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Have you ever had a pregnant friend?
Yes
66%
 66%  [ 8 ]
No
8%
 8%  [ 1 ]
I have been pregnant
25%
 25%  [ 3 ]
Total Votes : 12


ale_maguin

PostPosted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 6:56 pm


About a year ago I had a friend who had sex with her boyfriend, sheasked me for the day after pill because my older sister had but she had runned out off, she was really mad at me but got them from another girl, In the last few days I found out she had gotten pregnant and had an illegal abortion.... The reason she is know in drugs and alcohol did I do wrong in not buying her the pills?


Now I have another friend who is scared she might be pregnant, she had protected sex with her boyfriend and the next day she got her period she hasnt done anything since then, but now her period hasnt come in a month and 1 week, we are really scared tomorrow we are going to buy pregnancy tests after school... What happens if she is pregnant? What should we do?
PostPosted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 8:51 pm


If I understand you correctly, then I do not think you did anything wrong. It sounds like your "friend" is a pretty trashy person if she got angry at you because you couldn't swipe any morning after pills for her.

If your other friend is pregnant, then she will have to deal with it just like all pregnant women do. Pregnant women have the option to keep the baby, put it up for adoption, or abort it. None of us can make that decision for her. If she is pregnant, then in the future she will have to be more careful.

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wotfan

PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:32 am


Agreed ultimately if she is you are just going to be a supportive role bystander. That is the key whatever her decision is you need to try to be supportive. I am in a similar boat my friend found out a few days ago that she is pregnant and she wanted some advice from me ahead of eveyone else because I have been there and done that. I will suggest dont try to sway her any particular way if she is because she may resent you for it just make sure she has all the facts thats all you can do. Goodluck i'm crossing my fingers that she isnt.
PostPosted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 6:37 pm


Finally her périod came today, pregnancy tests were negative but they are no 100% right.....anyway thanks for your help.

ale_maguin

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