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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2017 5:12 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2017 5:16 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2017 5:55 pm
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Abel nodded. "I know what you mean, yeah. It's... it's a difficult thing to describe or try to put into words. People do the same thing here when someone's cremated, though I don't know about a solid gold urn," he said with a wry smile. A few moments later the smile faded a bit and he went on, "But a funeral or a ceremony of some sort is more for the living than for the dead, to give them a sense of closure. A plot in a graveyard is... mh, a focal point I guess?" He frowned a bit at the word, then shrugged before his free hand shifted over to curl around under Zevran's, his colorful gaze drifting down to the coin he held. "It's something to remember them by that you go and visit, rather than something you carry with you. My parents still have some of her things up in the attic, and I know Mom goes up to sift through them sometimes. It... yes, I think it helps to have something like that. It helps bring back memories you shared together, things you don't ever want to forget. I don't go visit my family too often so I visit her grave even less.. I do have a couple pictures of her though that I'll look at once in a while though. I think it's nice to have things like that -- it's helped me."
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 10:48 am
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 12:47 pm
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"I'm glad you have it. You can always keep it somewhere in the apartment and take it out when you want to, but..." A soft frown tugged the corners of his lips downward as he pondered the best way to phrase what he wanted to say. "Healing takes time. I know after Amelia died, anytime anyone mentioned her or I saw something of hers, or something reminded me of her.. all I could think of was - well - how she looked when she was found. Tossed in a ditch off the side of the road, covered in dirt and mud and left to sit out there and just.. decompose until someone found her. All I could think of was how it was my fault it happened. I didn't want to bring back any memories of her, I didn't want to remember anything or think about it at all because everything about it just hurt. But after a while it got better. It still hurt, of course, but eventually I could think of her and not think of what happened, I could remember her laugh, her smile, the way she'd try to sneak an extra cookie when she didn't think Mom was looking which, of course she knew. I still think about what happened sometimes and how awful it was, but now I usually think of how she was before that," Abel finished with a small half-shrug. "You just need to give yourself time to heal."
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 12:54 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 1:25 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 1:32 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 4:05 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 4:14 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 4:46 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 4:52 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 5:05 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 5:22 pm
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BlackFireKitsune Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2017 5:42 pm
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