Gay Slang

[Belethiel]

As a straight ally who's slowly becoming less shy in this guild, I have more questions and growing curiosity. o3o

I was completely unaware that the PQUILTBAG community had its own slang terms. ... Which is kind of stupid of me, every culture usually comes with its own variation of language. Such as I, I am a nerd, thus I partake in nerdspeak. emotion_awesome

I really do love learning about slang and language in all cultures and nations. So, spout some new definitions for words I already know, and maybe some new words and generally discuss gay slang. :3  

[Wandering Skald]

I was going to post this myself at some point, I just didn't know how to word it well. Brownie points for mind reading!  

[Bigbadbo3]

Bear: Large/Muscular, typically hairy, gay man  

[Esiris]

Lipstick Lesbian: Very Femine lesbian
Butch: Masculine lesbian  

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Uke: Femine gay male
Seme: Masculine gay male
Seke: Can be femine or masculine depending on partner or what ever they feel like.  

[Bigbadbo3]

Pink Dollars: Money spent in a gay owned or operated business, or spent to help a pro-gay cause  

[Bigbadbo3]

"On the down low": Phrase typically used to describe a gay black man who is still in the closet  

[Esiris]

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Uke: Femine gay male
Seme: Masculine gay male
Seke: Can be femine or masculine depending on partner or what ever they feel like.

These also have specific sexual connotations in Japan, Seme is Pitcher, Uke is Catcher, and that doesn't always sync up with gender characteristics IRL.  

[Rainbow Neko Fairy]

Twink - A generally thin, non-muscular, usually small gay male.  

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Esiris

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Uke: Femine gay male
Seme: Masculine gay male
Seke: Can be femine or masculine depending on partner or what ever they feel like.

These also have specific sexual connotations in Japan, Seme is Pitcher, Uke is Catcher, and that doesn't always sync up with gender characteristics IRL.

Well I'm just saying those are slang term used by a lot of people I know, I'm not saying they have to sync up :/  

[Belethiel]

Bigbadbo3

Pink Dollars: Money spent in a gay owned or operated business, or spent to help a pro-gay cause

Huh, that's an interesting one. ^_^  

[Shanna66]

dyke, another term for butch. it can also just be a general insult to women who are into women so know the person before you call them a dyke.

wolf is another term for a gay man, i think its an adult man on the slimmer side, i may be wrong though.

women dont have any cute slang terms like the men do sad  

[Taeryyn]

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Esiris

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Uke: Femine gay male
Seme: Masculine gay male
Seke: Can be femine or masculine depending on partner or what ever they feel like.

These also have specific sexual connotations in Japan, Seme is Pitcher, Uke is Catcher, and that doesn't always sync up with gender characteristics IRL.

Well I'm just saying those are slang term used by a lot of people I know, I'm not saying they have to sync up :/

That isn't what the words really mean, though. A uke is a bottom or the passive partner. Seme is the one giving, and is usually dominant. Passive does not mean feminine, and dominant doesn't mean masculine. It's true that there are other traits usually associated with those types of characters, but that doesn't change the actual meaning of the words.  

[Bigbadbo3]

Shanna66

dyke, another term for butch. it can also just be a general insult to women who are into women so know the person before you call them a dyke.

wolf is another term for a gay man, i think its an adult man on the slimmer side, i may be wrong though.

women dont have any cute slang terms like the men do sad

First time I've ever of "wolf." Huh, 17 year-old gay teen, and I'm still learnin' new slang for my people. xp

Don't worry; everyone knows lesbians are awesome, even the gay guys. heart  

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Bigbadbo3

Shanna66

dyke, another term for butch. it can also just be a general insult to women who are into women so know the person before you call them a dyke.

wolf is another term for a gay man, i think its an adult man on the slimmer side, i may be wrong though.

women dont have any cute slang terms like the men do sad

First time I've ever of "wolf." Huh, 17 year-old gay teen, and I'm still learnin' new slang for my people. xp

Don't worry; everyone knows lesbians are awesome, even the gay guys. heart

Boo Hoo, you're 17 and learning slang, I'm 20 and don't know most XD call me too caught up in school and work.

I really only know a hand full of terms, but I don't get into it much. I'm a versatile uke, but my mate and me take turns being dominate.