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 Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 3:56 am
Well, it's 4:am and my day is already going badly. First, my husband made me half an hour late to work (which is sad because I work at home) because he didn't want to get out of bed. He also didn't kiss me goodbye....My very first caller yelled at me when I offered him rush shipping and continued to be angry until he hung up. When does the madness end?
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Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 4:24 am
I work at home taking calls too. what company do you work for? My customers this morning have been ok except for the one....um...who decided to try to save money by calling the 800# instead of the proper adult 900# and a teen prank. I hope your day goes better. how long do you usually stay on?
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Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 5:36 am
I can pm you the name of the company as it's a breech of the TOS and my contract wink But, I work from 3:am to 9:am for right now since my son is so young and noisy. I do inbound customer service calls. I actually just had a guy call me pissed at another rep...like it was my fault. He wanted a CS# and I asked for his zip code and he said I had a problem there and hung up- but not before going crazy over the fact the "we" say one moment please....????? What company do you work for- if you're allowed to say- if not pm me.
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Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 6:39 am
So, my day has gotten worse. My husband of two years has just informed me that he is leaving me because I am too much of a burden for him to bear. I am legally blind and have been since 18 months old and I can't drive. Obviously that makes me unworthy of love. I'm so scared and I don't know what to do....I have no family and no friends to help me and I have my son to take care of. Why does my life never get better? crying I don't understand and I don't know what to do. I am so brokenhearted.
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Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 10:28 pm
I don't quite understand how he made you late to work by wanting to stay in bed. Do you get him ready for work?
Sounds like today has been pretty awful.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 1:33 am
lavendersins So, my day has gotten worse. ... Why does my life never get better? crying I don't understand and I don't know what to do. I am so brokenhearted.
If you havent already, you need to call every single public agency available to you to find out what (additional) services you can receive now that you'll be without your husband's income.
Keep in touch with the many people online, so that you're not alone during this hard time.
My thoughts are with you.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 2:12 am
scream I hate it when people are stupid like that. You are a very useful and productive person. I know of several "ablebodied" people who don't try to find a job that they can do and then complain about money and try for gov assistance. You took the initiative and got a job you could do to get income. You are not a burden you are more motovated than a lot of people. I'm sure you are a wonderful mother as well. It is more important right now for you to be at home with your child any way. I wish I was in the same town as you to help more. Do you have family you could go to? I will keep you in my thoughts. Keep me posted and let me know if I can help in any way.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 5:24 am
Well, this all happened on a Saturday, so everything is closed. I'm going to try my best to get something becase he wants me out of the apartment in 30 days so he and a roomate can move back in. He doesn't care where I go as long as I don't inconvenience him. God, I'm crying now. crying redface smile It's for the ebst, I know, but it still hurts. It hurts that he's going to finally be happy that he has a roomate to pay half the rent and I could never do that. Oh no! I have to start work very soon. I have to compose myself.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 5:35 am
boombanda I don't quite understand how he made you late to work by wanting to stay in bed. Do you get him ready for work? Sounds like today has been pretty awful. Well, the computer is in the bedroom...so, if he's in bed and doesn't want me to work- I can't. But, he's gone...so that won't happen ever again.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 6:11 am
Hugs!!!! If he was that rude and eventhough it hurts It will be better without him. I wish I could do something to help. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 6:58 am
It's day two and I'm still sad.
I haven't talked to the husband, but I think it's better.
It will make it easier. I'm just glad I never cried in front of him.
I wish I would never have cried at all.
I hate that he did this...I hate that I let him to this.
I'm just scared right now and so stressed.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 7:04 pm
lavendersins Well, this all happened on a Saturday, so everything is closed. I'm going to try my best to get something becase he wants me out of the apartment in 30 days so he and a roomate can move back in. He doesn't care where I go as long as I don't inconvenience him. God, I'm crying now. crying redface smile It's for the ebst, I know, but it still hurts. It hurts that he's going to finally be happy that he has a roomate to pay half the rent and I could never do that. Oh no! I have to start work very soon. I have to compose myself. Who the Hell leaves their spouse over rent? You're not his college roomie, you're his WIFE. Although you may run into financial troubles not having someone else helping to provide income, please remember you are /way/ better off without him. He is obviously not mentally mature enough for a romantic relationship. Please take Copper Forrest's advice: "Call every single public agency available to you to find out what (additional) services you can receive now that you'll be without your husband's income." You can make it through this. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 4:59 pm
Well, it has been a stressful time....I'm going to stay in the apartment with Jakob until I find somewhere else to stay. He doesn't think we're over. He wants me to have my own life and my own friends. He calls and tells me he's lonely and he doesn't want this to be ugly. He's going to support me until I get on my feet. God this is difficult.
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Posted: Sat Aug 12, 2006 4:18 am
Well, at least hes letting you save a little to get on your feet. I still say you should call syour family.
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 9:57 am
Good Luck. I hope things get better for ya.
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