and really does seem to love her more than just a woman to sex up. He is one of the closest friends he has, and she needs that in a lover.

God, this is such a difficult question to answer. I think with each of the books there was one point where I thought a one of the men in Anita's life was perfect for her but with each new book my views on the guys change. One minute Jean-Claude is perfect, the next I think it's Nathaniel, ect. Though I have managed to narrow it down to three.

1) Jean-Claude-as stated above he knows how to handle Anita and seems to be the most compliant with her but at the same time he definitely played a part in her life where she's had the s**t hit the fan b/c he made her his human servant.

2) Micah- he's great for getting along with, but therein is the problem, he never opposes her or makes a push for what he wants, which Anita needs if she's to work through some of the issues in her life.

3) Nathaniel-god I love him and he certainly worships the ground she walks on but needs a little more backbone, he's gotten more confident over time but he may push Anita away with that confidence at the same time. (Read the Harlequin to understand)

As for the other men in Anita's life well either they have serious issues of there own (Asher, Richard) or there just isn't enough info on them to form a fair judgement (Jason, Damien, who did I miss?)

I'm sure I'll get a lot of backlash from this but I think Anita and Edward should couple together.

yes I know anita thinks more of edward as a brotherly figure but come on, the ones who declair that they will test each other to see some day who is the "best"... I think that fight should be to see who's better in bed.

yes I like edward, not only is he effing beautiful, but his take charge, get it done man, attitude is something I appreciate in a man.

I'd say Micah. i think he's perfect for her xd

Michah's far too easy. It seems lately she credits their relationship to metaphysics more than true love.

Richard's far too hard. He's her own little version of "one drink too many". Tastes good while it's going down but thirty minutes later you always feel you shouldn't have had it.

Nathaniel isn't up for it. It seems Anita is realizing she loves him for real as the books go on but I don't think he's quite her type. They're both far too needy and two different ways.

Edward is strictly off limits. I agree with Fenris there 100%.

Everyone else, with the exception of one (Jason, who I think should remain free of her claws almost for the same reasons I think Edward should), is too whiny.

So yea, I pick Jean-Claude. He's master for a reason and I think he'd be the only capable of dealing with her and her short comings. Besides that I think she loves him most of all. He's about the only one she isn't constantly bitching about too..

If all else fails she could always do Ronnie rolleyes