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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 6:38 pm

without going into too much detail...is it going against somebody's will, to cast a spell, to have their true feelings about you show?

Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 12:39 pm

I don't know about the will thing, but my sis did that to one of her friends and it totally backfired. I really wouldn't recomend doing it. Feelings are privite unless they want them to be known.

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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 1:27 pm

First... do you believe in free will? If you do, consider this.

Every day, regardless of whether we are aware of it or want to, we infringe on people's supposed "free will." Whenever you speak to someone... or even are merely present, you're exerting an influence of some sort. What you need to ask yourself is what sorts of influences you find okay and what influences you don't find okay.

Personally, I wouldn't hesitate to do the spell, though that depends somewhat on the circumstances involved. I might add a conditional that would cancel the spell if the effects would be too damaging.

Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 3:54 pm

My personal belief is that forcing (or even subtlely convincing) one to show their true feelings is impeding on their free will.
However, should the circumstances be extreme, sometimes strong influence is best. I know not the nature of your situation, so all I can provide you with is my process of thinking.

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Posted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 8:03 am

Depends on your view of
Free will and life.
In my opinon it's a reall nono.
Because this person is choosing
to hide his or/her feelings.
Especially remember the number three something
like this.

Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2006 8:54 pm

Ducky_18

without going into too much detail...is it going against somebody's will, to cast a spell, to have their true feelings about you show?

yes. Unless you get permission from the person your going to cast a spell to. I wouldn't even try that. Casting a spell over someone to show their true feelings about you is like reading someone's diary..... sweatdrop

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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 7:21 pm

thank you all....you will all be glad to know that I didn't do it. Me and this person go through our ups and downs and that is just how we work! I have learned and am still learning to accept that knowing it is the hard way out, but also knowing that I am Growing as a person with this expieriance(bad spelling, I know)...

Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 11:30 am

Ducky_18

without going into too much detail...is it going against somebody's will, to cast a spell, to have their true feelings about you show?

Even though you've already decided not to do anything, I thought I would share this story about messing with free will.

I have a real problem communicating with people. If any of you have recently watched Ellen Season 4 on DVD... *looks around, raises hand* Okay? Just Me? XD Well Ellen is in therapy and discovers that she's too nice to people. Which is my problem too, I don't share my real feelings with people. So without really putting a lot of thought into a spell I conjured up something to help me release my inner feelings....

gonk

I was absentmindedly blurting out my inner most thoughts and feelings for about a week until I could think of a way to counter-balance. I will never do anything like that again.

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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 11:57 am

thank you...I still havent' done anything, I thought the best way was to talk things out with HIM! yes him, and as it turns out from what he told me he wasn't realizeing what he was doing and now we are getting better I think anyway.

thank you to all of your help and advice, I really appriciate it!

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