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Okay, so thus far I've never had a G spot orgasm. My bf is determined to do the trick and read somewhere that if a girl's g-spot is stimulated, she'll feel like she need to pee but then after awhile, it'll lead to an orgasm...

I just feel like it's extremely uncomfortable to have something penetrating you when you start feeling like you need to pee and it just kinda ruins it for me.

So my question is, is it true that if you keep going the feeling of having to pee will go away and eventually could lead to an orgasm? How do you get over how somewhat uncomfortable it is?

I hear an awful lot of talk about the G-spot and the powerful orgasms with female ejaculation that it can cause, but the truth is that it is not proven. Doctors and researchers are divided on the issue. Some think it is true, some think it is not. Some people think the substance that females ejaculate during these orgasms is nothing but urine. Some studies have shown that the substance is very similar to urine, but a bit different. Some researchers say that that doesn't prove that it is not urine, however, as having an orgasm could change the chemical composition of urine for a short time. The truth is that we just don't know much about it, but honestly, the research in favor of it is few and far between. Since very few women claim to have had one of these orgasms, we don't have many participants for research studies. Research was done on women who had claimed to never have had one of these orgasms. Researchers wanted to see if they could give the women one of these orgasms with female ejaculation, but they were unable to. Even doctors and researchers who believe it is possible admit that it is not proven.

Many people think it is true based on pornography, but that certainly is not a reliable source. There are theories about that as well. Some people think the female ejaculation in pornography is just regular old urine. Others think it could be ejaculate from a man that the woman later forces out of the v****a when she has her own orgasm. Others think it could be something else altogether and faked for effect. Either way, just be aware that there are many many theories on the matter because we just don't know. Not many women claim to have had such an orgasm. Like you, I do not like the feeling of that area being stimulated. If you google the topic, you will found a huge amount of garbage. Look for research studies, not just an article saying it is true or not true. Personally, I have not seen enough research saying it might be possible to give the theory of its existence any credence. I am not saying that something does not come out of a few women, I am just saying I am not certainly not convinced enough to say it is truly female ejaculate from the female equivalent of the prostate as opposed to urine or anything else. Either way, we need more research.

That's part of the whole "undecided and not proven" package.

I'd say you're both right! (in a way smile ). That's another one of those things that researchers are still debating, even after years and years of research. Doctors and researchers still cannot agree on whether the G-spot exists in all women, and if so if it does anything at all! A lot of doctors and researchers meet somewhere in the middle just saying that there isn't enough evidence to side with one or the other, other doctors are convinced it exists, others are convinced it does not.

I like this site a lot. http://www.drgspot.net/Hines.htm I think it seems kind of biased at first, but then when you really think about it, the author never says that G-spots don't exist. He only talks about how much of the "research" supporting them is pretty unreliable. So his main stance doesn't seem to be "they don't exist." His main stance seems to be "We just don't know, but so far no one has given us any evidence that comes close to convincing me that they exist." Either way, it really makes you think about what some of these claims are based on and how flimsy some research really is.

alright this is probally a stupid question but what is a g-STRING?

Don't be so quick to believe everything you hear. As I pointed out earlier, many doctors are researchers don't believe in G-spots because they have not been able to find them in their patients and research participants. Other doctors and researchers claim that they have successfully found the area. So basically, doctors and researchers are still divided.

I get off from penetration without clitoral stimulation. I don't know if that's a G-spot or whatever, but I likes it. ;D

Actual supporting evidence for them is few and far between, though. Maybe not everyone has them. I don't know. I just know my own experience, and it's probably different from everyone else, 'cause we're all unique.