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I had a pretty mild version of that happen to me, except I didn't date the guy, I turned him down and because I wa so shy and didn't know what to do in that situation I said I'd rather be friends for a while, then mabey but probley not cause I think Im too young to date and he started trying to be my best friend then he asked me out again just days later, when I turned him down a second time he got mad and started being a baby about it(we we're in 7th grade though so we were really young) and making fun of me, saying dirty things about me in the class we had togather...I flipped one day, I was a shy kid who probley never had said one word in class unless the teacher called on me and I just started screaming at him one day, the teacher didn't say a thing, she let me freak out and then he never said a word to me again.
What I would have done differently is told him no, I'm not interested in the first place.
If I were in your shoes right now I'd tell him he's just being alittle too close to you for your comfort. Tell him your just not comfortable with him getting so close and putting his arm around you, if you don't want to hurt him too bad tell him it's not just him but any guy that you don't want that close.

Yeah, I'll probably end up doing that, but I always get a disturbed feeling whenever he's like, near me.

I think this is really good advice. The only thing i would add is that if you have some friends you could let them know what is going on, people need to know so they can look out for you. I don't mean intervention or anything, but when something freaky is going on, your friends need to have your back.
Once my friend was having trouble with a guy and she didin't show up where she was supposed to be, she was getting the crap beat out of her by three girls.
Let your friends know ok?
And i have to agree, i learned the hard way that if your going out with someone cause you feel sorry for them, your not really doing them any favors.

wow. My friends are just like "awww Pablo is so nice and cutte[they're talking about the damn stalker I have Dx]... he must just REALLY REALLY like you blblalblabla" and then they told me that I should go out with him.

But seriously. I don't plan on dating till college (ya, I sort of have goals which for some reason I think I can't achieve with my suckiness of math and science) and then they're just like "you're soo mean... gosh... he's depressed you know... I don't want him to die... blabllabla" cause I said no to him.

But then. I'm like. "-.- It wouldn't make things better if I falsely put his hopes up. And if he can't face a rejection he can't move on in life. He pisses me off."

And ya. I sounded a ittle angry cause I hate it when friends pressure you. And when I know pity dating is just a waste of my time and free education. But then it's also cause my friends pressured me to re-add the guy to my friends list earlier, and so I did it.

Then the stupid guy spammed my page even more when I said DON'T SPAM DAMN IT. But he did, but I just deleted them all cause they were all like "YOU'RE HOT" and "I WANT TO BE YOUR BOYFRIEND."

He said "thanks for re-adding me baby" and stuff. And I'm just like. "...I don't want you calling me baby, or anything along those terms. Rather I'd like to know who the hell you are, pleasse." Cause he was really beginning to anger me.

Then when I rejected him, I thought it was over until he put my ******** face onto his myspace WITH HEARTS ON TO IT, and it angers me so much that he didn't listen to anything I just said.

ugh. He scares me.

hmm. maybe then. But then. I guess I actually have to develop feelings for someone first. haha. sweatdrop xd